Is this a good way to test her when and if i put myself out there and I'm looking for a gamer girl

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you know what you guys i thought of this idea since you know how some people pretend and pretend to be something they are not maybe you can tell me what you thought of my idea thanks :).

Is this a good way to test her when and if i put myself out there and I'm looking for a gamer girlfriend?

Like i give her some tests yes I'm still looking for a all round virgin gamer girlfriend who love video games,anime and manga like i do not just a rpg gamer like i give her a quiz anything from easy also from and about the classics yeah yeah i still love the classics and yes including PS1 games and PS2 games and others and all the way up to either easy,harder,or tricky depends on the game and if she/or i know what am i talking about and yes the answers i know not something i don't know since I'm not that dumb.

I know you think it's wrong but i am just a little skeptical and a little cautious since some people either lie,pretend to like what we like and pretend to be something they are not which is pretty pathetic and sad anyway is this a good idea to test her and see if she is lying or telling the truth and so i find out the whole truth and yes i hate dishonesty and i understand if it's the little things like Santa Claus and stuff like that.

And other bigger things tall big lies no thanks and be honest and thanks again and have a wonderful weekend :).
 
You have a nice weekend too, dear :yay:

If you could explain to me how Santa Claus fits into this, that'd be fantastic~
 
you sir have a nice weekend to.......... and don't game too much with her if you get me :kinky:
 
Dude, in today's world of games I'm pretty sure there's lots of girls who like to game--there's no need for tests and honestly, I think if you were to test a girl on how much of a "gamer" she is it would just kinda freak her out. >_<

So there's really no need to test women on if they're real gamers. :lew: If they play some games then they're gamers.

& No offense, but they don't have to like every single thing you like to be considered a real gamer, either. :/

I think there are far worse things out there that a potential girlfriend could lie or be dishonest about, so even if she only plays a few games or whatever, it really isn't that big of a deal :lew:
 
Cloud8 said:
Only thing i can say is this mothers say a lie when saying Santa is real when you are young like 5-9 years old or younger
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You...YOU MONSTER! :rage:

But no...no tests. Testing a girl just shows that you don't trust her right off the bat and you'll get a slap or stab in the back ;)
 
Cloud8 said:
Only thing i can say is this mothers say a lie when saying Santa is real when you are young like 5-9 years old or younger
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But think of how much magic would be taken out of Christmas if you didn't have an obese man in a red suit sneaking into your house in the middle of the night to raid your food stashes :sad3:

Santa Claus is actually a Jynx, y'know.
 
Don't assume a girl will lie about the games she likes! :ness: If you want to find out what she does like, ask her about her interests and her favourite games before talking about what you like. :hmmm:

Asking her to tell you what she's interested in is not a bad thing to do anyway, since then you're putting her first before trying to make yourself sound interesting. You know what they say: 'you can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.' I know it doesn't apply directly to your question, but it's connected. :ryan:

Also, why does she have to be a virgin? :hmmm:
 
You could just try the old fashion way and ask her what she likes. As others have said giving a so called test will just show you are a bit paranoid and distrustful yourself. Ask yourself this if you need to give her a test to see if she is honest, what does this say about yourself and your honesty?
 
Cloud8 said:
then how would i know if she is lying to me by being dishonest or if she is telling the truth in your opinion
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Have a look at Lirael's and Soul's posts...they both pretty much sum it up. Normal convos with no dishonesty behind them normally are the way to go. It's common sense really :wacky:
 
Soulcorruptor said:
You could just try the old fashion way and ask her what she likes. As others have said giving a so called test will just show you are a bit paranoid and distrustful yourself. Ask yourself this if you need to give her a test to see if she is honest, what does this say about yourself and your honesty?
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thanks and what if she says oh i love all kinds of video games and i caught her lying red handed when i ask her to play a re game or left 4 dead or any shooting and fighting games how can i deal with that dishonesty
 
Cloud8 said:
thanks and what if she says oh i love all kinds of video games and i caught her lying red handed when i ask her to play a re game or left 4 dead or any shooting and fighting games how can i deal with that dishonesty
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:lew:

That's not dishonesty-- that's the truth. She likes other games just not games like that. Again, she doesn't have to like every single game that you like to be a "real" gamer. :lew: I think you're taking this abit too far, man. If she says she likes some games, then take her words at face value. But if she happens to not like a specific game, that doesn't mean it's dishonest or that she's a liar--it just means you don't have any of her fav games, is all.

Like, I love gaming--but I only love to play shooters :lew:
 
Wanderluster said:
:lew:

That's not dishonesty-- that's the truth. She likes other games just not games like that. Again, she doesn't have to like every single game that you like to be a "real" gamer. :lew: I think you're taking this abit too far, man. If she says she likes some games, then take her words at face value. But if she happens to not like a specific game, that doesn't mean it's dishonest or that she's a liar--it just means you don't have any of her fav games, is all.

Like, I love gaming--but I only love to play shooters :lew:
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sorry if i was she needs to be specfic what kind she likes other then that thanks for your answer :) have a wonderful weekend :ryan:
 
Okay, but why does it matter? :lew:

If she likes other games and not your favorite like RE5 then would you, like, dump her or something because of it? :wacky:
 
Wanderluster said:
Okay, but why does it matter? :lew:

If she likes other games and not your favorite like RE5 then would you, like, dump her or something because of it? :wacky:
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what no no i won't do that as long as she is being honest and she is being honest what kind games she loved and same with anime and manga :) and she can have fun gaming with me ")
 
It would be good to learn what sort of games that she is interested in. She may not like every game that you like, but some of her gaming interests might overlap. If not, then perhaps you can gain yourself by trying something new too. And then she can gain from you by trying some of your games. If she liked exactly the same games as you then that might get a bit boring after a while. If you have interests that are different, but can also overlap, then that'll surely be better anyway.

But as for lying about the types of games that she is interested in... It could become obvious what she is really interested in by talking about games, or playing games with her and seeing how she reacts. A quiz might be a bit too much there. It's one step behind a lie detector.

If she does lie, as some people can do if they feel the need to fit in to what it is perceived is wanted, then that wouldn't matter too much. You'd be able to tell what she really likes and she was possibly only trying to be polite. Also, sentences such as 'I like all kinds of games!' are very vague and loose, and that can be used so casually that it might not actually mean every sort of game ever created. It could well be stated by a person, but really they might just mean that they like lots of games, a large variety, and not literally 'all kinds'. I therefore wouldn't take that as a lie.
 
I don't know if you're serious about testing something as complex as a woman but I'll be upfront about this: I'm not too fond of approaching someone I really like out of fear that she might be: a) with some cocksucker, b) not interested, c) too uptight or way up there for me to approach, but when the cards are down, I approach and ask bluntly in a nice mild mannered voice like I did with one chick in New Year's. I was myself, true and sincere to her, and she accepted me over a bunch of sailor assholes who had bigger muscles than me and she was the hottest thing at that bar. Point I'm driving is, you're either very brave, very risque in terms of dating or very stupid (no offense) to test a woman. Women in general do not deserve to be tested, or trialed like some experimental subject even at social gatherings. She deserves your respect, your interest if it attracts her. I got mine from the bar in New Years by talking Final Fantasy, and she got hooked a little. I shared Life of Mars' story to her as well and she too got hooked.

Basically, drop your silly tests and just dive for her. Interact with her, get acquainted, get comfortable with her...if you're braver or got the balls.
 
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