If there was one thing...

I wish I wasn't so short-tempered. I also get wound up quite quickly and I really wish I didn't, since I have a habit of saying how I feel and then regretting it.

Body-wise, I kind of wish my boobs were smaller :hmmm: I don't really mind my body though because, well, there's no point in disliking myself :monster:
I've never seen myself as attractive, either, but I guess I should learn to get a bit more confidence. I'm very much lacking in confidence :hmmm:
 
Even though I tend to be nice and attentative around people, there is a likely chance that I can say something rather insensitive without fully realising. It happens when I'm just not thinking straight or/and when I'm overly excited about something. I also have a problem of regularly misquoting people. I assume someone said something when in fact they may have said something completely different.

I don't really have much problems with my body. In terms of size - I do sometimes wish I can grow a bit more. There's also a slight problem that I look considerably younger than my age suggests.
 
Ah yeah I do share common things with all of you then! Especially the short tempered part. I'm also a very impatient person myself. I hate it when thing take forever and like I said those stretch marks...they make me so angry.

I also hate how sometimes I can be mean to other people without realizing it, only because the things they do automatically annoys me. I also dislike my height because I'm 5'3" 1/2 - 5'4". I wish I was at least 5'5".
 
Im short temperd and i wish I took things worth a grain of salt...for me I get mad over stupid stuff...but the worse something is the better I deal with it but I wish mild stuff wouldnt irk me so.
And I know the stretch mark feeling...I got realy fat and then realy skinny so quick I have loverly tons of em so it'll be a rare day in hell I ever go swiming in any sort of bikini.
 
I dislike how short tempered I am, and on the note of short, I am just short of my long-time height goal of an even six feet tall, I am about 5'11 1/2, so aggravatingly close. >.<

It would be nice if I had more patience, perhaps if I was less hyper, then that might help, makes me want to keep a fast pace, whether I can or not (physically, if it is running, generally not. xP).

Also, I dislike how I am so nervous around complete strangers in person, having no idea what they might be like, I guess I really just fear them, but it puts a serious damper on my life, in real life I have zero friends, so I try to make friends whenever I can online here, at least, trying to stay more active and perhaps be less overshadowed that maybe I once was, even if I still am practically unknown to many here.
 
@Kandy - I know right, I tried looking myself, but whatever it's another thread eh =).

Well I guess I'll lay a few things down here, since I wish I could truly change a few things about myself.

Personality: Sometimes I wish I could lose that nice guy attitude. I know people see me as different on the forums, but in real life, I'm a push over when it comes to forgiving folks. Without being declared a psycho I wish I could just shake some sense into people sometimes. I live in a very small minded place down here and there is a lot of ignorance, that folks just don't even want to try to use their brain about. Sometimes I wish I had some sense shaken into me a long time back. Though I'll keep being that nice guy, the one who forgives at the drop of a dime. I've always been like this, and I just hope people don't see it as gutless, but rather a true friend. Now though, if someone steps on the toes of someone I care about.. well that's different story, I'm not afraid to be a straight up ass then.


Mind: I wish I didn't have to write everything down as much and that I was more of an auditory learner not just a visual learner. I know I suffered in school from this when growing up as well, but seriously, I'm a bit hard of hearing (bad genes, not loud music). So you will get a lot of "Huhs" out of me. I'm good with learning numbers, but seriously if someone says to do something as soon as I get home, I have to write it down or make an alarm on my phone just to cue me to remember.

I wish I was as dense as some folks. Some people act so damn happy being ignorant of their surroundings and they get by on so little. I just would love... and I do sincerely mean this.. love to not have to over analyze everything. I've always been a thinker, even if I had social anxiety growing up.. I had to filter my thoughts out with music through the teenage years so I had some resolve. These days I talk mouth loads, but still I see straight through some folks sometimes. I can read folks almost at a scary level and it's almost like I was born with a gift/curse, that I can not use for my own common good. (meh, I'm not special, just good judge of character). The eyes show a lot my friends.


Body: Wish I was slightly taller in the leg area. I have a huge upper body and my legs are a bit stubby. Pants size is a 33 W 30 Length. That should give you some insight, and that kackies never have looked good on me, because it looks like I'm constantly low riding. I can still play sports like the best of them, but there are times where I run a bit fast and I stumbled because of the weight of my momentum is top heavy. Other than that, I have quite a few freckles on my body. And by quite a few, I mean I'm a freckled beast.

I also am terrible with pictures folks. I can only take candid pictures, or pictures when I'm completly toasted from alcohol. Otherwise I'm not photogenic, I blame it on the technology! =) I kid.. But seriously I look different from time to time in pics. But I guess that's not my body that I'm dealing with.
 
This could be a really long post. :hmmm: I'll try to keep it short.

Personality: I'm not a fan of how shy I am. I have gotten much better as I've gotten older, but I still feel like I fall considerably short when it comes to being talktative. But the strange thing is, when I do break the ice for conversation and I find comfort with someone, I don't shut up. I guess I'm not good at being a conversation starter, but once it gets rolling, I make a grand effort to keep it going.

I'm a very patient person, but when I do get out of sorts, it gets pretty bad. I tend to shut down when I get angry or depressed, which makes it nearly impossible to cheer me up. :lew: When I get angry, it's pretty scary as well. People get sort of spooked, including bosses I had in the past, but thankfully it doesn't happen often.

Mind: I'm not a believer that raw intelligence is an asset in life, but I sometimes wished I had a little more. I suppose it's not necessarily overall, but in a few subject areas like writing. I sort of wish it was in my mindset to enjoy reading as well, but again, I don't consider it a major asset in life (enjoyment of leisurely reading, I mean).

Body: I wish I had more natural chest definition. I could work on creating that, but I'm not looking for much and that just takes way too much effort.

I wish my appearence wasn't such that I repel others. My look tends to be one that gives off a vibe of "get the hell away from me, I don't want to bother with you" type of deal. I find a lot of times people find it hard to approach me in a friendly manner because I have that look that I'm angry, even though I rarely ever am. I could make the effort to smile more, but I look silly when I'm immitating a smile. I prefer the natural smile I have which is a result of laughter usually. But others would need to not be repelled for such a thing to happen. Now you understand my dilemma. :ryan:
 
It'd be much faster and more accurate for me to say "everything" and leave it at that. But, since this post needs some content, and because I just love beating myself down:

+ I have absolutely no self-confidence whatsoever. I really hate this sometimes: I'm always second-guessing myself, and as a result I don't get half as much done as I would like to.
+ My inability to see the positive side of things, even when its waving in my face. Whilst this means I'm very rarely disappointed in things when they turn bad - after all, I expected they would - it makes life very dreary sometimes...
+ I hate how erratic my mood can be sometimes. I brood for hours sometimes without really knowing why, or I'll wake up strangely peppy and stay like that all day with no reason for it whatsoever. My mood changes faster than traffic lights...
+ I hate being so skinny. I can put on weight, but I can't get any fatter. I hate my metabolism. My weight has improved, but my size hasn't, and it doesn't really help my self-confidence much, being almost freakin' 2D.
+ I hate my tendency to elaborate on every little thing, as well. I get the feeling I'm boring people, and I don't really need to give people any more reasons to dislike me - there are plenty already.
 
I wish I wasn't so self conscious. Everytime I look at a picture of myself, whether it be good or bad, I find about a hundred things I don't like about it. And it's stupid stuff that people wouldn't notice. I was trying to get a new facebook/myspace picture and I had my boyfriend take several pictures because I wasn't satisfied with any :(

I also hate that I tend to procrastinate way to much. I wish I was one of those people that got things done early.

I hate being a night owl. it doesn't matter how early I woke up that morning, I am always wide awake at night. And I try to go to bed early but I just lay in bed for hours and hours till morning, and then I sleep way to late.


Body wise, I want to tone my body up. Last summer I'd go to the gym religiously but then school started and i spent so much time working on assignments that I didn't have time or was too tired to go to the gym.

I also can't decide if I love or hate my boobs. I'm a D and about 120 lbs. While it's great that they are big, I have to be careful about how I dress or I look much heavier than I am. Tee-shirts are a no for me and aer those cute baby doll tops (I look pregnant). And I have to buy shirts in larger sizes because they are cut for smaller breasts <.< But when I do fine a good outfit, I look great.
 
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- My body. Wish I was slimer.
- Personailty. Wish I had more confidence. I hate it when people try to bully me and when I do defend myself, IM the villian!
- Temper. Needs to be longer lol!
 
Don't complain about being short tempered. After this weekend, I realised that:

- Being a 'goody-two-shoes' - I want to courage to shout at people for doing something wrong/which I don't like.
- Sometimes, I annoy people a lot without realising this.
- I hate being lazy, it cost me grades and my slim figure.

That's the three main aspects of my life that I hate.
 
Hmmm....


Mine would have to be:
Personality-
Shyness- I hate being so shy >.< I have no clue, I just tend to freeze up and get all shy on people so, it's hard for me to talk to people if you will which, leads me to my second thing: Closed off- I tend to be a happy person I really do but, I have so much trouble opening up and really expressing my feelings to others which really bugs me 'cause i know what i want to say but, I just dont end up saying it. =/
Mouth- Now, I don't tend to show it on the forums itself but, I do have a mouth and It gets me in trouble a lot >.< Especially when I was younger.
Lazyness- While I do excersise and go to the gym daily, I dread it. I wish I wasn't so lazy. It'd be a lot easier on myself XD.
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Physically, uhm, I won't mention. too personal but, if I could i would change this one thing too. >.<
 
My laziness. It's normally not to bad, but it could be better I think. I don't know why but i'm just really lazy. Sitting around is one of my favorite pasttimes. Ya know just watching tv with some buds or hanging out, not really doing anything of importance. Does anyone know how to possibly help this?
 
Honestly I can't think of anything major that I dislike about myself.

Personality
I can occasionally be a bit conceited at times but I don't really see that as a bad thing since I'm not delusional about it or anything and it's better than feeling like crap about myself. It's mostly internal too, I'm quite modest when I'm actually conversing with someone.

I wouldn't really say I'm a shy person as I have little problem with public performances and expressing my opinion to people, but I am a bit reserved in the sense that I don't share things that I don't think are worth sharing.

I wouldn't say I'm nice in the sense that I am agreeable and want to be everyone's friend because I think that being 'nice' in this way is a bad thing. But I try my best to be polite and give people a chance.

Body
I'm happy with my appearance. I'm not the fittest bloke but I'm quite energetic, agile and flexible in my back and shoulders.

Mind
I guess my attention span can be a bit of a problem. Paying attention in lectures is difficult if I have even the slightest distraction and reading Uni shit is annoying as my mind wanders incredibly easy. But I still manage to pull pretty decent grades so it's not that big a problem.


I'm far from perfect but I view my flaws as things that make me who I am and since I'm happy with who I am, I wouldn't change anything significant about me.
 
Personality: Everyone knows that I pride myself on being an asshole. However, sometimes I feel guilty if I've really torn into someone. Therefore, I wish I could get rid of that feeling of guilt easier. :hmmm:

Physical: I could do without the fucking facial hair. -__-
If possible, I would wish it gone forever because I hate shaving.

Also, if you've seen my picture, you'll understand. I wish I looked older. I'm fucking 21 years old and look like I'm 16. Shit pisses me off. :rage:
 
Well my body only thing, I dislike is the mole on my face. However it is small, and no one notice's it. It still bothers me.


With personality very awkward with people, even when talking to them online.
I say, and do stupid things, which I always regret later.
Plus i am lazy, and wait until last min to do things.

I would get ride of the stroke I had, when I was young.
However this is only, a side thing which is annoying.

The one major thing I would change with all my heart, the thing i dislike the most is.
SOCCER
You see in the 6th grade, I could already fight on the same lvl as the high school soccer team. This was the thing in which I could pwn major in.
However I became sick still sick today, went on home bound back then, and still on it today, while I am at the end of my 12th grade year. Today my soccer skills would be beating by a kid.
I really loved soccer, and was really good at it.

I am still on home bound, so soccer is long gone.

So this is the thing I would change, would have never become sick.
Who knows where I would be today, if I did not become sick.
 
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I'm sure I have quite a few things, but one in particular I'd change is that I never know what to say to people when I'm trying to make new friends :hmmm: I'm always too serious when I should be casual, or too casual when I need to be serious, and it's really frustrating to not know how to act without people losing interest. Especially when I know I have something in common with them, but don't know how to bring it up >_> It even happens with the clients where I work, it's a pain :mokken:
 
Things about ourselves we should change...

I honestly didn't knew where to post this, so I guess I'll leave it here (that and it's around 3:00 am in the morning in my home so :mokken: )

Anyways, we all have our share of negative things we should change...

If you are one of those people, post a list here. I believe that is the best way to start, to take count of all the things we should change. The first step and the hardest to take.

Things I need to change:
-Learn to control my temper...
-Learn to be more confident...
-Learn to tame my fears...
-Learn to bury the past...
-Have the will to defend my goals...
-Learn to be more sensitive about things...
-Control what I say...sometimes I can easily hurt others...
-Learn not to be a prick when pissed...
-Learn not to be arrogant when pissed...
-Learn to trust others...
-Learn to stop being so negative...
-Learn to apologize AND forget...


I guess that's all for now ;)
 
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