How forward, outgoing do you ideally prefer your partner to be ?

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How forward, outgoing do you ideally prefer your partner to be ?

Does anyone have a preference ?
 
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well, i wouldn't call it preference, exactly.
but, after being twice in more of a "long lasting" partnership, with men who were not the quietest, thoughtfull persons on earth, i'd say that the combination we made was like : :holyshit:


;)

this made me believe, it would be wiser to come together with somebody who doesn't have as much of a temper that i do.. maybe someone, to bring me down to earth, when i get carried away by my emotions, which happens on a daily basis, i dare say :wacky:
 
Anyway, I'm really outgoing, and can quite often be in your face, so I think I'd prefer someone to be abit quieter than me - 2 of me gets abit much. Sadly, the current bf is the same, so we kinda grate on each other abit xD

Although, I say O'd prefer someone abit quieter, but in truth, I think I'd just get bored easier, so maybe I DO prefr people more outgoing :confused:

I have my :ffs: moments with him, but at least he keeps me entertined and on my toes, and I'm pretty sur ehe thinks the same as me, so yeah, although the idea of someone abit ....well, opposite tothat is appealing, I think I actually DO prefer the outgoing in yuor face types
 
I'm gonna say that it's extremely difficult to put a preference on things, I've always taken it that you generally act very different around the person you like compared to everyone else and you'll be naturally outgoing - but that's just from personal experience and seeing other peoples relationships at college and how they act in comparison.

But generally, I don't have a preference, if you like them and they like you then that's all you need really. :wacky:
 
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I'm gonna say that it's extremely difficult to put a preference on things, I've always taken it that you generally act very different around the person you like compared to everyone else and you'll be naturally outgoing - but that's just from personal experience and seeing other peoples relationships at college and how they act in comparison.

But generally, I don't have a preference, if you like them and they like you then that's all you need really. :wacky:
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Agreed. I don't really have a preference either. I like my husband the way he is and it happened to be that he's way more outgoing than I am. Would my feelings still be the same otherwise? Of course. We can turn the tables around and it wouldn't matter at all. Honestly I've never even pondered about my preference on whether I'd prefer my partner to be more outgoing/forward or not - that doesn't really play a factor in my relationship.
 
I would not care about what my partner was like, unless they were sincere, real, and not so concerned about their looks they went to desperate mesaures. Physical features aren't a big factor for me.
 
I like my guy to be a bit forward but not so much that I feel like a cheap whore or something. I've had both boyfriends--the one that's afraid to admire a scantily-clad woman and one that was overly-eager to see her take what was still clad at all. And sometimes it's nice to exchange some naughty banter but at other times it gets on my nerves. I'm a bit more on the flirtateous side than some, but I still have my days when I'm nervous. So just someone who's able to enjoy a good looking bit of lingerie but not shout "You're ma whore, bitch!" or something equally vulgar.
 
Hmm, I've never been in a relationship before, but I seem to be attracted to the guys on the quiet side... As long as they're not afraid to speak about something that's bothering them. I hate it when people in general hold things like that inside.

Loud/outgoing guys annoy me sometimes. XD
 
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Well by outgoing.. I'm not sure what you exactly mean. If you are trying to give lude hints to sex.. or if you are trying to say "talky".

From a guys aspect it's quite a bit different. A girl who is secretively hurting inside emotionally you can only tell by the eyes. For me I hate the lady hurt like this, whether it be something that is physical causing it or something that has been eating at her to no end. If she can't open up for me, I aint going to waste my time. Then again I don't like a girl who is to talkative.

It instills in me a sort of passive listening, which all guys tend to exhibit. There's real problems and then there are trivial problems. If she gets pissed easily at me, and up in my face well I'm more of a person to push off.. and let her have at me. I'm not the sort to bark back unless I'm ending the relationship. I don't like to add to people's problems and be one of them.

Like I said before a silent girl can gnaw on my bones. I'll try to understand only so far, before I give up. If she's silent all the time and she is attractive, well if she is "Still" silent around me.. I'll start to wonder things. It will only create a healthy sense of paranoia in me.

As for the sexual part.. umm.. I'm mysterious. Withholding at times and other times.. well that is privacy. You would have to know me. For the girl, heck be yourself.. it all turns out better that way.
 
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Honestly I'm not yet aware.Even if you prefer a certain type it doesn't necessarily mean you'll get attracted by it so I can't be sure.I don't know if by forward you mean a honest person,but I wouldn't want one.Honesty is a good thing but sometimes truth hurts.Of course that doesn't mean I'd like someone who lies all the times but it's just that some things aren't meant to be told straight forward.
I think the word outgoing isn't very specific as every person can see it differently,so I'm gonna go with social.I'm a big fan of anti-social people in general so it would annoy me if he just closed to himself,meaning that it would also be hard for me to approach him.
This for now.
 
Hmmm to sum it up pretty simply. Like me i guess. Somebody who likes to go out and party but doesnt mind a night in aswell. I dont think i could be with someone who wants to be constantly going out and doing things. And i know for a fact i couldnt be with someone who just wanted to sit in and watch films all the time, not at my age anyway. So make me a girl clone of me and il date myself:wacky:
 
I'm leaning towards 'not very'. It's not because I don't want her to talk to me a lot (maybe even endlessly if her topic really gets me going :wacky: ), but because it could mean tons of parties and unwanted guests that I don't want to be a part of. :gasp:
Generally, I'd like someone with the same mindset as I do.
 
I'm shy and quiet.
So I'd want someone really outgoing.
That's what it would take to get me to
go out and do things.
 
You never know until you experience it, but I've always had it in my mind that I would enjoy spending time with a girl that's more outgoing than I am. Which really, is easy to accomplish, since I'm usually rather quiet.
 
I'm very shy when I'm first meeting someone and then I slowly open up more and more. I'd like someone who is also shy, because not only do I find that extremely cute, but it's fun in a sense that you both get to work on opening up together. I've experienced this with past relationships, and some fond memories have come from it. :)

I really don't get along well with people who are opposite of me, I have found out. At least not romantically. Believe it or not, but I usually run out of things to say and am really self conscious around that type of person. I usually feel like I'm letting them down when I don't know what to say. But with someone who is also shy, we are feeling the same thing and can relate.

And that's all what it boils down to for me. Someone I can relate to, understand well, and speak intelligently with.
 
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