Serious Fuck everything..........

[Rey]

The worst day of my life was today.... I got bitched at in college by some of the office staff and they told me there gonna Trace my ass from now on.... I fucking fought with them to no end (including teachers) I fucking hate going there now and all my friends think I am stupid for doing this. All of the office hates me now so im a fucking BAD OMEN Now.... I told literally every fucking person in the office today to go die and have a fucking painful Death. Result of this might get me kicked out... Fuck them all.... My world ed teacher gave us a fucking new project today and I gave her the finger.... Now... my.... life .... is in danger. My parents took half of my money away and now im thinking of..... (nothing left) Now.. I have a fucking Tracer..... Also fought over the phone with my gf because I was pissed..... So what remains in life...... Classes are fucking BAD NOW! Now. I won't have enough money to go back to Italy next year ....... So XIII and then it ends...... or wil it?....... I also am crying. Help

 

[Nocturne]

What is this about exactly? That was very vague

 

[Rey]

Its about maybe getting kicked out of college... They think im up to something. Oh yes I did not mention the fact that I am failing some classes. Most notably world education and Math. If I get kicked out its over really. I wil be in a hellhole.... I don't know how I wil go tomorrow tbh. Ugh... Its really BAD

 

[Burmecianblue]

What happened to arouse their suspicions? Is it alright for you to say?

 

[Talbain]

Seriously, getting upset isn't gonna help anyone. Go in with a smile, be willing to cooperate and comprise, and good things will happen.


DON'T WORRY.



BE HAPPY.

 

[Rey]

Well sometimes I skip class because its either boring or its world education class. I got called down today and they just started bitching at me. They told me I could get kicked out but I hope I don't. I have images of faces from there in my head everyday. My fists want to hurt them...

 

[Talbain]

Then just stop skipping classes. At least make an effort to show up, to let them know you're trying.

Or if you don't care, drop out. It's up to you.

Either way, do what makes you DON'T WORRY BE HAPPY, because life will work out better in the long run.

 

[SaShman]

Dude just go to your classes and try to behave it's not that fucking hard. You say that you are failing World Ed yet you keep skipping it. At least try putting in some fucking effort.

Well sometimes I skip class because its either boring or its world education class. I got called down today and they just started bitching at me. They told me I could get kicked out but I hope I don't. I have images of faces from there in my head everyday. My fists want to hurt them...

I'm sorry but the teachers sound like they were just doing their job. I'll admit that kicking you out of college would be quite harsh but dude if your gonna threaten them they really have every reason to boot you out.

No matter which way I look at it YOU are in the wrong here and if there's one thing I hate it's when people constantly see themselves as the victim and can't realize when they have done something wrong. Why don't you take a step back and try to look at the situation rationally instead of fantasizing about hurting them.

My world ed teacher gave us a fucking new project today and I gave her the finger.

It's her job of course she is going to hand out assignments and she doesn't deserve the finger for it. I know questions about your age have been brought up in the past but I find it hard to believe that you are as old as you say you are. Either way it seems like you have some growing up to do.

I won't have enough money to go back to Italy next year

I seriously doubt your family would leave you stranded in a foreign country.

Admittedly I don't know you that well but I think that you generally mean well. I'm sorry if it seems like I am trying to pick on you but seriously you needed to hear that. No amount of reassuring will help you, you need to realize that you are in the wrong here. If you don't get kicked out of college try to behave, be polite, attend classes and put in some effort. If you get frustrated with your teachers just keep it to yourself. Anyway good luck.

 

[Dionysos]

I'm sorry to hear that you're under a lot of stress at college at the moment. Giving out death threats is usually not a very good step to take though. That's just giving them a reason not to be fair and reasonable with you and kick you out for good, which I don't think you want. If it gets too messy, and the threat very extreme, they might even get the police involved, so it is probably best to keep those thoughts inside, or get help with anger management, and not let things like that slip into conversation with your teachers.

I think you need to take a step back, cool down, and reflect on what has happened. I know it is hard to cool down sometimes, and saying to someone that needs to cool down to cool down tends to do the opposite, but it is what you need to to do in order to decide how you want to act and what you want to do in the future. It is incredibly hard to function when you are blinded with rage.

School / college / university can be very stressful at times, especially when they give out projects, assignments, essays or when there is an exam ahead. If you feel unprepared for this project you should discuss it with your tutors, or with whatever they have there that can / might help you. If you go in there and talk with them about your concerns they might listen and give advice if you feel like you are way over your head. It's another thing they are meant to be there for. This might be harder to do now that you have given them death threats, but perhaps if you do just ask calmly, apologise, or show that you didn't mean it and were just really angry with everything, they might be able to see what they can do to help you.

And don't think that your life ends with FFXIII. There will always be something else that interests you round the corner. Keep in mind also that, even if everything gets messed up at college, that isn't the end of the world. It'll be a struggle and a blow, but there are other paths to take in life. There might be other colleges that will accept you, or you might want to take a completely different direction.

Try your best to put things right at your current college, if you have concerns about deadlines and workload then go speak to your tutors. Try and hang in there, and I hope it all works out.

 

[blakstang98]

The worst day of my life was today.... I got bitched at in college by some of the office staff and they told me there gonna Trace my ass from now on.... I fucking fought with them to no end (including teachers) I fucking hate going there now and all my friends think I am stupid for doing this. All of the office hates me now so im a fucking BAD OMEN Now.... I told literally every fucking person in the office today to go die and have a fucking painful Death. Result of this might get me kicked out... Fuck them all.... My world ed teacher gave us a fucking new project today and I gave her the finger.... Now... my.... life .... is in danger. My parents took half of my money away and now im thinking of..... (nothing left) Now.. I have a fucking Tracer..... Also fought over the phone with my gf because I was pissed..... So what remains in life...... Classes are fucking BAD NOW! Now. I won't have enough money to go back to Italy next year ....... So XIII and then it ends...... or wil it?....... I also am crying. Help

Dude, you really need to relax. I think your anger issues are reaching a new level. I understand being stressed out in life and all, but just because a teacher throws you a project or gets angry that you're skipping class, it doesn't give you the right to tell them to die or want to hurt them. Believe me, I've had my share of asshole teachers in my time, but if I ever said what you said, I would surely be spending a week in jail, if not more. I'm not sure what you can do to cheer yourself up, but you need to find your happy place and visit it frequently because this is getting out of hand.

 

[Amizon]

Being angry isn't the solution here.

I was in a similar position myself six years ago. I let my anger get the better of me and then I got on the wrong side of the law. Thankfully, I came out of there alive.

What I'm trying to say is to not be angry about everything. If you're skipping classes and failing, that's not good. I don't mean to be harsh here, but you should make the effort to go to your classes. I know that I used to hate my classes in college, but I still forced myself to go whether I liked them or not. You shouldn't have made any death threats either, it could cause them to kick you out.

What I think the best thing for you to do now is to spend some time alone and reflect on what's happened. Try to calm yourself down, find a distraction for a while to think everything over and come up with a solution of how you'll sort things out.

 

[Shu]

Hmmmmm Adri..

Let me put this blunt, the failing part needs to be addressed first. Are you failing? If so do you think you need a counselor? Do you think you need some outside help from teachers?

Why are you failing? Are you playing to many video games?

Your parents are worried about you first of all, and in order to see to you concentrating on your studies they might be trying to take some privelages away. I mean I think the overall thing is they want you to suceed. College is no joking matter. If you don't make it out and you spend a good sum of money, you are left without a degree for one, and two.. you wasted thousands and thousands of dollars.

So Honestly.. you need to calm down and get back to the books. You need to ask the teacher if you can get help. If you are giving teachers the middle finger, you need to be failed though. That's being blunt. They are good people most of the time trying to teach.. if you don't give them anything to work off of then you are either not showing up for classes, or goofing off.

You need to understand your parents form of discipline, I don't think they are trying to leave you hanging.

 

[Linnaete]

Adri - please try and understand your own errors here. Blaming your teachers and people around you just isn't helping your situation whatsoever. You're being really unreasonable to your teachers so it is no surprise that you're being seriously reprimanded for this.

Oh yes I did not mention the fact that I am failing some classes.

Well sometimes I skip class because its either boring or its world education class.

If you are skipping classes - you're not being up to date with the course! So it's no surprise if you're falling at the bottom! I know lessons are boring - heck, who doesn't? I despise my Critical Thinking and my History lessons because they are unbelievably dull, but I know that I have to attend these lessons! I have no choice.

If I want to pass my exams and move on to somewhere good for higher education, then it is an essential part of life. I realise that I need to put the effort to do this and have school/college take a greater priority over other aspects of my life so far. You should do so as well. I'm sorry if it seems like I'm telling you off, but I want to help you here, hun!

I fucking fought with them to no end (including teachers)

I told literally every fucking person in the office today to go die and have a fucking painful Death.

I'm sorry Adri - but I see no reason in doing that. You've just let anger control you without rationally assessing the situation and thinking about whether or not what you're doing is right. There's no reason to fight teachers and classmates and there's no reason to tell them to die. You've done something to warrant being told off and it's not fair to retaliate like that.

My world ed teacher gave us a fucking new project today and I gave her the finger

Why did you do that? It's part of the course - it's her job to do that and prepare your class! I've received a lot of coursework as well - and I don't like it - but I know that I must grin and bear it! I wouldn't put up my middle finger at my teacher because I understand she isn't doing it to torture us.

I won't have enough money to go back to Italy next year

Your parents may not be pleased with you, but no way will they leave you stranded! You can't assume things like that!

Please understand Adri that you can't let unreasonable anger take over like that! I hope you can patch things up! You need to talk to people in the future - how about your teachers? I'm sure they'll be more than happy to talk to you about your problems. I've had my share of problems in the past as well and I've learnt how useful it is to talk to people.

 

[The Illusive Man]

What I'm going to say is not going to be very nice but I feel its for your own good, so please dont take it as another person getting on your back but a friend trying to offer you guidance.

Skipping classes and giving out death threats wont get you anywhere, in fact its actually very immature to do such a thing and it may land you in a place far worse than getting kicked out of college, It may get you into bother with the police!

You really need to take a step back, take a deep breath and think about what your doing, every action you make at the moment without thinking could potentially increase the amount of issues you make for yourself, so STOP getting worked up and THINK before you act.

The first thing you need to do most of all is appologise to your tutors, explain to them you have been under a lot of stress at home and the pressures of college combined are making things difficult for you. You need to understand the tutors are NOT out to fail you, they dont get payrises for fails, like all teachers there pay salary is deducted by success rates and the more pupils they pass the better there pay so its in there best interests to help you.

Tutors are also usually very understanding, remember everything you are going through, chances are they have been through it, but if your going to act like an unrully teenager, thats what you will be treated like, speak with them as an adult and they will treat you with the same respect as they would give to an adult.

Secondly, STOP skipping classes, if your struggling, make it known to your tutor! They will do whatever they can to help you! If you dont seek there help, they wont know you need it, to shout at them is not going to get you anywhere.

And thirdly, Learn to walk away from arguments! The path your walking down is a dark and lonely road, you need to learn to vent your anger in other ways, such as physical exercise, shouting, screaming and being physical with loved ones will only lead to abandonment and resentment.

Hopefully you took this advice on board, remember I'm not saying this to get at you, I'm telling you this as a friend because I dont like the direction you are heading in, so Sort yourself out!

 

[SapphireStar]

Please, calm down. When I was at college, I got reported cause I didnt attend my IT classes. i kept coming to blows with the teacher, so I skipped them. I didnt tell anyone, got into trouble and was told to sort myself out! I didnt argue as I knew it was my fault and it was just his class I skipped, no on elses. I hope you can get this sorted, but to do that you need to calm down and start from the begining. Youre like me, you can get alittle hot headed lol, not meaning that in a nasty way. But you get upset easily. This does nothing to help at all.

Just breathe and see if you can talk to the college staff. Apologise and mean it. No one likes death threats and these peopl are going to be the ones helping and teacvhing you. Listen to what they have to say and be calm about your side of the story. Sit in thses classes and listen to the boring stuff, it shows you give a shit and youre not a waste of time. Please dont blow this. Good luck.

 

[Rey]

Thanks guys I really appreciate all of this. On wednesday even though half of my world education class will be on the Europe Trip Im still going. Ya the finger was not the first thing on my mind. It was actually to scream fuck off to my world education teacher. Ya I was being stupid ill admit that but now Im paying the price. Yeah its her job to give us projects but SHE GIVES ON ALL THE Freakin time.. Oh and the tracer will not be going on me till after spring break. Im gonna try and convince them not to Trace me but we will see what happens. Im Only failing world education which I DONT need but apparently its an extra course that I cant take out. Also Math is one of my big problems too... I decided to go today and it was not that bad. The main problem now is the tracer which I DONT WANT. Im gonna talk to the staff from now on in a clean matter. Oh and my life ont end with Final Fantasy XIII Argie is right there is still more things in life and paths I need to take like maybe one day coming to see some of my friends on here. So I have a powerpoint project for English due March 10th (gonna be hard to go and give it cause of XIII). I have a new orld ed project due the 12th of March and A project of French that will be till the end of the semester. Its not because im playing too much video games and I rarely go on now. I might go in for like 4 or 5hours of MW2 but thats it. I really need to think all of this over. Death threats on the other hand are bad and like all of you said it ont help me but The staff over there are just weird and sometimes cruel. Not going to Italy to see my beloved "her" will piss me off though but I did talk to my parents and they feel sorry for me. Maybe they will give me the money back in 2 eeks or 3 weeks.. That all depends on how I behave over at college. Im not the type who is an ass and dresses like one. I like my friends over here but yeah some of em have there ways. Olivia I like they way you put it <3 thanks so much.. Oh and Ami I am alone right now on the forum and I think its the best place to chill for now. Thanks guys. I hope hat happened yesterday never happens again...

 

[Joyful Blue]

Then just stop skipping classes. At least make an effort to show up, to let them know you're trying.

This. You can mince words as much as you like but at the end of the day it's up to you to go to these classes, if you don't then it's their job to get on your back. Plenty of people know how stressful it can be for stuff like this and people handle it differently but really if you're not even going to attend this stuff they have every right to be annoyed at you. Show them you mean business; go to class and start upping your grades then they'll back off.

 

[Valvalis]

Glad things seem to have lightened up at least a little bit for you since your first post School sucks, it really does, there's no way around it. I always hated it, but really the easiest way to get through is to just play along until you're out of it, even if it seems like they're being unfair. After all, if you have to repeat any classes it will just waste more of your time, and if you're going for a degree that's going to help you get a good job, the sooner you get it, the sooner you can make loads of cash to travel with

Anyway, good luck, and hope things work out for you

 

[Amizon]

Yeah, it's good to see things have picked up a bit. As for your work, I'd put FFXIII aside for now. I have assignments coming up around then as well, so I've got to do that as well until my Easter break in the middle of March. Other than that, you should be good to go.

 

[Coco]

When you're getting pressured, it's best to think before giving in to anger. Ask yourself if reacting like this would do you any good or if it'll just get you into more trouble before you proceed. Be smart about your emotions.

Glad to know things have looked up for you since then. Just try to maintain a nice balance between academics and fun time. :dave: