I don't like you

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I'm sure everyone has had someone in their lives say that them before, how did it make you feel and did you ask why that person said that to you?
Did you ever try and speak to that person after a certain amount of time has passed and do they like you now?


Its not a good feeling when a person says it to me, there were times where i would try to talk to that person and ask why they felt that way towards me. Most of the time they would just pretend i didn't exist and not respond at all. It still happens and i just don't bother finding out why anymore. People are stubborn and i don't bother waste time in trying to figure out why they won't listen to reason.
 
This girl said that to me before, out of the blue, too. She said it because I was always quite and thus she labeled me as a loser and told everyone she didn't like me. I really didn't care, as she could eff off, but it did hurt me that one time. I was kind of depressed that day :sad3:
 
When I was a little kid (I think about 6) one of my friends on the street said that she didn't like me. I went home crying. About a day later we were best friends again.

Senior year of high school, I felt really distant towards a girl in my group of friends. We'd hang out, but only if everyone else was there. I never really talked to her personally. So I tried talking to her one day to get to know her better and to get closer. But she had no interest in that. One day she finally just said that she really did not like me and that she was only willing to be around me because we had the same friends. I honestly do not know why she didn't like me. I do not think I ever did anything to upset her. But it was probably just a personality thing. Well of course, I was pretty upset at the time because I was used to just about everyone liking me and she was the first person that I ever knew of that did not like me. (And I'm sure there were others, but I never paid attention to it.) And of course, right then I decided that I hatede her. Now, I look back and laugh and I can appreciate her honesty.
 
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Between November and March, i get told basically that by approximately 5000 people every week. If not more. I referee high school basketball, you see, and every time I blow my whistle, I piss off 50% of the gym. Which is fun times.

But in real life, I don't know that I've ever gotten that, tbh. I'm sure there are people who dislike me, but no one's ever had the balls/common courtesy to tell me as much.
 
Well there was a time a 3ish years ago that I recall where me and my dad got in a huuuge agurement and I dunno if it was the heat of the moment or not but he said he didn't care about me(which is the same concept) that he was ashamed that I was his daughter and how when I was 18 i'd be kicked to the curb right away and how he didn't want to see me anymore. It hurt because me and my dad were always tight. I was just giving him my thoughts about his girlfriend and I guess I said something wrong (that or he took it the wrong way) but then he was saying how I didn't want him happy etc. Which is totally invalid I just didn't like her at all she just didn't seem like a good girlfriend. The next few days was very awkward and I just kindof avoided him in a way just because I know my dad and he'll be mad for a few days. =/ I stayed with my friend for a few days and when I got home he said sorry and whatnot but he totally crossed the line. I love my dad and everything but you just don't say things like that to your own daughter no matter how mad your at them. He just yells and yells when he doesn't like what he hears and it doesn't help at all. But I don't tend to hold grudes so I forgave him and we're cool now =)
 
I remember this boy I used to really like back at highschool, and I used to get really embarassed to be around him (the whole cheeks going bright red thing) we used to have a lot of the same classes together and he would sit next to me a lot.

So one day I finally got the courage to ask him what he was doing after school, and he flat out said "oh woah, I only sit near you in class because your a swot, I actually dont like you"...

At the time I felt pretty heartbroken, but I realised he was nothing but a Jerk and he would get what was coming to him....lets just say the last I heard of him, he was in the unemployment line drawing a dole check every week.
 
no one has ever told me to my face that they didn't like me, though i was called ugly once by a girl after a particularly bad haircut. in response i shrugged and walked away. i think i made her feel bad, as wierd as that notion is, cause she couldn't look me in the eye after that, bad hairdo or not.

a few years before that incident, back in 7th grade, there was a girl i liked (long black hair, face of an angel <at the time>, slender-but-curvy-body, and kind of shy). i finally got the courage to talk to her one day, and as soon as i went up to her, she said "get the hell away from me!". I don't recall how i spent the rest of that day. Funny enough, she never talked to me even in high school when we shared classes. didn't particularly bother me at that point though, and she ended up with a face full of severe acne that lasted all of her remaining school years. karma, is all i can say about that.
 
I frankly get more offended by it if people tell me online that they don't like me rather than in person. I mean at least in person I KNOW you don't like me, I can already tell that the minute we start talking and you shift nervously away from me or you take note of how my awful sleeping schedule has caused visible dark spots around my eyes. It's just confirming the obvious. Where as online you should at least make the assumption by default that I'm intelligent and friendly, which some people refuse to do and decide they don't like me without even giving me a chance. That tends to piss me off because it's not only insulting, it's unfair.
 
I've never had someone come up and tell me they don't like me. When people don't like me, they just stay away from me and leave when they see me coming. I don't care if people don't like me. I have enough friends anyway.
 
Actually no, I don't remember if anyone has ever told me they don't like me, though I do remember being told that the first impression I give if of being an arrogant and elitist amateur-math geek. I honestly never gave and never will, a damn if someone likes or dislikes me. It is their problem not mine. This world has billions of humans, and to have one or two who doesn't like you truly does not matters at all. Besides, I often consider myself the best of friends, and the worst of enemies. So if you ask for it, in time you'll get it without knowing it was me, which is quite amusing.
 
Ive only experinced it in:
"I dont like you in that way", great way to reject someone.

I havent said it directly to people I dont like cause I dont wanna hurt them. Sounds dumb I know. I dont recall having someone come up to me and say it. Probably have and forgotten bout it lol.
 
I don't remember anyone telling me they don't like me, but when someone has something against me they more and likely show it.


 
I haven't had anyone (that I can remember) tell me to my face that they don't like me, but most people often tell you through their actions.

So they don't really need to say it and hopefully if you're smart enough, you'd get the idea and move on.

I've had to do this a few times. To try and figure out what the problem is just isn't worth my time and I'd rather not know their reasons.
 
Heheh! Being the oddity that I am, I'm sure that I'm not liked ny others. Most people who don't like me usually tell others behind my back or just treat me like crap for no reasons I am aware of. When i do try to talk to them to find out why, I'm usually ignored or givin a load of crap lecture. Nobody has ever said the words "I don't like you" to my face and in my opinion, thats the worst thing you can do.

It's torture knowing someone doesn't like you and still trying to pretend that you like them. I have shrugged this off many times. Over and over it gets harder to avoid these people and ignore them. If someone tell me they don't like me, I usually try to communicate with them to find out why. If they're being a complete ass, that's another story(REVENGE!).

I am up and confrontational most of the time when others don't accept me. I also just ignore most ignorant people who just treat me like crap because they don't like me. I figure, if you don't like me then why waste my time worrying about you. So I shut them out.

I do have to say though....that over time, you get distant from the world. After a certain amount of times, I have begun to feel like I'm about to break. But moving forward is the only way to get rid of emotional pain. People come and go in life. Not all of them are going to love you instantly. All we can do is try...
 
There's one kid that just calls me "gay" every time he sees me. Usually kids in my school are pretty good at identifying douche bags and staying away from them, but not this kid. I don't know why he hates me either. I never did anything to him really.
 
some people dont like me cuz of jealousy,some people were jealous that i was absent for along time and they always have to go to school.I dont like it when they say it in front of girls cuz it makes it feel uncool.when im the only one working in class while the others make jokes,they probably say "this guy only works lol".
 
I don't think anyone has came up to me to my face and said "I don't like you". At least not in a long time, and if it did happen I have been so horrified that I must have repressed all memory of that event.

I don't think I really did enough to be disliked. In terms of school, aside from first school and middle school when I used to be all weird and run around thinking aliens were landing, I didn't do much. Like in high school I'd go to my lessons then in breaktime I'd stand with a few people who were also quiet, then I'd go home. I didn't do anything really to upset people. I may have been the son of the headteacher of a middle school half of the high school had just came from, but I didn't give them any reason to hate me, and they were quite cool with me.

Aside from school (which I'm long gone from now) I'm not sure if I've been told I'm disliked. I'm not a git to people deliberately, and if people want to say something I try to listen to them. When people are talking I try to smile even if I'm not participating much in the conversation. I don't talk an awful lot until I get to know someone, and that takes a long time, and certain conditions. That's how it stands at the moment anyway. As such, people don't know me enough to have an opinion on me I think.

There are some people that most probably don't like me. I get the impression that the people that fired me after only a few weeks only did it because I wasn't a Jack-the-Lad, and I made multiple social gaffes.

But no, I haven't been told to my face that I'm not liked.
 
I haven't had someone tell me that before, but I'm positive I'll probably be hurt by that comment at the point. However, knowing myself, that pain would probably fade away. I may forget that and just try to get along as much as possible, as much as the person may dislike me- for whatever reason there is.

Of course, if the reason is something I know and acknowledge, I'll probably shrug off that comment and take it in my stride. Otherwise, it's strange that someone would say that to me for no reason. I'll probably label that person an 'anti-social weirdo'.
 
I don't think anyone has ever directly told me that before, but that's not to say that I've never been disliked. I'm sure there has been at least one person who has silently not liked me in my lifetime. There have been times in life in which the feeling has been mutual between some people and myself, but in those particular cases the feelings of distaste had been so blatant, neither of us felt the need to state the obvious.

I'm sure there have been times in which I have gotten into an argument with a friend and we exchanged bad words, but those situations don't really count because I doubt we actually meant what we said.
 
No one's said it to my face, well, not that I remember anyway, though I've had a few people tell me such and such a person doesn't like me, which is funny now really because these peope are my mates now, bt it's when I first changed school and I was the new girl for people to not like for the sake of it I guess

Though Sam didn't like me because I 'nicked her boyfriend'

I did no such thing, I was new and didn't KNOW they were together when he asked me out AND I only said yes to shut him up, and got Linzi to dump him for me after the 6 week holidays :wacky:

Other than that, I'm not really sure - there's probably afew people who don't liek me tbh, I think I'm one of them people you either like or you just don't :hmmm:

I told a friends boyfriend I didn't like him once, he asked me what my problem was and I said I just don't like you :mokken:
 
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