I find myself on here alot, airing my dirty laundry, but you guys help me out so much and I can't really tell anyone around me right now, so here goes.
The other day my boyfriend went and said that he fancied someone else....
Now if he said he thought that she was hot or whatever, fair play, but FANCIED, that's like a high school kind of crush phase now. He insists he loves me and only me, but this just really worries me, especially as this girl works where both my boyfriend and I work. Also she has like a string of guys at work that fancy her as well, and now my boyfriend is on that list, it angers and upsets me.
I love my boyfriend and trust him 100% I mean he honestly told me this himself, I dunno but I wish he didn't tell me this, cos I'm angry upset and worried all at the same time, and I don't know what I'm going to do about this girl either, as I actually like her.
I've just got a lot of questions right now, like is it ok to fancy someone when you're in a relationship? Or is it that if you REALLY love someone, your eyes wouldn't want to wander anywhere else? Because I've been in this relationship for over 2 and a half years, and I haven't "fancied" anyone else. So it just baffles me.
I mean I'm not gonna break up with him over this, as he isn't cheating on me or anything, but I just don't know what to do about this situation, it's just not what I need right now....
The other day my boyfriend went and said that he fancied someone else....
Now if he said he thought that she was hot or whatever, fair play, but FANCIED, that's like a high school kind of crush phase now. He insists he loves me and only me, but this just really worries me, especially as this girl works where both my boyfriend and I work. Also she has like a string of guys at work that fancy her as well, and now my boyfriend is on that list, it angers and upsets me.
I love my boyfriend and trust him 100% I mean he honestly told me this himself, I dunno but I wish he didn't tell me this, cos I'm angry upset and worried all at the same time, and I don't know what I'm going to do about this girl either, as I actually like her.
I've just got a lot of questions right now, like is it ok to fancy someone when you're in a relationship? Or is it that if you REALLY love someone, your eyes wouldn't want to wander anywhere else? Because I've been in this relationship for over 2 and a half years, and I haven't "fancied" anyone else. So it just baffles me.
I mean I'm not gonna break up with him over this, as he isn't cheating on me or anything, but I just don't know what to do about this situation, it's just not what I need right now....