It's a sad truth, they'd have to be forced to wash their face then. I have to wash mine like three-four times a day, it's a habit now.
Why Women Choose "Bad Boys"
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It's a sad truth, they'd have to be forced to wash their face then. I have to wash mine like three-four times a day, it's a habit now.
A sad truth would be, I am not sure if you actually think that or are just ignorant
I would not date someone with really bad acne. Because i just wouldn't find it attractive. But I used to get it real bad, and I still get it a little bit and I understand that it's really freaking hard to get rid of. Haha It does not mean the person is disgusting and greasy just because they have skin problems :S
Sometimes you can wash and wash and use every different product you can find and it still doesn't cure it.
Women want bad boys because it gives them an ego boost. A.) These men are incredibly attractive and unattainable, so to nab one shows that you're working a lil sumthin sumthin. And B.) To turn these badboys into baby daddies who stick around shows that you can change em. Something must be SO remarkable about you to tie down a badboy and get him to stay.
It's a two time ego boost dating bad boys but it never works. They're all scum.
It's a two time ego boost dating bad boys but it never works. They're all scum.
I don't ACTUALLY think that, love. I had horrible, horrible body and facial acne and it pretty much sapped most of my confidence from when I was 9 up until I was 16 or 17, so fairly recently. I would pretty much moan and whine about it to my grandparents when I lived with them temporarily and I was shuffled from doctor to doctor. I really thought there was something horribly wrong with me because I had this really aggressive form of acne--it was just red and it was horrible. I honestly can say without any sort of hesitance that I hated it and I didn't start growing into my own skin until I got rid of those pimples. I've used everything from Proactive (which was miraculous and was the ONLY thing that worked) to Noxema and Neutrogena. Any name brand and prescribed topical cream you could think of was something I probably used. I got teased for it relentlessly. It was horrid. So I can totally empathize with someone who goes through that. They're not disgusting or greasy--they're just going through something that I know all too well and was teased about. Oh my god ... I like never open up about this sort of stuff; I dunno if this was cathartic or just ... heart-wrenching. It sort of hurts admitting all this stuff. I guess deep, deep down there's that small part of me that's still 14 years old and painfully self-conscious about her skin.
*coughs* Anyway ... back on topic.
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This, most women believe that if they stay with an unfaithful man who's bad as shit that they can change them and tie them down. Unfortunately, more often than not, that usually fails and some of these women usually are either cheated on or get left caring for a baby after they sleep with this "bad boy." Most "bad boys" ARE unattainable and this is part of their appeal--that whole "I want what I can't have" mentality just forces itself out through most of these poor women and they just go straight for the guys. Some of these bad boys are just horrible and dog-like, not taking care of their kids, fucking women just to fuck them and get an "extra notch on their bedpost." But then, like I said, for me, most of my so called "bad boys" are really just non-conformist and incredibly adamant in their opinions and passionate about their beliefs. The guys I look at are still faithful and don't just sleep with women just to sleep, my ex was one of those types, however, like I said he just had a horrid mouth so it made him .... unattractive.
Wow that is terrible, thankfully you never met anyone like this...
You know that was sarcasm.
I don't honestly go around believing that and saying that to people.
Interesting.
Well, I've known some who have said the complete opposite of what Toni, Cali & Conor are saying.
Thanks guys, for the differing opinion.
Well, I've known some who have said the complete opposite of what Toni, Cali & Conor are saying.
Thanks guys, for the differing opinion.
Actually you sounded quite serious, in the original quote you seemed to open with a joke, before clarifying what you really meant
Actually you sounded quite serious, in the original quote you seemed to open with a joke, before clarifying what you really meant
Frank, that whole thing was sarcasm, it was not written with serious intent. However, what I posted explaining what I went through from personal experience was quite serious. It wouldn't make sense for me to say what I posted to you in jest to someone that went through having severe acne when I went through the same thing. It would be a form of hypocrisy. I joke about it yes, but at the end of the day I acknowledge that I went through it and it was debilitating emotionally to a large extent and it wasn't all funny and sarcasm for me. It took a lot for me to get to the point of comfort in my own skin ... my own body and I don't intend to come across as hypocritical or ill-spirited. I suppose I'll just say that I posted something insensitive that severely misrepresented my true character; I made a mistake. I don't know why but posting all this is very, very hard for me. At heart, I'd consider myself a bit of a sentimentalist--I don't really think people who go through something like what I described as "greasy" or "disgusting" or that they should never talk to me. At one point, I was scrutinized and harassed endlessly for it so ... there.
Even if you really were joking, it's still really weird that you'd say that about people. I can understand people joking about their own trauma to cope, but making fun of others who went through that same thing seems disingenuous. Whatever floats your boat I suppose
It does seem very disingenuous--some people do odd things to mask their insecurities. Stupid things, even. It was a heartless mistake but it's better it came out here on a forum than in real life, I guess. But in reality, I'm really NOT the sort of person who goes and says those things--like I said, I misrepresented my character. I went along with what you said even if deep down I disagreed with it and was sort of ... peeved about the whole commentary on guys having horrid faces and acne scarring 'cause I secretly went through that. It probably doesn't make much sense to you and it probably makes me out to be a total hypocrite (which in this case, I am) but I'm admitting I made a mistake and that I misrepresented myself and wasn't being sensitive to my own feelings. I'm taking ownership of it ... so ...
That is fine, we all make mistakes. Do not put it on us though, Diar mentioned acne scarring a bit but you are the one who majorly expanded on and ran with it
I sincerely apologize then. It was an honest mistake and a cruel one at that.
It won't happen again. And I admit I was the one to expand upon it and ran with it more than I should have. I shouldn't have done it at all.
just promise not to get mad when i come first and my dick gets limp before you can get off
and express my discomfort with eating cooch but say it's okay to choke on my dick 
but nice guy and bad boy... these are just labels. i prefer to use adjectives to labels.
what describes a nice guy? well see, that's one of the reasons why labels are so annoying. there isn't just one kind of nice guy. you can believe every nice guy you meet is bonified 100% rainbow pissing flower scent shitting innocent, but I believe that the more innocent someone tries to make themselves seem, the more guilty of something they are.
sometimes nice guys can be hard to read. they are oblivious, sometimes even lived in a bubble their entire life, they don't realize that their word isn't enough in today's world - that everything should be taken with a grain of salt and carefully examined. everyone has baggage, and a nice guy will probably always try to keep it hidden.
and then before you know it, you will see a completely different side of them. they have a terrible temper, might be terrifyingly aggressive, they don't keep their place clean, have a history of bad relationships, among other unpleasantries.
these guys, they are not being themselves.
if you're really a nice guy and not getting laid, you aren't pulling out all the stops or you're crying because of your spur of the moment crushes that burn the image of that woman's face into your mind when she shoots you down.
picking up women isn't about casting a magic spell on them that makes them want to fuck you until you feel like you've stretched your dick
if you look good, someone will eventually bite. but you really, seriously, have to look at yourself in the mirror and be able to say you look good. trim up your beard, get a nice haircut, wear something nice.
i mean, i'd probably complain if i didn't realize that i didn't look that great with a wispy overgrown full beard and my 3XXX BE AFRAID shirt that has like a million holes in it. i also eat a lot of chips, so my hair can get greasy looking after a few days.
sometimes you just go out with friends and you check out chicks and try to get with them. not every lady who walks into a bar is looking for a one-night stand, they might just be waiting on friends or having a few drinks. try not to make your night vagina-centric.
i bet you, if you took the scene right out of anger management and re-enacted it, people would still think it was hilarious. they may have even seen the movie and think that you are a really funny guy (which, if you came up with the idea, you probably are) and you might be fun to spend time with.
but uh, bad guys. I also have an issue with this one.
there are two types of bad guys in my experience. there are the worthless good for nothing slimes who are not even human who are irresponsible, thieving, lying, cheating wastes of space that I deserve to kill for existing.
then there are the dark, angry, attitude problem, grief stricken, self loathing kind. they are not perfect, but who is? they will try to keep their problems as their own and they are comfortable being who they know that they are. they may not be a perfect example of masculinity, but at least they are human.
how type 1 gets women period, is completely beyond me. but you shouldn't expect it's face to look nearly as pretty as it does 2 years from now. because i can tell you now, I'm looking to fuck up one right about now myself.
at the trial, i'm gonna savor the motherfucking look on his face when I tell him he's just a bitch and not to drop the soap.
they aren't exactly popular with the family. they know that they are bitchmade, can't even look you in the eye because they are so goddamn ashamed that you know where they've been and what they've done. they know that they are about 5 seconds from being ripped a new asshole if they say something stupid, so they don't speak at all.
so if you're jealous of that, don't be. and if you see it, don't stand by and watch.
^ I'd like to think that a nice guy is someone who won't go fuck the nearest thing on the street after I turn my back. I'd like to think that he'll have a job, and can take care of himself, and not have to mooch off my earnings. He doesn't have to hold my hand every damn second when we're on the street and he doesn't need to buy me flowers 'just because', that stuff is horseshit. Put down the book princess.
A nice guy is someone who's faithful and respectful enough to treat me as a person, not necessarily as a 'woman', but as an equal, as much as he would treat anyone else. Someone who pitches in, someone who likes to sit at home and just do nothing, as much as he wants to go out, someone who can laugh at you and fun of you just like any normal friend would. Because a nice guy has to be your friend too, not just something to stick your vagina around.
A nice guy is someone who's faithful and respectful enough to treat me as a person, not necessarily as a 'woman', but as an equal, as much as he would treat anyone else. Someone who pitches in, someone who likes to sit at home and just do nothing, as much as he wants to go out, someone who can laugh at you and fun of you just like any normal friend would. Because a nice guy has to be your friend too, not just something to stick your vagina around.
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