Unexplained Hate that has No Reason for Being.

[Abstract Debauchery]

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[Exoskeleton]

I hate people who are ugly and moody....nuff said....Not to say that I hate ugly people in general, I just hate the moody ones...I think it's some kinda speel we're all under....some kinda hate speel that causes us to hate each other for no reason.....But most people give you good reasons for hating them though...Hating a person for nothing is rare...

 

[Abstract Debauchery]

While I do agree that it's rare with most people, I can safely say that it isn't rare with me.

On a forum that I used to go to, there was this person who was a generally nice guy. He would stick his neck out for you, he was a pretty cool guy. But for two years, I hated him, I was probably the only person on that forum who did. I didn't know why, and to this day I can't see any reason for me hating him.

It was the oddest thing. I would go out of my way to troll him on a daily basis, and I didn't have a reason. Normally, I do, but there are times when I just can't stand someone, and when asked why, I have no clue.

 

[Serah]

Right...dude I'm sorry but this has been a long time coming. Nearly everytime I see you post you are almost always bitching about something. Whether it be trivial things that annoy you or something as ridiculous as hating people for absolutely no reason at all. Do you have anger issues? Sir, I'm sorry but I'm going to suggest you take some kind of therapy or anger management classes. You need to learn to enjoy life and embrace what little time we have in this world because we never know when it'll be our last day. Instead of focusing on complete and utter strangers and your supposed hate for them, focus on the good things that life has to offer.

 

[Abstract Debauchery]

Meh, I can't say that you're wrong. In fact, you've pretty much hit the nail on the head. Yeah, I've got a ton of things that annoy me, and there are a lot of qualities in people that I really don't like.

However, I can't ever see myself sitting around a campfire singing songs and whatnot because I'm afraid that tomorrow will be my last day. No offense of course.

Yet think about it this way. If we all get along, and if none of us have anything that makes us angry, and if none of us hate anything, then that eliminates half of the conversation material that we have.

Sure, I complain a lot, and sure, that may be annoying to some people. However, there is no rule stating that I can't post about things that piss me off, or about random things such as hating someone for no reason. My thread was merely a question to see if there are some like-minded individuals that may have one of the many quirks that I have, that make me an individual.

Besides, if we're all happy all the time, that would makes things rather boring in my opinion. If I could go though life loving everything and hating nothing, I'd be... rather bored.

 

[Serah]

Now not once did I say life had to be all happy, sunshine and rainbows every single day. Quite the contrary. I'm just saying you look at all the bad qualities in people and turn it into something it just absolutely isn't. Not once did I ever tell you that you couldn't post about things that piss you off either, but rather my opinion on things you get pissed over are just ridiculous and trivial. Sure anger is a natural emotion and we all have it and it's going to happen to all of us at some point, but the way you come across to me is that's all you ever focus on is what annoys you, what pisses you off and you seem to enjoy complaining. All I'm saying is just enjoy life sometimes because it's not all about the bad either. You need to have a mixture of both to have a good balance and you sir, don't. Or rather it seems you don't.

 

[Abstract Debauchery]

Although I know you didn't say that I couldn't post about my bitching, I felt as if I should bring it up because I personally don't see a problem with it. Everyone has teh right to complain. Some do it more than others, such as myself.

Yes, I do agree with you on the concept that I get pissed over things that most people would conciser small and insignificant. I suppose that the reason that I do such is because... Well, like my computer when it throws a fit. I enjoy things being in complete and working order. I enjoy things such as reason and logic, and everything that I complain about, I typically have a reason for.

While life isn't all about the bad things as you said, It doesn't change the fact that it's there. As much as I could ignore it, it won't exactly make it go away, nor will my bitching. However, my complaining about something small and insignificant makes me feel better about. Others have different way of handling things that annoy them, while I have mine. In all reality, I don't see what the problem is.

While there are indeed a lot of things that I love, I never really do talk about them... ever. Let's say that I love ice cream, I love it so much, that I must post about it. Then we have a thread with 20 posts to come about people that share a love of ice cream. That seems... boring to me.

Or, I can post a 3 page rant on why I hate FFX and we can get into a much heated discussion about it. I post my views while someone else posts their opposing views. That, in my opinion, sounds much more fun than talking about why I love [insert object here] so much.

Even this conversation, I find it to be immerse and fun. Here we are, talking about life, while making points about a certain flaw in my personality. I'm neither insulted, nor angry, in fact, it's quite the opposite. If I never complained, or hated anything, I would get to miss out on a great conversation such as this.

Sure, I could go outside, enjoy the fresh air, play a video game, hang out with friends, but I enjoy intelligent conversation. It makes me a happy person, and I value a good conversation or a debate over talking about how much I love [insert object here].

 

[Cardboard~Exodus]

Perhaps some people hold different ideals or see the world a different way? In a world filled with the negative, it makes the positive that much magnificent. Or perhaps this is the place where they put all there pent up annoyances. I'm the same way, just on and off on here. And if we were to brush off the annoyances and the hatred that he hold, then we'd never be able to fix things- something which I plan to do in the future (not people, but society, at least for me.)


Anyway, this is just me playing the devil's advocate. Personally, I never once have hated someone from just there appearance. It's a few seconds after that.

 

[blakstang98]

I can't say I have unexplained hate for anything. Hate is a lot like respect, it has to be earned. A person being racist is hating someone because of their race. They know nothing about who they are, but because they are of said race, they are automatically hated. I can't say I see hating someone without knowing anything about them.

Hate is also an awful word, that is very strong in meaning. You can dislike something, things can annoy you, but to hate something would take a drastic act. Things have happened to me in the past where it lead me to hate someone. At this point in my life, I realize that hating a person for some of the things I was hating for was not right. Why have I lightened up and see life in a more happy perspective? I really couldn't tell ya. I guess in my lifeline I've seen and heard enough things that make me realize my hatred was petty and ultimately pointless. Even the people who have done something to me that I deem unforgivable, I still do not hate them.

There are awful people in the world who have done horrible things that deserve to be hated for. But the question I ask is, in the big picture, is there really a reason to hate someone without ever knowing anything about them? I've yet to find an explaination feasible to answer yes.

 

[Cardboard~Exodus]

Hm? Point taken. Hate is a bit too strong of a word for everyday life- dislike immensely is much better.

Then again, Hate rolls more off the tongue.

 

[Abstract Debauchery]

Perhaps some people hold different ideals or see the world a different way? In a world filled with the negative, it makes the positive that much magnificent. Or perhaps this is the place where they put all there pent up annoyances. I'm the same way, just on and off on here. And if we were to brush off the annoyances and the hatred that he hold, then we'd never be able to fix things- something which I plan to do in the future (not people, but society, at least for me.)


Anyway, this is just me playing the devil's advocate. Personally, I never once have hated someone from just there appearance. It's a few seconds after that.

I'm a "glass-half-empty" kind of guy. You could give me an object that most people view as perfect and I would point out every flaw in it and tell you why I hate it.

Hate is also an awful word, that is very strong in meaning.

Maybe I did go too far with hate. Maybe I should have used "annoyed." However, in most cases the second they open their mouths is when I hate them.

I'm grumpy, which leads me to believe I'm going to be one hell of an old man when I get older. My first instinct when it comes to anything new is that I'm not going to like it, then most of the time, I do end up hating it. I was actually raised that way. However, that is a subject that I'm not going to go into right now.

But the question I ask is, in the big picture, is there really a reason to hate someone without ever knowing anything about them?

Nope, there isn't. Which is why I post the thread. It's just something that I really can't help, and was curious to see if anyone besides myself experiences this.

Then again, Hate rolls more off the tongue.

This. Hate does sound much better. Nice sig by the way, Xenosaga kicks some serious ass.

 

[Coco]

The word 'hate' I think, is thrown around too loosely... I can't say I've experienced feeling what you do--unreasonable hate towards random, and even nice people as I gather from your first few posts. I completely agree with Stang that hate is much like respect and it's something earned.

and everything that I complain about, I typically have a reason for.

Except for this thread, I presume? D:

On a side note, I've read a lot of your posts around Costa Del Sol and I can somewhat agree with what Kikyo said. Although it's permissible to post about complaints, I think even that could be done in moderation.

 

[Cardboard~Exodus]

Thanks. I hardly have the right to have it though, I've played half-way through the first one, got stuck on Chekhov and decided to wiki the story XD I still feel like I did a cop-out.


Anyway, for the glass-half empty argument, I find it hard to believe. Most people are likely to keep there non-nonsensical dis-like (Hate sounds much better) of things off the public eye or whatever passes for it. Then again, that'd be hypocritacal of me, so don't take that to seriously and write me off as stupid for suggesting it...


..Though all and all it seems a wee bit melodramtic.

 

[Abstract Debauchery]

The word 'hate' I think, is thrown around too loosely... I can't say I've experienced feeling what you do--unreasonable hate towards random, and even nice people as I gather from your first few posts. I completely agree with Stang that hate is much like respect and it's something earned.



Except for this thread, I presume? D:

On a side note, I've read a lot of your posts around Costa Del Sol and I can somewhat agree with what Kikyo said. Although it's permissible to post about complaints, I think even that could be done in moderation.

Note the word "typically" in that quote.

Although, I do see your views, and understand them. What I'm having trouble understanding is why I do so. Which is why I was hoping that I'm not the only one that is guilty of it.

And I 100% can't agree with complaining in moderation. If the passion strikes you to rant, then rant. I can't see someone saying, "well, I ranted a few minutes ago, I'll just rant about this particular subject tomorrow."

Thanks. I hardly have the right to have it though, I've played half-way through the first one, got stuck on Chekhov and decided to wiki the story XD I still feel like I did a cop-out.

You will go back and play Xenosaga this instant young man... Lol, just kidding. Even though that is a cop-out... It's an understable one though. Xenosage isn't exactly the easiest game ever.

Anyway, for the glass-half empty argument, I find it hard to believe. Most people are likely to keep there non-nonsensical dis-like (Hate sounds much better) of things off the public eye or whatever passes for it. Then again, that'd be hypocritacal of me, so don't take that to seriously and write me off as stupid for suggesting it...

That's understandable. I am bit of a pessimist, and I do find a flaw in just about everything. It's not like I enjoy it, at times I wish I could sit down and actually like something without finding a flaw in it. It's bloody annoying at times.

Most people would have the common decency to not talk about the things they hate. I guess I'm just a little devoid of that decency. I just have a different view the most people have I suppose.

..Though all and all it seems a wee bit melodramtic.

Probably because it is.

We all have those certain flaws in our personality. I'm never depressed about anything, but goddamn I do get mad, and I do show it.

It's weird though, I'm always angry about something small and insignificant. You could take a dump in my kitchen sink and I'd laugh for hours. However, if you hide my headphones for a joke, I'll cut you.

 

[Cardboard~Exodus]

I Believe that the D&D players call that 'Chaotic Neutral' lol.

Anywho, I am prone to fits of rage over things that don't even make me angry, but they are ridiculously short and often forgotten about. Also, finding a flaw in everything is something that I hardly view as a negative personality. One who looks for substance will obviously push aside all the shit.

 

[lreal]

"Why do I hate these guys?" I'll think about it for a few minutes, and I'll never come up with an answer.

You should probably go see a counselor...

Normal people generally do not arbitrarily hate others. There is usually some kind of underlying reason be it racial prejudice, gender bias, etc... There is always something fueling hatred.

To be honest, you just sound like a emo teenager who hasn't grown out of that pessimism stage yet.

 

[Shu]

Hate.. too strong of a word for a human. I dislike all sorts of things in people, but hate nothing. Honestly if you truly hate someone who you have no idea of you are not going to make it in life.

Bitterness should not be as early onset as 20 years of age. I'm a humanist, so I don't see eye to eye here. People to me, graced with beauty or not.. on the outside or in, does not give me any decree to actually hate them.

Hate is a very scary term in fact. Hate is what drives people to kill. Hate is what manifests from deep within. It is the cause of quite a lot of whats wrong in this world to be honest, because we are still recovering from people's hate.

Whether it be Racial, Spiritual, Sexual, or Purely difference in politics.. Hate is the total absence of humility.

 

[Abstract Debauchery]

You should probably go see a counselor...

Normal people generally do not arbitrarily hate others. There is usually some kind of underlying reason be it racial prejudice, gender bias, etc... There is always something fueling hatred.

To be honest, you just sound like a emo teenager who hasn't grown out of that pessimism stage yet.

I probably should go see one. I know it's not normal, but I'm not made of moneies.

Although, I wouldn't call emo's pessimists, and I wouldn't call pessimism a "stage".

I probably associate their appearance with something I hate. When I see people with an emo hair style, I think "emo", which I hate. That kind of makes sense I suppose.

As for that last line... That's just hitting below the belt. Funny as hell though, because I've thought the same thing. In fact, it's the only thing that I can't stand. Other than that, I'm perfect.

I'm a narcissistic son of a bitch and I love it.

Hate.. too strong of a word for a human. I dislike all sorts of things in people, but hate nothing. Honestly if you truly hate someone who you have no idea of you are not going to make it in life.

Bitterness should not be as early onset as 20 years of age. I'm a humanist, so I don't see eye to eye here. People to me, graced with beauty or not.. on the outside or in, does not give me any decree to actually hate them.

Hate is a very scary term in fact. Hate is what drives people to kill. Hate is what manifests from deep within. It is the cause of quite a lot of whats wrong in this world to be honest, because we are still recovering from people's hate.

Whether it be Racial, Spiritual, Sexual, or Purely difference in politics.. Hate is the total absence of humility.

I envy you Shu. I really do. I wish I could see the world like that, and I wish more people would see it that way. However, as much as I would like to see the world like that, I just simply can't.

I see way too much wrong with the world. I'm not attempting to sound emo (which is exactly what I picture myself looking like right now) but most people have too many qualities that I just can't stand.

And Hebi, can you please put some effort in your post. Posting an Anonymous post hardly counts as a post, and the quote means crap to me to be quite honest.

Although, I will say this. I love you guys, you're all pretty damned great in my opinion. (Screenshot this post because I'll deny I said it later.) I make a thread, and you guys sure as hell didn't disappoint when it came to a riveting discussion. Which is part of why I love this community so much. Even with your flaws, I find myself liking them. Personalities are one hell of a subject to me. Which is why my college major is psychology.

My Myers-Briggs personality type is ITNJ. Which, upon reading, explains a lot about me. Scary accurate that thing is...

You guys made my day. Now, I'm off to bed, because I just took some nyquil to force myself to sleep because I haven't slept in a week.

 

[Dee]

Someone has always given me a reason to hate them. I just don't look at someone and say, "man, I hate that person." Their actions, their behaviors, the way they treat me and the way they treat the people I care for is what's going to determine the way I feel about them.

There are people, however, that I dislike more than I like, but they really have to screw me over for me to hate them.

 

[Martel]

I think all hatred has a reason, you just don't recognise it sometimes. Its more instinctive when you just see someone and hate them immediately.
As for me...people tend to irritate me for the smallest of things, but I wouldn't say I hate them. Just that I'd rather avoid them.