Serious I'm Cursed!

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Okay my life is crappy cause of all the stuff goin on and I can't keep up! It's been this way ever since middle school! It's like a friggin soap opera! Every day I have to go through some new crap that convenintly is just agh! stressful. It's like one of those crappy teens shows that everyone is obsessed with these days....God! I'm so serious about this crap! What am I cursed or something.

I'm always the one to find out somebodys secret...well almost always. Then I have to keep that secret when all of a sudden it comes out anyways...ugh! raaaar! Here is what my day was like today:

My friends Ex-girlfriends is stalking him.
I find out that one of my classmates is gay(his secret).
I already knew that my friend whose ex was stalking him was dating two girls at the same time but somebody told one of them and she was a very good friend of mine!
Someone who I talks to betrayed another one of my friends and now they are going to start a third friend war. I've seen three for the past 4 years, it gets ugly, trust me...
My other friends broke her wrist.
One of my teachers whose supposed to be very mean starts laughing and having fun for no absolute reason at all in my class...


So yea to some that may not be much but in one day it just kills me. It's ona after another...ugh! I can't wait till I graduate this year....

So, who else is tired of drama and crap?
 
Shit happens, people deal with this stuff on a daily basis. It's called life. There will always be people telling you shit you don't want to know, drama is a pain in the arse, but you're young and well, school is full of 'he said she said' shit. As much as I complain about being old, I don't miss that part about my younger years at all. People grow up and you look back and think, what a load of petty bollocks, why did I let it bother me so much? You just get new dramas as you get older :wacky:

Not that that helps, Im such an unhelpful person sometimes, and Im actually trying to be nice:ffs:

At least you're graduating this year :monster:

My friends Ex-girlfriends is stalking him.
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Has he told her to get a grip and do one?

I find out that one of my classmates is gay(his secret)
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No big deal, just don't say anything to anyone as its not your place too, I dont even know why that would even be pissing you off... but maybe that's just me

I already knew that my friend whose ex was stalking him was dating two girls at the same time but somebody told one of them and she was a very good friend of mine!
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That's just messy 8F

Someone who I talks to betrayed another one of my friends and now they are going to start a third friend war. I've seen three for the past 4 years, it gets ugly, trust me...
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Just keep your head down and stay out of it til it blows over, that's what I do. If my friends wanted to bitch about another friend Id just tell them I didnt want to know and Id rather stay out of it. It just gets even MORE messy when more people get involved

My other friends broke her wrist.
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And..? Ive broke my wrist a couple of times too, thats nowt worth stressing over. Its only a broken bone, and you can doodle on the cast. Its a pain when it itches though
One of my teachers whose supposed to be very mean starts laughing and having fun for no absolute reason at all in my class...
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Why the FUCK does that even matter? Maybe he got laid or some shit. WHo cares as long as hes nopt being an arse for once?

You seem to be creating dramas from things that arent there. theres like 2 things on that list that would be pecking head, and that's about it

/essay :mokken:
 
Indeed life''s a bitch lol, you are still young, its best to learn how fake ppl really are as soon as possible, trust me youve seen nothing yet.

thats Life , you just gotta find a way to deal with it.
 
Haha you guys say I'm young but you can't be that much older than me.....Stuff easily stresses me out so....yea...high blood pressure doesn't help.....thanks though! I feels uncursed now....Plus I go through crap like this daily...
 
Thats unfortunate homie but sorry to say things will only get worse, at least it went for me, infact my younger days were the happier times of my life, nowadays Im really in stress, only music and anime seems to ease my heart :P

When you get older you might have the same problems BUT WITH MONEY PROBLEMS :S
thats the real stress to fear LOL but as long as you know yourself who you really are then you will maintain, believe in yourself mate, what other ppl think is not important, sometimes you just have to accept that what other people do are their business, dont get involved. each has his own life.
 
None of that is anything that should really affect you; it's all stuff that's happening to other people. Keep your head down and just let other people deal with their own problems. At the end of the day there's nothing you can do.
 
Most of the time it gets better when you get older; at least it did for me.

I went through the same thing (although I wasn't a very dramatic person in the first place. it was always my friends creating the drama). Once you graduate high school and go your separate ways, whether it's working, college...people's priorities are going to change. When that happens, drama usually reduces or just transforms into new issues such as things related to work or advancing your education.

Drama will never go away completely; that is, unless you really want it to. I believe that a person can easily avoid drama by not caring about it and focusing on what matters most to them. It is ridiculous to assume that drama is unavoidable in most situations. Sometimes, you just can't escape it, but all of the drama I read in your post Oliver sounds like it's typical teenage behavior, which is natural.

You're at a time in your life where social influences matter the most; therefore, your friends are going to have a significant impact on your life in ways as you explained.

If you really want to take a break from it, then just do so. You can always turn off your cell phone. You can always be invisible on MSN or AIM. Don't pay attention to the status updates on your Facebook or Myspace. Don't allow yourself to get involved if it's really stressing you out, as you say it is. You have only yourself to blame if you don't make a serious effort to eliminate what stress you know is doable.

It's simple to just worry about yourself, even if you may think it's not.

These don't sound like life-threatening situations. Your friends won't hate you if you need a moment to worry about you and you only.
 
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I think the majority of people go through some sort of soap opera when they're in their teenage years...or someone close to them does, at least, which usually means they end up getting involved in some way or another as well. My advice would be to sit back, relax, and enjoy the show. Other people's issues don't have to be yours as well...just let them get on with it~
 
He, he, he!!!

There's drama where I am, too, but you just have to deal with it, or give up. It doesn't get easier, at least not when I look at my famliy, but you have to do it. It's life, and it can be great or it can be awful. A lot of it is what you make it. Try looking at things in a less serious light, it's always helped me.

The whole soap opera thing is so true. I remember, a few years ago, I had alot going on at school, and then my great uncle tried to shoot himself, my cousin stopped going to school, and my grandfather died. My aunt threw a fit about the funeral, I cried alot, but eventually I got over it all. You've just got to stick in there. And then my other cousin said her boyfriend raped her. All in a week. I was crazy.

Anyway, I prefer life with drama, then life without. It would be really boring then.
 
Oliver, how in particularly are you cursed bud? I mean these are all occurrences happening to other people, they have nothing to do with you in general. I am not trying to sound harsh.. but you seem to be avoiding the drama actually, so I don't see any problems here.

People will always be screwing each other over until the day they die. So I hope other people's problems aren't bogging you down. There will always be drama.. always, some a lot more so than others.. especially on this forum now and again.

So I'd say.. Live it up homie. It's your senior year it sounds like, go ahead and start living life instead of worrying about other people.
 
i only have a few set words of advice to give, and i hope that you take them to heart: live, and let live.
 
Wow....Okay! You guys are right! I'll just go through life and try not to get into stuff...but it's so hard not to. (I'm an aspiring journalist so I learn alot of facts very quickly) Anyway. I'll live my life and time will go one....Exactly how am I cursed? There's always some big horrible event that happens in my life at least once a month. Come to think of it....I was arrested about this time last year...But they let me go cause It wasn't my fault.....Yea crappy things tend to happen often to everyone....But it sometimes angers me to see so many other people without a care in the world....ugh...
 
You can't live your life envying other people who get off Scott free or else you will be feeling like shit constantly.

If you don't want the drama in your life, try to limit it. It's not difficult no matter how much you think it is. The least you can do is give yourself a little room to breathe. Don't you agree?
 
OliverSKX said:
My friends Ex-girlfriends is stalking him.
I find out that one of my classmates is gay(his secret).
I already knew that my friend whose ex was stalking him was dating two girls at the same time but somebody told one of them and she was a very good friend of mine!
Someone who I talks to betrayed another one of my friends and now they are going to start a third friend war. I've seen three for the past 4 years, it gets ugly, trust me...
My other friends broke her wrist.
One of my teachers whose supposed to be very mean starts laughing and having fun for no absolute reason at all in my class...
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Firstly none of these things seem to involve you directly. So I can't see a problem with it to be honest. If it is only these kinds of things which bother you then I don't think it is much to worry about. I'll bet that in a few years time you will look back on these problems and realize how pointless it was to worry about them (sorry if I'm coming off as insensitive by the way).

Look at it this way, at least you're not bored. Plus you will have a few stories to tell people when this is all finished. :monster:
 
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