Is leaving the Forums

There there -pats- We're not doing a good job of convincing her we are a nice bunch :wacky:
 
When did I call anyone a mouldy muff? -__-

I'm pretty sure I ATE some mouldy muffs though, my stomachs gurgling in a most peculiar way
 
I know how you feel Pika. -cries- They always treat me like shit too. :( Although I'm like their elder, fooking kids. :( I'm leaving too. ;__;

Anyway, I have seen you a few times in the SB and we talked to you, you know. After that I really haven't seen you here for like a month, I just saw you, when Mandi went OMG somebody wants your name and I checked and it was you wanting to change to Kai not Kei but editted it. =O

Also you need to post more, show your skills in drawings, GFX and what so. >_> Though I still think they should ban a member called Darksquall. He always go this is shit and that. <_< BAN HIM. ):<

Staffers are spammers, no offense to you staffers. >_>
 
<.< I'm sorry Ahmed, but what exactly do you mean us staffers are spammers? Sure we like to play in the spam section but we don't spam our own forum...
 
stfu! start spamming all threads with pictars of bill cosby! naow! :wacky:
 
aHAHHHA wtf
 
Pretty much bullshit people do spam in this thread, even though they may get the feeling of not taking the girl seriously. But okay. Ha. ha. very fun. =/ -aggrivated-

>.>

I just wanna say that I get your point, and I hope everything works out for you. Take care, yous.
 
LockhartAvenue said:
Pretty much bullshit people do spam in this thread, even though they may get the feeling of not taking the girl seriously. But okay. Ha. ha. very fun. =/ -aggrivated-

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lulwhut?

I'm not going to reiterate what people have said. Friends, long time etc etc, as Dave rightly points out, we've had these threads before, the thread starter has the same issue, we have the same response.
You've made an effort, and you feel that you still don't fit in. Perhaps you could try another forum, there are plenty of them, and I wish you good luck with that if that is, ultimately your decision.
Things don't always work out.
 
Arghh ! Is a such a Noob ! -[Facepalms self ]= -____-

Last night was really emotionally drained after doing alot of paperwork and went into the chatbox and then people left and then all of a sudden went into a emotional "nobody likes me " childish rant/ emotional state.

Won't leave the Forums. Oh Heck no.

But think it's wise to maybe take a small vacation and maybe should take it easy for a while. Because don't think it's smart to speak on a online forum while feeling stressed frustrated and when is having alot of pressure on the shoulders.

Is terribly sorry for this. And has acted rather Noobish.

Won't leave but reckon that needs a while to get this paperwork and Friends problems out of the way before heading back online here..

Thanks guys for caring :awesome:

L- you can spam as many pictures of Bill Cosby as you want.
But don't forget about that Father from My Wife and Kids >>''
 
Well if anything, this certainly got you attention considering your stay, hasn't it?

People come and go in the SB all the time. That's nothing to be taken persoanl. I think that's happened to everyone at some point.

Glad you came to your senses.
 
Kai Gazette said:
Last night was really emotionally drained after doing alot of paperwork and went into the chatbox and then people left and then all of a sudden went into a emotional "nobody likes me " childish rant/ emotional state.
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Yeah that happens to me sometimes / a lot. Sometimes there would be masses of people there all chatting.. I'd arrive and then everyone would just vanish. I'd then get paranoid and think maybe I insulted them earlier in the day and they all hate me etc... But it happens to everyone from time to time I guess. It isn't pleasant, but I don't think people leave to deliberately upset you or because they don't want to talk to you.

But think it's wise to maybe take a small vacation and maybe should take it easy for a while. Because don't think it's smart to speak on a online forum while feeling stressed frustrated and when is having alot of pressure on the shoulders.
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I guess you are right. A lot of us get stressed and stay on things like this and make a lot of mistakes and get misread and misunderstood. Sometimes it can damage your reputation. That said a lot of people continue to post here without sorting their problems out and, to an extent, people who might forget their problems will laugh at them when they flip out.

I'm not sending you away by the way, lol. I'm just saying it might be beneficial to help clear your head and try to get a grasp at the real life problems you are facing. It doesn't mean you have to really leave the forums (you don't even have to leave temporarily), but perhaps dedicate time to doing that.



To add to the talking and being noticed thing... Hopefully it will come over time for you. I wouldn't aim high. You might see some people that gather a herd whenever they appear online. With some people, the concept of their existance alone is enough to excite most people in the SB at that time. In contrast, others might turn up and may say the exact same thing as a super-powered-popular-member and not get as good a/ any reaction.

It really does sometimes count who says it as well as just what is said, I feel. But that is true to life in general and not just this forum.

I'd probably not aim to be a member that gets instant lol's and hugs and kisses before they even get a chance to realise themselves that they have signed in, as these members are rare. Over time perhaps you yourself might get this status, however it is probably best to have in mind more a sort of "people know me, I am respected, I have friends" status at first. This is what I think you are after anyway.


I can understand that a lot of people join forums like this with the mission of making friends in their hearts. I was one myself. I was so desperate for friendship when I joined here because all my friends had fallen out in real life. I made a lot of noobish and silly mistakes in my first month of being here as a result. I think I irritated quite a few people. So I don't think you should be shamed and embarassed about this whole thing. It happens. (By the way in my first month I didn't really make any friends, it took a couple of months before that was to occur - so it goes to show).

Eventually people will grow to accept you (unless you are secretly a very controversial figure! :gasp:). It is such a large community that it does take a lot of time to get known. Perhaps you should take part in forum events. Being in Survivor got me noticed more I felt, and got people knowing me better.

Some can just come into the SB and immeditately get into conversation because they are skilled at conversation. You might not be one of those types yourself, but perhaps you might be lucky enough one day to be in the SB at the same time as them and get into a decent conversation and get known that way. Over time, if you spend time in the SB, we will get to know you anyway and everything will be awesome.

Good luck with what you decide to do.
 
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Kai Gazette said:
Arghh ! Is a such a Noob ! -[Facepalms self ]= -____-

Last night was really emotionally drained after doing alot of paperwork and went into the chatbox and then people left and then all of a sudden went into a emotional "nobody likes me " childish rant/ emotional state.

Won't leave the Forums. Oh Heck no.

But think it's wise to maybe take a small vacation and maybe should take it easy for a while. Because don't think it's smart to speak on a online forum while feeling stressed frustrated and when is having alot of pressure on the shoulders.

Is terribly sorry for this. And has acted rather Noobish.

Won't leave but reckon that needs a while to get this paperwork and Friends problems out of the way before heading back online here..

Thanks guys for caring :awesome:
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Well Pika, this is this 2nd thread you have made that you were about to leave. I was just monitoring it, and honestly didn't have a lot to say. Though now with the above being said by you, I'll reply.

Let me get down to it short and simple, the internet should be used as a relief system. If you are getting on it after a long day and are already bothered, and have some ahole that doesn't even know you attacking you, well then that's added stress. If you feel you are being ignored, it generally has to do with your outlook on yourself more often times than not.

There are a lot of people on this forums that feel your sentiment, but I urge you next time to not open up by bashing it and then saying your leaving. It calls unneeded attention to yourself.

Also just a heads up, most of us use MSN to talk to each other, so if you think the forum is dead sometimes, well more often times than not we are still there. Hop on msn, I'm sure you can keep in touch, but either way.. stick around and give us a chance. Take it easy.
 
Glad you decided to stay!

We all get a bit stressed at times, it's expected to react to it in some way. Shu does speak the truth, people tend to leave the shoutbox temporarily and it almost seems like they just randomly left, but things are always very casual in there, and people tend to stray away at times. And most of us are on MSN, some of us for all hours of the day it seems, and more attention will be taken on MSN conversation than the shoutbox.

Many people took the time to comment on this thread, so you're not just some random member causing drama, we do care. So just relax and let the good times roll.
 
Not to mention that...SB is lagging lately so that's probably why everyone's kinda shied away from it for awhile and would take their conversations on MSN.

Anyway, nothing much more to add to that since it's already been covered. Glad to know you're staying. =]
 
Well. I dont know you, as I am new, But i got to a large forum of people who, I suppose it is friendly and they always talk on Shout Box, But i wouldn't take it personly, I got completely ignored the first couple of months on th other forum, but soon after i became an active member, I got noticed, And people started to include me in what was going on, I guess you just have to stick out the bad bits.
 
Kei said:
Though I still think they should ban a member called Darksquall. He always go this is shit and that. <_< BAN HIM. ):<
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Who's the bastard who hacked my bro's account?!!!!!:gasp:

I'll get you, you li'l piece of crap :amg:
 
I dont know what happened here as I myself have just returned. But I have to say sorry if you feel like you have been mistreated. It happened to me in the past, but it was sorted and everything was then fab! I hope you are okay and wish you all the best even though you probably will never read this.
 
DS...I doubt it's been hacked.

Anyway, just skimmed through this as well. Glad to see you've returned, though I might not know you well at all. Enjoy your break.
 
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