If there was one thing...

I'd probably get rid of the need for money.

Money is the main thing that stresses me out and if there was no need for it, I doubt I'd have any real worries.

I don't know how I'd get things without money, but there seriously needs to be a system in place that allows you to get the things you need or want without any worries.

That's too good to be true though unfortunately.
 
I'd go for people who think they're perfect. Usually those types of people want to jam their ideas down other people's throats. And since they are "perfect" they're would never admit it when they're wrong. Instead they'd get all defensive.

This is usually the case with some "Christians" today, some with the idea that they will always be right and other people are wrong no matter how right or wrong they really are. I wouldn't get rid of the people themselves, but rather their feeling of perfection.

And if I see someone replying with anger and ignorance to this post, I know I hit a sore spot. One filled with nothing but the truth.
 
Nothing.
Whilst I know that I am flawed, like everyone else, I don't see something I'd want to change. I'm good enough looking, and I'm intelligent enough, and I'm perfectly healthy, except that I smoke. I'm happy enough being me, so I wouldn't want to change that. However I do feel, with a growing sense of inevitability, that I'll get married, and have 2.4 kids and become an accountant or something like that. Still, could be worse.
 
My School :brooding:

It has been the driving point of immense stress in my life ever since I started attending it. I sometimes dream that I wake up and it is blow up or something. If it was gone, maybe I could get back the happiness that I lost. I have become a real sociopath ever since I started going there :sad3:
 
Probably my sense of insecurity. I experience it quite a lot and I would prefer to feel a lot more safer about everything going on around me. Then again, you can blame people brandishing knives and guns in this country after all. :hmmm:
 
I have a few things I would eiliminate.

My brother's autism and diabeties, at 8 he can't talk and sometimes its hard to understand him through his gestures and sounds. and its difficult to know if he's going to hypo or not because he can't signal to us if he's going to. It adds extra stress onto the whole family and its something we could all do without. but in a sense, he wouldn't be him without it.

Like stated in the original post, acne. I've had it since i was about 10 and its affected my self esteem so much. I'm constantly paranoid that someone's looking at me like I'm some kind of freak and it makes me feel uncomfortable around people and I feel the need to sit or stand covering parts of my face. I've been bullied and such about it and I hate it.

two other things: war and poverty. world could do without them.
 
I'd get rid of all the times I saw my friend cry. She's the strongest person I know and seeing her cry for me was devastating, especially when there is nothing I can do.
 
Uncertainty.

This is something I've had trouble with. Not that I'm an uncertain person, but if there's something I need an answer for, I hate not knowing it, and it kills me having to wait for the answer a few days. Just because you can't say what the outcome will be.

I hate it. :hmph:
 
Guilt - My family is a big Christian family, and when I tell them I don't believe exactly in what they do, they put me on the spot with it all. I had my Uncle who is marrying me, tell me that usually he wouldn't marry a non christian couple, but since I was family that was the only exception.. Geeee thanks. I feel like not being a Christian makes me distant from the family, in which it does, but.. meh whatever.

Skepticism - To me I've been through quite a lot with A hell of a bunch of people, from past relationships to ending relationships. My natural instinct is to analyze stuff, whether it be small or big, and then if it makes absolutely no sense to me, try to prove that it didn't happen or doesn't exist. I'm the type of person who likes to see it for himself, hence the overwhelming amount of experience I've put myself through in life. I guess that's why I've been through 6 relationships with girls, and had quite a few fall outs of friends. I found out lies, I wish I never did, but honestly.. the skepticism started when I was 16.. because of an event that occurred, that made me not so trusting in folks. Friends can be crappy, what can I say.

Regret - Even if my life is peachy now, I still have regret, even when I say I don't. It's one of those things where you wish you could have been there for someone, but due to inexperience from the circumstance and being so damn young (9 years old) I was too naive. There are some things I wish I had gotten clarity from that would have really pushed my life to how I am now faster. Meaning who I am now, is a totally different person than I was in my teenage years.
 
Paranoia - What can I say...it stinks. You feel that something terrible might come out of something good. For instance, dealing with my mom's papers and visa for the NVC. That took me about 9 months in total to do, and when I finally sent all the documents to NVC a month ago, instead of feeling relieved that I don't have to deal with any more headaches, I walked out of the Post Office with a sick feeling in my gut. I hate it. I just wish I can finally throw my hands up in the air and celebrate or something, but no, my mind goes into turmoil to the point that I constantly worry about it.

And whaddya know, I did get something back from the NVC a few weeks ago saying I'm missing an original marriage certificate (I guess they didn't want just a copy, those bastards...) and being nitpicky about a minor detail in one of the documents, which I had to redo, send it to my mom back in our home country to have her sign, and now currently waiting to get it back from her so I can forward it again to NVC. Paranoia had its reason for creeping to my mind I suppose.


Owl City - Stupid band, that is all. Fireflies are hugging me, aww!-.-


 
My shyness that started when I was 10, don't even know how the hell it started because I wasn't afraid of anything before (communication wise)
Suddenly I was afraid to speak to boys and only talked to my friends. It bothered me for years and now I am 18 I finally feel it disappeared for the most part. Only speaking in public still terrefies me.

And some bad friends in the past who let me fall and made me feel very insecure.
 
Kandy-Sugar said:
I'd probably get rid of the need for money.

Money is the main thing that stresses me out and if there was no need for it, I doubt I'd have any real worries.

I don't know how I'd get things without money, but there seriously needs to be a system in place that allows you to get the things you need or want without any worries.

That's too good to be true though unfortunately.
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I agree with every word of the post, and yes, unfortunately there's always going to have to be money to be having to deal with, so come bills to pay with it... xP I would probably want to eliminate the need of money too, my explanation of that basically being what Kandy-Sugar said before me, so yeah. :monster:
 
There are a lot of problems I'd eliminate from everyone's lives if I could, but personally I would like to get rid of my obsessive compulsive disorder. A lot of people use the term loosely but I have daily issues with it that cause myself and the people around me a lot of problems. I worry about tiny things incessantly and I always feel like if I don't have anything to worry about at the moment, I have to find something new to worry about right away or something bad's going to happen. I worry that bad things are going to happen sometimes if I don't line up objects a certain way on a counter, or if I don't use a certain number of ice cubes, and I'm constantly worried that people don't like me unless they make it obvious that they do. I also take things very personally sometimes and freak out if I can't figure out a way to resolve conflicts with people as soon as they spring up. And a lot of times I'll have random negative thoughts cross my mind and stay in there tenaciously, to the point where I can't concentrate and have to have long discussions with the people close to me until I finally realize that the things aren't real or serious problems. And I'm fully aware of how ridiculous all these things are, but I can't get away from the negative feelings sometimes, it feels literally like an addiction or craving that needs to be satisfied. I know I probably sound like a nut job but this is really the main thing in my life I can think of that I'd like to get rid of, it's really debilitating and it drives me crazy.
 
Things that you dislike about yourself?

Ah, I was just wondering if there was anything that you didn't like about your personality or body. I know a lot of people are insecure about certain things and I know I sure as hell am. For example, I hate how short tempered I get or how the smallest things can bug me. As for body wise, I'm content with my figure and such, but my god I just hate the fact I have stretch marks. I get so insecure about it and I get scared to wear shorter dresses.

Is there anything in particular that bothers you about yourself?
 
Personality wise, I wish I was a bit nicer.

I'm very critical of other people and I don't feel sympathy for anyone much when it's necessary.

I'm also very short tempered and it frustrates me. >.< I'm very impatient. >.<

Body wise, I wish I had bigger boobs. I love my figure, but I can never wear anything that requires you to fill out a dress at the top. =/

I'm seriously considering getting breast implants.

EDIT: I swear there was a topic already on this but I'll have a look for it and merge if necessary. =)
 
Stretch marks... yup. I know the feeling. I don't have many problems with my body (and no, that doesn't automatically mean I'm huge), but those stretch marks just look terrible.

Personality wise, wow. There's a lot that I would change. I'm very paranoid, and I ask a lot of questions without realizing it. I've got a bit of anxiety so most of the time people feel awkward around me. Eh, guess that's just how it is.

I also lash out on people for the smallest things, without getting my facts straight... which ultimately means I need to pay more attention to what I'm saying. I hate that I can be extremely offensive without meaning to be.
 
If there was something about my personality I didn't like, it would be that I feel like I'm a little too condisending. The only things I dislike about my body is that I don't like how big my head is and I wish my hands were bigger. There's probably other stuff wrong with me but I don't really worry about it.
 
This may sound a little weird but I find quite a few things that I dislike about myself. First off I dont think I am good looking at all, I honestly wonder why my girlfriend likes me sometimes. Not to call her shallow, because she isn't but it's just how I feel about myself. I have told her this and she tells my I am too hard on myself but I just dont know how to explain it I just cant escape the feeling that I dont deserve her.

I guess that is another thing, I feel inadequate with myself in a lot of different ways. Its not just my looks, sometimes I dont think about what I am saying at all, and before I know it I have said something I shouldn't have and feel like a complete asshole. And its hard to apologize for it when it happens so often, my girlfriend gets tired of it and we constantly fight. Sometimes it just sucks being me. :gonk:
 
Well here it goes lol, I'd say theres a million things wrong with me but then i would be getting to close to the real number. Im a somewhat socially awkward and find myself just copycating or generalizing for "on the surface" impressions. I'm EXTREMELY lazy, not biggest loser fat but i am a gluton for Taco Bell. I'm the Anti-apathetic whenever i see that someone has a sad face inherently i want to cheer them up (lol but dont have the courage to....yet) The biggest one is my fear of failure, its a HUGE brick wall in my life. But with all that said i'm becoming more and more self aware and gaining some confidence so if anyone out there is under the same handicaps, do what i'm doing (or trying to) Let yourself go...Own yourself :D
 
I really wish I didnt rage react when things arent going my way or defense mode rage react, I do that alot, then regret opening my gob in the heat of the moment, because I KNOW I dont mean what Im saying, but I say it anyway and make my life harder for it :rage:

Maybe wish I wasnt quite so loud.... its not too bad with people who know me, but when i meet new people, il just gab away at them and not really think about what im saying, and I bet i can come across as a right offensive cunt....actually, I offended a Scottish chap last night...cant remember what I said, was probably calling them haggis hurlers or summat...but i didnt mean it offensively....its just the way it comes out :wacky:

i wish my boobs were bigger and my belly was smaller

Thats about it really, not that I think Im perfect or out, but Im me and I cant see myself changing much anytime soon so no point hating on myself over it, though I really am trying to work on the first issue ...:8F:

Oh, I really wish I didnt get fuckign HANGOVERS
 
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