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... I'm sure most of us have said or thought this at some point, myself included, but do you actually HATE anyone or have 'enemies'?

I know that there's nobody I hate... in fact, I can't even think of anybody who I just really dislike. I mean sure, there are people who I don't LIKE but at the same time I don't dislike them, and people who annoy me quite a bit like certain friends of friends, but I'm still friendly to them if they talk to me because at the end of the day they haven't done anything wrong... they just get on my nerves a bit is all. And if somebody is kind of nasty then I just don't bother worrying about them and just get over it, I'm not the kind of person to stir up drama.

What does 'hate' even mean to you, is there a big difference between hating somebody and just disliking them?
I think hate is much stronger (obviously) and you would have to kind of know a person well to really hate them, there'd need to be some kind of serious mistrust and stuff. And I think it's more permanent too, and more difficult to get over. If you dislike somebody it's usually quite easy to change your opinion on them as long as you're not too stubborn, but if somebody you really hated tried to change then you'd probably be less willing to let the feelings go or think that they're up to something, if you get what I mean. <_< So basically, just like love but with the complete opposite types of feelings linked. But like I said, there's nobody whom I hate so I don't really know, I'm just in a rambly thought tangent mood. >_>
 
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To sum me up I don't hate people... But I sometimes hate actions that people do.

There are good aspects in everybody, even if buried behind a face that you might completely disagree with. I've learned that a lot of peoples lives is just an act they put on to blend in and find their place in the world so a lot of their bad actions are sometimes extreme ways of fitting into this.

We all have our qwerks and faults and I don't like people to hate me because of mine without bothering to see the real me and so I do the same thing for other people. Everyone has value and doesn't deserve hate even if people don't know how to show their good aspects, and even if they have nothing in common with you and like the opposite things. They were just raised in an environment on the other side of the fence, that is all.

That said I use the word "hate" loosely as does everyone these days... And occassionally I might let slip that I hate someone but almost always it is refering to an action or collection of actions someone has done that I dislike as opposed to hating the person altogether. I come to respect most people I come into contact with.
 
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I've said it loads and in the heat of the moment, I'l of meant it, I get FAR too angry sometimes xD

I can't say there are many people I hate. I don't think I particularily hate ANYONE at the moment, although I have hated people to the point the mere mention of their names make my blood boil. Couple of girls at school etc. Couldn't give a monkies now mind, years ago and all that, most recently the ex who I HAVE finally stopped hating, like years later. He was a cock though. And yes, I really DID hate him to the point I was wishing a slow painful and miserable death on him. I could sit and rant about him for hours and not get bored.......

But atm, Im feeling quite mellow :monster:
 
I say it all the time but I think there's only really one person I actually hate for personal reasons, to the point I would actually like to see him die a horrible death because I genuinely feel the world is a better place without people like him, but that's not for here. Others I couldn't really give 2 shits about or just write it off easily after a while. I'm not one to hold grudges.
 
There is only one person who I could say I hated and that was due to things he did in the past. But I haven't seen him for years, so I have come to realize that it is not only pointless but kinda pathetic for me to keep hating him for what he did so long ago. He has probably changed since I last saw him (at least I hope he has) so I have pretty much gotten over it.

There a lot of people who rub me the wrong way. But I can't really say I hate anyone at this point in my life.
 
I don't hate anyone, even though yes I've said things loosely, but do I actually mean it? Not at all. As agreed, hate is such a strong word and I honestly don't feel strongly about anyone in that way. I may dislike some people but moreso regarding their attitude, not exactly for who they are. But then again, I don't actually dislike anyone at the moment either. I think it's more of the fact that people tend to get in our nerves and we mistake that for a very strong dislike (hate, even), when it's probably not even that extreme. Emotions can heighten in just a snap of a finger and we sometimes we let that grow into something that shouldn't even be worth looking into. Of course, this all depends on the individual. Some people do have a good reason to hate others and that's something I have witnessed in the past and actually agreed and thought, "Yes, if I were you I would hate that person too." But that's another story.


 
I have said 'I hate you' before and meant it and other times I haven't.

I have had the worst luck with guys and two of them hurt me so bad that I really just hated them.

Most people are lucky to remain friends with their ex's because they broke up mutually or whatever.

I had my ex's and their mates doing burn outs on my lawn, calling me all the time to harass me, stealing my car and smashing it up so that it had to be written off, defaming my name etc.

So yes I hate two people to be exact and they are both my ex's and both did what I mentioned above.

I will never forgive them. Things like that are too horrible for anyone to go through and they didn't even feel guilty about it. I never even did anything to cause any of it. They were just really bad people and I didn't realise it until the end unfortunately.

They were my enemies for a very long time until the police got involved. I haven't heard from either of them since then and I hope it remains that way. <_<
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EDIT: Omg! I only posted this about 7 hours ago and after an age of no contact (with the people I was just talking about in here) I get them messaging me on the internet! Speak of the freaking devil! :gasp:

Apparently it's one of the guys 21st and him and his mates thought it would be funny to flame me. Calling me a hoe and such. I am no such thing. <_< I hope they die a slow and painful death.

God knows why flaming me would be a fun thing to do on your 21st! o_0 =/
 
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^ What a fantastic way for someone to spend their 21st birthday! How witty of them! Idiots.

Anyway, I fling around the phrase "I hate" more times than enough, but really I don't hate that many people. Sure, I wish they'd shut up and / or get off various high horses, but I don't really wish bad things on anyone...despite saying that I do, quite often.

Like Mitsuki said, emotions can heighten instantly, and cause people to say things when they're angry but not what they necessarily feel. I think being talked down to is the thing that makes me say I "hate" someone, as it's one of my biggest irritations ever, as really, there's no need for it.

I think there are only two people I genuinely really hate though. One of them used to be one of my best friends, who I later realised was a very toxic individual, using me whenever she had nothing better to do, and generally slagging off other people for no apparent reason, and then claiming to be the victim. Since going to college, I've cut her completely out of my life, as I realise now that she's an attention-seeking moron and that she deserved everything that happened to her. The other person I hate, I hate because of their ego problem. Used to be really good friends, but then hello ego, bye bye fun personality, really, just need to be knocked off their high-horse and smooshed tbh. Until then, I can't stand to listen to them, or even try to talk to them at all.

As for everyone else who I say I "hate" it's just things about them that irritate me to no end - being talked down to, ego problems, people-users, etc. I don't "hate" these people, but I certainly don't like them.
 
I don't hate anybody, there's those I dislike but that's it. If somebody does do something that could warrant my hatred, I just cut them out completely, think nothing atall of them, rather than having a really strong emotion toward them.
 
I hate a few people. >.> But they just deserve it.

Sometimes I say and do mean things to some people I don't necessarily hate (like today, and I'm feeling like crap right now), but it's on the heat of the moment. But there are some people I know that when I look at them I just think "ugh, die in a freaking fire" or something. >.>

I have issues, but overall I'm normal. *twitch* :wacky:
 
I've only hated one person in my life as far as I'm aware and that's because he was an utter cunt in Secondary School, and thankfully he's fucked off to some other college where I don't even have to look at him, he's just one of those people no matter how hard you try, you just cannot like >.>
He was hated by most though as far as I'm aware, even his friends only pretended to like him then slagged the hell out of him when he wasn't there. 8D
 
Well Jane said it right, you have to know someone really really well in order to hate someone to be honest. I never thought I would hate someone, because after all I hardly dislike anyone to be honest. I give my trust out very freely at a friendship level, but anything after.. it might be hard to dig out of me. There is only one typical dislike I have in people and that is Lying. Nothing worse than a liar.

Hate to me though is very deep seeded. It is something irreparable, something that scars you emotionally in ways in which change your entire perspective not only on that person, but maybe of people in general. Since I have only hated one person, I can not speak for others, but I will say there is nothing, and I do mean nothing that could get me to acknowledge this person ever again. It makes me want to go back and wish I never met the asshat.
 
I think there's a big difference between hating someone and just disliking them. For me, disliking someone would be "Ugh, she is so annoying. Everytime she's around she starts yapping about herself." or "I can't stand him. He's so arrogant."

To hate someone would indicate very strong, negative feelings about someone. Really over-flowing with anger.

I've felt that, yes. I used to hate my dad when I was in highschool. He really made me feel like he didn't want me around. Eh. It's an old issue, let's not go there. But still, I think I felt the difference.
 
Hate is a strong emotion, heard people say that it has just the same strength as love, in terms of how you feel about a person. Which is why I don't hate anybody. If someone does something or really gets to me - they are cut out, or the problem is sorted out. There are plenty of people who I dislike, but I won't bother with them atall. I'd rather not surround myself with negative emotions. Just move on, away from that person.

I don't believe in revenge, either for that matter. Why let somebody get to you that much?
 
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