Interracial Relationships

[King Sean]

Do you think that there should be a relationship between two people of different races?

I was reading a passage for my English class and in the passage, a man and a woman were discussing it, where the man came across as racist due to the fact that he thought it was wrong where as his wife thought it was okay.

I think that if two people love each other, they can transcend society's label on those kind of relationships and live happily. I know that I am kind of young and I may not know the true harshness of reality ( I think I do, though) but I honestly think that a relationship where the two are from different races could work out.

 

[Priestess-Mars]

I think interracial relationships are perfectly fine. We're all human, therefore we have the right to interbreed. We're all genetically made the same way, except we have different skin tones, hair color, and eye color, still that's just the outer look, inside we're the same. I think the only two factors (usually old fashioned people) like to think of religion and culture which tends to be a barrier to those who want to be together. If you take those two factors out, it wouldn't really matter now would it? I think if two people love each other enough, then it shouldn't matter because they can get over those obstacles and live together happily.

 

[.Ted]

Likewise. I think two different couples could work it out. My teacher used to tell me that as long as the couple had the same beliefs/religion. Sometimes, it comes down to that, and if they're the same then they'd just have to worry about smaller stuff. that's my two cents.

 

[Ewan]

I think that if two people love each other, they can transcend society's label on those kind of relationships and live happily. I know that I am kind of young and I may not know the true harshness of reality ( I think I do, though) but I honestly think that a relationship where the two are from different races could work out.

I think you hit it the nail on the head, bang on.

The only reason people think that it couldn't is because our history is plagued with racism and we're still trying to get over it. We shouldn't have to think "can interracial people have a relationship?", "should we give other races equal rights?" etc etc but we still do.

There are in fact many who have had successful 'interracial' relationships anyway. And racists can't use their absurd arguments anymore.

I don't even like the term 'interracial', makes it seem it's a different sort of relationship when it's just 2 humans. Why does it need to be specially labelled?

The differences between people are actually VERY small if you look at it from a biological/evolutionary way. Sure we look different and have individual traits like finger prints etc but anatomically, we're almost identical.
What separates people is what is up there. *points to head* That is where a relationship will stand or fall.

 

[Dionysos]

There's nothing wrong with interracial relationships. If people love each other then what race they are shouldn't really factor in the relationship. If their parents are quite strict and would prefer it not to happen, then that is a barrier, but if the people love each other a lot I think in most cases the parents would eventually be fine with it (not in all cultures).

The only way it might not work out is the idea some people hold that people from different cultures are more likely to break-up as they each have been brought up to view the world slightly differently, and have different lifestyles. But really, I don't think there is a serious problem in that at all. And race doesn't always = cultural differences these days anyway.

It doesn't matter what the race is, so long as they care for each other. I don't understand how people can think it is wrong, but then again it all depends on the way they have been brought up to view the world. Some people fear a mass racial watering down, especially in this age where everyone is everywhere, but no-one should tell someone they can't be together just because of the colour of their skin.

 

[Kandy-Sugar]

I don't think there should even be questioning as to whether or not it's okay. >.<

There's nothing wrong with two people of a different race getting married, having kids etc.

There's a lot of people around here that have partners that are different nationalities and it's not weird or forbidden etc.

I don't think anyone here thinks along those lines. It's perfectly normal.

I think religion is the biggest problem when it comes to relationships. I've experienced it a bit myself. You simply can't live with someone who doesn't share the same beliefs as you. It makes certain holidays and what not a nightmare.

I don't think the colour of ones skin would be such an issue unless you are racist, which just makes no sense to me. v_v

 

[GBJoker]

I'm going to be very blunt, and may come off as racist when I say this. At the very least, weird.

I say it's more than okay. Possibly necessary. Continue to mix up the genes, and hopefully reach a point where most of the good genes from both races ends up in the kids, should the couple have kids.

And if they love/like/whatever each other, even better.

Also, quite frankly, at the very least, America, Europe, and a few Asian countries should already be at the point where interracial relationships are acceptable, and maybe common. I mean come on, with the internet, airplanes, and other global technology, it's friggin' impossible to never meet some of another race/ethnicity that you'll like.

 

[DeadFantasy]

As everyone else has said, I don't see what the problem is and why it'd be an issue. If two people love each other let them love eachother who cares about the skin color. We're all human beings we all have the same color bloods as some say. I mean it's not like they're doing any wrong. Same race or not I say to hell with the racist! people should be able to be together even if they aren't the same race. I've seen a lot of people that are together and aren't the same race. It's not something new to me. I had this one english teacher who married a black man and like her parent's freaked out and whatnot. It's sad when a group of people don't put aside their differences so that their own daughter/son can be happy. They're merely judging some on their skin color IMO it's just...rude and it makes me question sometimes: "Where is the love?" like have a heart.... I'm perfectly okay with that and I don't understand why people (some) think it's just horrible etc. T.T I strongly disagree with racist so it's hard for me... to understand their reasoning etc.

 

[King Sean]

I don't think there should even be questioning as to whether or not it's okay. >.<

I am not questioning it. Just want to see my fellow members views on it to see what they thought.

I think that the world needs more interracial relationships so that it can be more connected. It really should not be questioned. That's why the passage stuck me the way it did.

 

[Terra Branford]

Of course Interracial Relationships are okay! Its not like they are marrying animals or being with animals. Are there still people who think this way about Interracial Relationships?

People here are very racist, and it shows horribly. I think its quiet sad.

Spoiler

(Unless you are half crab-dog-cow, then its weird. )

 

[Cricket]

The white man thinks its racist because the black man has bigger junk. Or so I've heard.

Tru fax.

Honestly? I don't care. Like someone else said. We're all human. It shouldn't matter.
Racist people drive my insane.

 

[Terra Branford]

The white man thinks its racist because the black man has bigger junk. Or so I've heard.

Tru fax.

Honestly? I don't care. Like someone else said. We're all human. It shouldn't matter. Racist people drive my insane.

What? Where did you hear that from?

Racist people are insane. I don't see how anyone could see a problem with a white person and a chinsese person being together or whatnot.

 

[blakstang98]

I think that if two people love each other, they can transcend society's label on those kind of relationships and live happily. I know that I am kind of young and I may not know the true harshness of reality ( I think I do, though) but I honestly think that a relationship where the two are from different races could work out.

You may not have been around as long as I have (bitter old man ), but this is the truth. I myself am a product of a white man and a latin woman. My parents are the happiest married couple I've ever seen. Hell, even with marriage of a couple of common race only stands a 50% chance of working, so it's not a happy marriage one either.

Race is not something that should be considered when getting involved in any relationship. For any relationship, there has to be a connection. Would you really refuse the relationship because there is a special bond, but figure the person is of a different race, so it can't work? To hell with what others think of it! Not to sound too cliche, but love knows no bounds.

I myself, have had a relationship with a spanish gal. It's true that other folks of the latin community didn't understand, and they sort of frowned upon it (do understand that even though I'm half spanish, I don't look it at all), but it wasn't up to them, it was up to us to decide that. The only issue with her being spanish was the fact that she didn't speak English with full fluency, so communication at times was difficult, but not impossible and nothing that couldn't be handled properly. Though, come to think of it now, my buddies frowned upon me as well, which was ironic, but that's a story for another day. But either way, none of them matter, it was all about what we had. If they choose not to accept it, then that's their problem, not ours.

As for another thing, it doesn't help society's thoughts when it seems that television shows tend to promote same race relationships. It's not often you watch a show and see a white dude dating a black girl. Why this is the case, I'm not totally sure. Maybe it's because of the producers, maybe it's because of the actors, I don't know. But it would probably change society's views if they saw it on television more. Otherwise, they're being indirectly sheltered from the fact that interracial relationships are real. But that's something you or I have no control over. Producers should start smartening up to be totally honest.

 

[Tmoo]

Interracial is awwwright. There's no harm in making caramel babies...

This ties in well with the issue of dating preference. We all might say we endorse interracial, but would we ourselves be willing to date outside a particular race of people? I personally have no problems with it. I find it hypocritical of a person to endorse interracial but refuse to date anyone that doesn't have the specific physical make-up they're looking for (IE 'she has to be asian with long black hair or it just won't work out!'). That's just my opinion though, so spare me the torches and pitchforks

I wonder when I'll be seeing white girl/indian guy couples regularly (over here, anyway)

 

[Bambi]

I don't see what the big deal is. It's just 2 people hooking up, who cares what their background is? I certainly fail to see why people would think it was wrong, and it's no bugger elses business other than said couple anyway

People are always to quick to stick their beaks into other peoples affairs, probably because they are either not satisfied with their own lives or are just bigots that need to get a grip

We all might say we endorse interracial, but would we ourselves be willing to date outside a particular race of people?

Can't say I've ever dated anyone 'outside my race', but it's nothing I would of ever taken into consideration if I was to get with someone 'oh he's Asian' I'd be more arsed about whether he was a cunt or not.

 

[Linnaete]

There's nothing wrong with interracial relationships whatever. As people have said here, we're all human. What's so wrong with two people getting together because they look different from each other? It's the fact that inside they are similar is the factor greater in importance than their different outer skin colours. If they love each other, they have the right to. Surely in a civilised society we live in nowadays, we no longer see such things as taboo.

It's simply racist bigots and overt nationalists who have the big problems with this because in their narrow-mindedness and lack of tolerance, they see this as being devilry or something. I've seen their excuses, how they want to preserve a national identity and maintain the superior gene pool as it is. It's just either exaggerations or just prejudice.

 

[Dionysos]

would we ourselves be willing to date outside a particular race of people?

I can't say I have, as I haven't but that is also possibly because I've only ever had one girlfriend a long time ago, and she was white. But I would certainly be willing if I felt feelings for someone who did happen to be a different race to myself. I wouldn't deny feelings for someone based on colour.

I find it hypocritical of a person to endorse interracial but refuse to date anyone that doesn't have the specific physical make-up they're looking for (IE 'she has to be asian with long black hair or it just won't work out!').

People that say this might be hypocritical, but it is also possible that they're just stating preferences, just like some men might state they prefer blondes or brunettes, or busty or petite. People sometimes say "I like to date asians" to the same effect as that, and not because they hold strong views about racial relationships in general.

Some people look for certain physical traits they want in a partner, and sometimes this comes down to race too, but I'm sure among those that do this if you were to ask them if they had a problem with interracial relationships they would say they do not, and also if they happened to fall in love with a person who wasn't the same race, I'm sure the majority would still love to be in a relationship with that person even if they don't fit the image they tend to go for.

 

[Tmoo]

People that say this might be hypocritical, but it is also possible that they're just stating preferences, just like some men might state they prefer blondes or brunettes, or busty or petite. People sometimes say "I like to date asians" to the same effect as that, and not because they hold strong views about racial relationships in general.

Some people look for certain physical traits they want in a partner, and sometimes this comes down to race too, but I'm sure among those that do this if you were to ask them if they had a problem with interracial relationships they would say they do not, and also if they happened to fall in love with a person who wasn't the same race, I'm sure the majority would still love to be in a relationship with that person even if they don't fit the image they tend to go for.

It is mainly that I associate preference with the topic of interracial. I know that it's difficult for people to broaden their dating horizons, but if someone comes out and says that it's great to date people of different races, and then refuses to give other races outside their preference a chance, it rubs me the wrong way. Simply having preferences is fine - not giving others outside your preference a chance, is what I take issue with.

But in the end it comes down to attraction, and if a black man doesn't appeal to a girl, that's that. In that light I agree with you.

 

[Valkyrur]

I live in Singapore, a multi-racial country. It isn't unusual for me to see some couples engaged in an interracial relationship. In fact, some of my friends have parents of different races.

Nevertheless, putting that aside, I see no problem with different races having a romantic relationship with each other. This label called 'race' isn't meant to stand in the way of love, should it be present between a couple. If there's love between the two, I think they have every right to be together.

 

[Dionysos]

It is mainly that I associate preference with the topic of interracial. I know that it's difficult for people to broaden their dating horizons, but if someone comes out and says that it's great to date people of different races, and then refuses to give other races outside their preference a chance, it rubs me the wrong way. Simply having preferences is fine - not giving others outside your preference a chance, is what I take issue with.

Yeah, I agree. And if someone happens to fall in love with someone who isn't what they would usually "go for" (so they speak in the world of hunting I am not acquainted with), and then deny themselves that relationship or don't give them a chance just because of their race, then they are being an idiot to themselves. Denying themselves that would be quite sad, and their own fault.

If it's the world of hunting in general (by this I mean "on the pull"), then I'm not sure. I've never really gone out like that and searched, but I guess some people have preferences and hone in on certain individuals because it is what they like, and this is probably unfair on those they don't go for (which might include racial exclusion for some people if they prefer certain races over others, though probably not in a deliberate way), but this is natural to a persons preferences of appearance alone, and not so much about love and relationships, which in good cases is a lot deeper than that.


I don't know to what extent people tend to have preferences and keep to them though. I doubt people strongly keep to them, as it'll be very limiting, but I know it is there with some people, and some people may be extreme and deny actual potential love because they don't fit these... But those people are fools to themselves.