Bra Size?

[Priestess-Mars]

Hmmm a perfect size? Nope. When I was younger I never thought about breasts or figures or what a beautiful girl should look like. I naturally developed on my own and it just happened. True, my figure attracted men when I was only 13 because I was the most developed out of other girls. That never boosted up my pride or anything, but there are times I wish I was a 36C because I'm a 34C. I don't believe in a "perfect" size though like media tries to portray such as having big Cs or Ds. Big Cs and D cups just result in back pain and limits the amount of activities you can do unless you like to bind yourself everyday.

I think that anything over an A or a high A is considered as boobs, not being flat. My sister complains all the time because she has "none" while everyone else in my family does. She believes that if you don't have breasts, then people don't really look at you as a girl.

 

[Six]

I'm a 36C/D myself, and I've never had anything like back pains. They don't look huge to me, and it's not like I wear low cut tops 24/7 to get attention. What is a pain though, is wearing a shirt with text on it "This shirt sa---" *bump* What's it say?

The only thing I dislike is finding nice bras. 36D seems to be a problem size here, it's usually bigger sizes that go with C or D's. Or they're just fucking expensive.

 

[GalaxyFlare]

Kandy & Bei Bei were these feelings on inadequacy generated from an internal source?
What ever the reason to push you towards augmenting your body they must have quite profound.

I doubt my GF would ever get implants the last thing she mentioned in that regard was Lypo........WTF!? She is bloody tiny lol

Good on ytou for reaching out to make your selfs feel better!

 

[Channizard]

As long as you're smart aboot it, Kandi Mandi Pandi, then go for it. Given that you've researched everything you can about it, the pros and the cons, read testimonials after post-surgery pains and complications, infections and worries...Then do it. It sounds like you've put a lot of thought into it, and it's just sad to see women who jump head first into things like this on an impulse. Obviously, you've had a lot of insecurities that go quite far back, so it's not something that's just coming out of nowhere...

I've rambled.. Go for it as long as you're safe.

 

[Dee]

Make sure you find an accredited and licensed doctor as well. Don't go to some shoddy clinic in the mall or even worse, down in Mexico. You'll end up with two water balloons hanging sideways and lopsided off your chest, no doubt about it.

 

[Bei Bei]

Kandy & Bei Bei were these feelings on inadequacy generated from an internal source?
What ever the reason to push you towards augmenting your body they must have quite profound.

When I hit puberty, I watched all the other girl's boob size grow, and mine was barely noticable. I was made fun of a lot. I never had to wear a bra and I went through a whole phase where I cut off all my hair, wore baggy clothes and looked like a boy. The older I got the more comfortable I got but it still wasn't enough. It just felt like the first thing people noticed about me was my flat chest.

I wasn't afraid what people would think of me once I did it, and I have no shame in telling others that yes, I did get a boob job. I am so comfortable with myself now that nothing they say could matter, especially when most people don't know how I felt and what it was like going through that

 

[Kandy-Sugar]

It just felt like the first thing people noticed about me was my flat chest.

Aha, exactly how I feel.

I wasn't afraid what people would think of me once I did it, and I have no shame in telling others that yes, I did get a boob job. I am so comfortable with myself now that nothing they say could matter, especially when most people don't know how I felt and what it was like going through that

I will have no problem at all with telling people I've had my boobs done either. I know that I will feel so comfortable with myself at that stage that I won't care. If they look good, then what's really the issue, especially if all they're going to do is look at them.

$12,000 is a lot of money. It could easily pay off my car loan but at the end of the day you only live once and I really want to make my time here the best it can be.

Some people have mental issues and what not that can never be fixed, no matter what sort of doctors they see.

I realise just how lucky I am if I can fix my insecurities at the low cost of $12,000.

 

[Rydia]

$12,000 is a lot of money. It could easily pay off my car loan but at the end of the day you only live once and I really want to make my time here the best it can be.

Some people have mental issues and what not that can never be fixed, no matter what sort of doctors they see.

I realise just how lucky I am if I can fix my insecurities at the low cost of $12,000.

I'm really not trying to be a bitch or anything or tell you not to do it. But if you are in debt are boobs really a priority? What if you and Steve run into financial trouble and do need that money. I highly doubt the first thing people are noticing about you is your chest size.

And if the way your boobs look really bother you, can't you fix it with a wonder bra? It would be much cheaper and the only thing people would do is look. And if you have a baby one day they'll get bigger naturally.

But really it's your choice.

 

[GalaxyFlare]

Self reaffirmation is problem for people, you can never truly know how someone else perceives themselves, in a world where people are judged on how they look if we think negatively about ourselves then we project those ideas on to others.

 

[Kandy-Sugar]

I'm really not trying to be a bitch or anything or tell you not to do it. But if you are in debt are boobs really a priority? What if you and Steve run into financial trouble and do need that money. I highly doubt the first thing people are noticing about you is your chest size.

And if the way your boobs look really bother you, can't you fix it with a wonder bra? It would be much cheaper and the only thing people would do is look. And if you have a baby one day they'll get bigger naturally.

But really it's your choice.

No you're fine. I'd probably ask the same thing myself if I didn't know all the circumstances.

But just to clear it up, we aren't in debt.

I didn't mean to sound like I was opting to spend the $12,000 I had saved, on boobs instead of paying off my existing loans. I re-read my post and it did sound that way. I was sort of trying to emphasise the expense it will cost me by trying to sit it up there next to the cost of my car.

But yeah I didn't mean that I'm ditching the loan in favour of boobs. I do have money for both just about now. >.< Sorry if I'm confusing. >.<

We've never been the sort of people to own credit cards or anything and we only take out one or two loans at a time before we even consider getting another loan. I am ensuring everything is paid off or just about paid off before I even book my appointment. I've worked out that I can definitely afford them next year considering nothing happens before then.

I'm only getting a loan for half the cost of the boob job as well, as I do have savings and plan to save more before then so the loan will be less.

And I do have the money to pay off the car loan at the moment I just need to sell my other car first in order to obtain it, which is why I still haven't gone ahead with the procedure as yet, because I don't want any lingering bills hanging around during the time I'm paying off the loan for my boobs.

So really I'm only looking at $6000 in the end and I have my savings which I always have for back up. I never ever just empty out my account for anything, so I know we're always fine in case of emergencys.

And at the moment I doubt Steve and I are going to have any children and if I were to have any children it wouldn't be until I was 30 like I've said in previous posts. And I don't want to wait eight years. =/

And wonderbras etc are never the same. It never ever feels the same. It sucks when you get home and have to take them off. I don't want boobs just for other people to see. I don't want them temporarily. I want to see and feel them all the time.

I am a very sensible person and I have given this alot of thought (around 9 years) and I am very prepared for this procedure. This will be the only thing I owe money on after I sell my car and pay off the loan.

But yeah sorry if this post got off track and what not. >.<

 

[alec]

I wasn't sure if there was a thread like this but here I go;

In magazines they always tell you that your breast size is perfect no matter how small or big.

But are you really comfortable with the size or do you wish for tad bigger breast?

This is a serious question. I grew up not wanting very big breast and was just fine with what I had.

But nowadays there's the whole pressure of having big breasts and what not. Does it get to you?

Heck, I'm not even sure what's considered too small or just right.

Well, studying in an all-girls' school, I've seen many girls with different, uh, bust sizes.
Definitely, there are cons to having big boobs. Sure, you'll make a lot of heads turn, but you might end up being really insecure when you do physical activity, since your boobs will tend to... jiggle.

As for me, I have a pretty small bust size (I'd say a little over A), but I'm not really too worried about it. idk, I guess I'm just happy that people don't stare at me and whatnot.

 

[ren1200]

Personally im an ass man. If I like a girl it would be because of there personality not boob size. Currently im going out with a nice guy but my ex girlfriend had 34 As I believe. The first thing I notice about a women is there eyes.

 

[BretHudson]

Even though many men like BIG boobs, I really don't like big ones. You gotta be in this range, and I wish I knew my sizes so I could tell you guys. *Sigh*, time to go google search.
-Bretboy129 ~ Bret Hudson

 

[Rapture]

I'm happy enough with my size

I'm a 34A and yeah I'm sure that's considered small but when I look at how petite and thin I am (5'2 100pds) anything bigger I'm sure would look pretty ridiculous on me. There are some pretty good bra's out there and some of the ones I have easily make me look like a 34B when I feel like it. They did get a little bigger I think when I started on the pill as well.

People with breasts that are out of their body proportion (i.e. too big) can have back issues as time goes on (my grandma did before she passed and I felt so bad for her) and if they have implants and later decide to have children and breastfeed they can have issues with that (I've seen that before on my job). So if you have implants and think you might want to have children and breastfeed someday that is something you'd have to consider long term.

Admittedly, when I see women who get G sized implants I do have an internal chuckle. I wonder if they honestly think that they'll ever be taken seriously by whomever they come across...and how they survive day to day with them

 

[Sepalcure]

I'm supposedly a 36 B but I fit into 34 C's, which was what my mom used to wear. I think my tits got bigger. When I was younger I was a 34 A and overtime they just grew. I suspect it's all that yam and green banana I eat.

I think implants are stupid and I'm not really in the mood to rant about why. I just think you should be happy with your tits, plus silicone isn't good for your body. You're injecting fake shit into your tit fat to make your tits aesthetically pleasing for men. Why? That's a waste of your life. I think it's funny when I see girls who get implants, unless my tits were like misshapen or something or I (god forbid) contracted cancer--then that's the only way I'd have surgery on my tits.

 

[Leonheart~]

I'm a really odd size, because my body is horribly dis-proportioned. Not all fat girls have big boobs, let's just say that much. It's actually depressing because I can never find a bra in my size. I got remeasured today actually, but i'm such an awkward size, it's unreal

 

[Saints&Storms]

I am not going to get into breast augs/plants or anything -- if people want to do something to their own body go ahead -- I honestly won't judge them, more power to you I s'pose...but in all honesty I think smaller breast just look so much better on women, bigger ones make you feel weird/awkward (believe me I know) and self-conscious about everything you wear, I am a 36C and while I don't really give a shit what people think it was annoying to hear people always commenting on how they are 'so big' and never being able to wear certain shirts without them feeling too tight on you but I think they just look big because I'm kind of lanky & like 5'7.

I think its most annoying when my Ma says they are big, because its so frustrating to hear that when I don't think they are that big. It just irks me...

Personally I envy women with petite figures, they just look more womanly and delicate to me.

 

[Ethics]

My bra size is quite fitting for my level of femininity, although I can't help but find myself wondering what it would be like to have large breasts. How would I do push ups, or lay on my stomach? Would I redefine my personal interpretation of social support?

Perhaps I should get a few different implants until I find a size I enjoy most.

 

[Squid]

I hate my size I used to be a 10C but A year or so ago i put on some weight (not too much, I am not a fatty but i am definitely not anorexic looking like i used to be) and now I am a 10F. A mother fucking F I have bigger tits than my sister and mum and theirs have been huge forever.

I like to call them cow udders /smug

I prefer medium sized boobs around the C mark, I think they look nicer on anyone, too small is weird looking and too big is gross.

I don't give a shit if anyone wants to get breast implants, specially if you have small boobs, nice tits make women feel good about themselves so go for it