Contraception

[Bambi]

This is probabably directed at the ladies of the forum more than anything xD

I've never really had a problem with the Pill before, recently I had my coil removed (just google it) and decided to go back on the pill. I was given the Mini pill because I used to suffer from migraines really bad - not sure what difference it makes but whatever. I decided to give it a whirl

I can safely say I've NEVER experienced anything like this. The mood swings are unreal. Last Saturday was horrendous. To the point where you're losing your temper over something silly, yet you're still raging anyway. Tonight, I could feel myself raging again, just because someone outbid me on ebay....silly I know, but it was just like ZOMG DIE

A short while googling later - and Ive read several reviews on other women having crazy mood swings aswel - causing full blown arguments over nothing. I'm just glad Im not losing my mind xD

Men don't realise how lightly they get off Although, the poor boyf got the brunt of my mood this weekend....and tonight, if via text....so maybe they don't

Anyone had any similar experiances....?

Can't say Im expecting much response to THIS topic, but still...fancied a rant

 

[Saga]

The pill they put me on "Cilest" or some shit, gave me the mood swings from HELL.

Not only that, but before I started taking the pill, my periods were quite light and I didn't suffer much discomfort at all. as soon as I started on the pill, they became really heavy and the cramps... so painful. So I gave up on it.

Yet my periods are still incredibly painful. :stare:

I hated the complete bitch I became whilst on it. I'd snap over something so fucking stupid, like my then partner asking me what I wanted from the shop etc. Fortunately, she was on the same pill and experienced the same swings, so she was able to indentify with me and sympathisize. I hated it though, I didn't want to take it out on her.

The fucking pill is more trouble than its worth really. =/

/rant XDDD

 

[Kim Taehyung]

You two are so freaking lucky. I have NO contraception whatsoever. I have no money coming in for myself, so therefore, I cannot afford to get any by myself. So I rely on my parents, who do not do anything about it because of the hype of "Well, if she wants Birth Control, she must be having sex." Yeah, I know. That's the stupidest thing I've ever heard, but that's the way it works. I'm trying the uncontrollable mood swing angle, which hasn't proven effective yet. The thing is, I really do need it for reasons other than sex. They don't realize that, and they just go on by thinking that I don't need it. So you two are extremely lucky that you are able to receive it.

 

[Mitsuki]

I used to be on the pill for about a year and I don't really recall any terrible mood swings. Of course, that was almost 3 years ago now so it could be that my memory does not live up to my attitudes back in the days. I take my shots every 3 months and recently, this last shot has really taken its toll on me. It could be a combination of a lot of things - stress, moving back to California, trying to find a job, financial issues, going back to school, etc. - along with the shot which might have something to do with my 'heightened emotions' I have been experiencing since December. Every single day it seems like I'm either trying to pick a fight with my husband or I'm just...not there all together. And so I get frustrated with myself and my thoughts starts to spin in every direction and it's really driving me crazy. The littlest things set me off and although I try to calm myself down, when I'm angry I give the 'silent treatment' and my husband would try his best to set things straight. I'm sure he's probably getting tired of it (although I have to give him credit for being patient with me) so I practically have to talk to myself and think, "Okay, what's the problem now? What's your deal?" I DON'T KNOW!

Although I must say...he and I haven't really argued for 9 days now. We're on a roll. But yes, I can really relate. It's not fun, but unfortunately it's one of those things we must deal with from time to time.

 

[Kandy-Sugar]

I've been on the pill for 3 years straight ever since I started dating. My mum assumed I would probably start having sex and therefore 'made me' go on the pill.

Although there was another reason for going on it. I would get the worst periods that seemed to last for 3 weeks and I'd only get a break for one week =0 and they were really heavy. The pill is awesome for the fact that my period now only lasts 4 days at the max and they are as light as ever. They're also painless unlike before. =D

Now the one thing that I actually noticed after 3 flippin' years was that my mood swings were ridiculous. =/ Before I went on the pill I was really easy-going and hardly freaked out over anything. Now I'm paranoid about nearly everything and always manage to find something to shit me off.

Just last week I told my partner that I thought it was the reason why I was so moody.

I would be happy one minute and then one little thing shits me off (like I can't find my phone quick enough =/ ) and I'm frowning / irritated / and just impatient. If he spoke to me I would just get annoyed because 'I didn't feel like talking or explaining myself or repeating what I already said.'

Then we'd get in an argument and wouldn't speak for the rest of the night.

I would consider going off the pill but I'm too afraid of getting pregnant. I would rather be moody then bring a child into the world. It'd make me even more unbearable to live with. =/

 

[Davey Gaga]

You two are so freaking lucky. I have NO contraception whatsoever. I have no money coming in for myself, so therefore, I cannot afford to get any by myself. So I rely on my parents, who do not do anything about it because of the hype of "Well, if she wants Birth Control, she must be having sex." Yeah, I know. That's the stupidest thing I've ever heard, but that's the way it works. I'm trying the uncontrollable mood swing angle, which hasn't proven effective yet. The thing is, I really do need it for reasons other than sex. They don't realize that, and they just go on by thinking that I don't need it. So you two are extremely lucky that you are able to receive it.

For what other reasons do you need the pill? xD

Also, I never understood why women don't just keep a small supply of the morning after pill in their bedside cabinet - it'd do the job they're after, stop these moods swings and prevent the stress of having to religiously take the same pill over and over again. <_<

Why does every one of Kelly's threads end up having to teach me about women? xDDD

 

[Kim Taehyung]

The birth control pill helps regulate and lighten the menstrual flow. And, since mine are completely unpredictable, I'd like to take care of that and not have a little "suprise" happen when I don't need it.

And also, I can have the worst mood swings ever, so it might actually help straighten them out.

 

[Bambi]

For what other reasons do you need the pill? xD

Also, I never understood why women don't just keep a small supply of the morning after pill in their bedside cabinet - it'd do the job they're after, stop these moods swings and prevent the stress of having to religiously take the same pill over and over again. <_<

Why does every one of Kelly's threads end up having to teach me about women? xDDD

You're such an uneducated muppet xDDD

The morning after pill is emergency use only. It can make you feel proper ill. I had to have one when I had my coil removed - precautionally like. WHY would I want to feel nausea for a couple of days everytime I have sex? Id be ill all the time xDDD

Also, I was put on the pill before I was even sexually active. I was put on it to control my periods, because they were too heavy and annoying. Yeah, the primary use is birth control, but they can be a godsend for girs wih very heavy periods


xD

 

[Amizon]

OMG. The pill. God, have I got some stories to tell about that one.

Not really, but my sister takes it to help her with her certain issues. The bad thing is that it makes her moody and snappy for no apparent reason, which is why I tend to keep clear of her most of the time.

 

[Davey Gaga]

In fairness, they don't teach that kind of thing to guys - not that we ever need to know that, but it's still news to me. I had no idea that you could "control" your periods with the pill. xD

Having a vagina seems like more trouble than it's worth.

 

[Bambi]

In fairness, they don't teach that kind of thing to guys - not that we ever need to know that, but it's still news to me. I had no idea that you could "control" your periods with the pill. xD

Having a vagina seems like more trouble than it's worth.

It is.

Ive told Danny the cause of my mood swings and he's ordered me to come off the pill. He said he'd rather go without than put up with wine glass thrown, keyboard hurling Kelly

So, looks like Im off to the doctors for sumat else next week


Tbf, you guys SHOULD learn this aswel, we women have to take all the responsibility and it sucks. It would be nice for someone to appreciate WHY we have our nood swings sometimes <_<

 

[Aztec Triogal]

A few of my plastics professors (including my pop) helped design this dispenser for "the pill". A lot of you probably use it. http://www.ancient-future.net/uploaded_images/the-pill-741303.jpg

As for the pill itself, I love the concept but I'd be lying if I said if I completely trusted it. It's not that I don't buy the chemistry. I don't the system. People forget. It happens. And one oops in that department means you might have a kid on the way. Its a good backup but I still prefer pull and spurt.

 

[Bei Bei]

I've been on the pill for over a year now and I've never had mood swings while I was on them. They actually made my period feel a lot better than how they usually feel and they made my boobs grow bigger. Besides that I havne't actually had a problem with them at all.

A different pill will most likely help, though if it doesn't, there are a ton of alternatives besides the pill, only problem is they cost $$

 

[Saga]

I've been on the pill for over a year now and I've never had mood swings while I was on them. They actually made my period feel a lot better than how they usually feel and they made my boobs grow bigger. Besides that I havne't actually had a problem with them at all.

A different pill will most likely help, though if it doesn't, there are a ton of alternatives besides the pill, only problem is they cost $$

Made your boobs grow? I'm thankful I'm not on the same as you dear. xD I get enough attention to them as it is.

I've just started a new pill. ... It's blue I think >_> Let's see if this one makes me a ratty little bitch too, neh?


Roflmao Dave. You should learn these things whilst you can. XD

 

[Bambi]

We get contraception free over here, forgot to add that earlier. It's a tad...no VERY ridiculous that you are expected to PAY for it. That would probably fuel my pill induced rages even more...

As of today, I'm officially off the pill. No doubt I'l get a ninja period because of that and then I'l be PMT'ing instead. There's no rest for the wicked

Ive NEVER had a problem with any other pill, bar this one - I'm gunna go on one Ive used before though, to be n the safe side

 

[Davey Gaga]

Tbf, you guys SHOULD learn this aswel, we women have to take all the responsibility and it sucks. It would be nice for someone to appreciate WHY we have our nood swings sometimes <_<

I'd rather put up with the mess than the mood. xD

They're trying to develop a male contraceptive pill, but they haven't been able to come up with anything that either 1) doesn't make you infertile or 2) only lasts for a few hours at a time, so there's nothing on offer at the moment but, if there was, I daresay "pill" awareness would increase amongst men.

 

[Scarlet]

I've been on the pill for more than a year now. Possibly two, I can't remember. I don't really have any mood swings. I take Loestrin, it's bit on the pricey side.

Taking the pill is really helpful. I don't miss school or work now, periods aren't as horrible as before, less periods, and no worries about the possibility of pregnant of course. :B

Downside - I have no sex drive. >_> Literally.

A positive note concerning about the pill - Clears up your face from acne. =D

 

[Bambi]

Ah ha bumped just because Daves posts made me lol all over again

I still have nightmares over that pill that I was on. It's been ages since I'e been back on the pill I'm used to, though I've been thinking about getting the injection (NOT THAT I'M FUCKING GETTING ANY) But I'm not sure how that will affect my periods. I know I hate them, but NOT having them each month doesn't feel natural

So I might have to have a chat with my GP

And ask about servere mood swing side effects while I'm at it

 

[Rydia]

Tried the pill once, and my blood pressure went through the roof (family history). Ended up in the ER <.< I have a general distrust of medication so this didn't help. I was offered to try a different brand but said "fuck it" and didn't even bother trying. I just use condoms for now.

 

[Channizard]

I've been on the injection for 3 years now and it's the bestest thing in the world. Being in a monogamous relationship helps as well, cause then you're not fumbling with condoms an shite or worried about STDs.

I gotta say that not having periods is excellent. The mood swings, cramps, bleeding, everything... just gone. Of course if you're just a naturally emotional person you may have mood swings whenever but nothing as severe as before.