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ok well pretty much i was having a avarage day at work
and i got a text from holly, now the last time i saw her, we has long, great sex, she went home the next morning, and i went to work, didnt see her last night coz she went to a friends house, n so today
about 12 i got a text saying
"hey, im sorry to do this by text, but your at work so i cant any ohter way,i know i have said this before and we have got bacjk together but this time will be diffren, i want to break up! ..."
i mean WTF.. after 3 years, i get that thought a text, i feel like a fucking dick,...
so im just worth a shitty text now apparently.. o well.. more that i feel like :(
 
Sorry to hear that man. The exact same thing happened to my mate last week. They had been together for about 2 and a half years and she seen him last wednesday, left his house went home then dumped him by text. -_- Its a pretty cowardly way to do it i think, but some folks like the easy option, they dont care about decency.
Forget about her man, someone who ends it like that isnt worth the time.
 
Moved to Temple of Ancients.

There's not a lot you can do except ask why and go and get hammered.
Perhaps it's time to move on, meet someone new etc etc.
 
well i just rang her house to find out why, and she wasnt back from work, but then like 5 mins later she rung me like what do you want, i askjed why and she was like i dont wanna talk to you, and so i just said well i want a reason and all i got was tough and a dialing tone =/... but im going out with some mates tongiht, and there is already a girl (one all my mates thing is 10/10xD) that has liked me for like a year lol, but shes more no strings xD.. and i hear what you are saying BD but its hard to just get over someone after loving them unconditionally for 3 years =/
especially as i dont got a reason, kinda makes it seem less real =/

EDIT: thanx for moving
 
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im so sorry :( that must feel sooo damn bad :( i dont know what to say... to dump you like that is just so wrong, its just.... terrible :( if you want to talk, let me know, okay? im here for you :)
 
Try to have no more feelings for that girl. Once it has ended, it's finished. Also it was HER decision, so it's her loss, it's not your fault for her leaving. Move on and go out, enjoy yourself, and don't resist another girl, but obviously you should see if she's using you for good and stuff, etc. Sorry to hear that.
 
well this has happned on a monthly basis honestly, but like i stated is normally a huge argument that last a few hours n then its over n we are fine, the only two times we did "split up" was for a week each time, n then we was ok.. but this was just diffrent, but i ovi still love her to bit, n i dont wanna go out do some shit that if in a week time we r ok like noral id regret =/... but i dont wanna be sat here like a dick if its a fo' sure thing
 
Sabriel said:
Try to have no more feelings for that girl. Once it has ended, it's finished. Also it was HER decision, so it's her loss, it's not your fault for her leaving. Move on and go out, enjoy yourself, and don't resist another girl, but obviously you should see if she's using you for good and stuff, etc. Sorry to hear that.
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Much easier said than done though, its not easy to get over someone and 3 years is a long time. But your correct there really is nothing more you can do than move on. Going out on the rebound is the best way, head down the town see if you can meet someone etc.
 
That is rather cowardly of her.

I knew a guy from school who was with his Mrs for about 4 years and she did the same thing to him.

Told him through text. Then when he rang her to find out why, she pretty much just hung up on him. <_<

420 Ink said:
but im going out with some mates tongiht, and there is already a girl (one all my mates thing is 10/10xD) that has liked me for like a year lol, but shes more no strings xD..
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Also I would avoid this if I were you in my honest opinion.

I know I would hate to be the 'rebound girl' and you're obviously not over this one you've just broken up with. So it's kind of unfair to the new girl in my opinion.

Fair enough if you go out with the mates and have a drink, but I wouldn't go jeopardising anything with this girl that you think may be a potential girlfriend in the near future. :gasp:

However if you both just intend on having some fun with no strings attached, go for it! :gasp:

EDIT: Rebounds always worked for me. XD
 
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nonono, shes pretty much just no strings, was in the past... i wouldnt have a relationship with her, nor her me, more of a mutial lust. but yes laguna its much harder than its said, the relationship as a whole left me feeling pretty insucure =/
 
.................YOU CAN'T TEXT MESSAGE BREAK-UP!

Proof: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XcidD2HFK8M

Really though, if she's low enough to pull that stunt, then she's not worth your time/energy/hard-earned cash and you should cut her loose and move on, brutha.

It probably means she doesn't actually have a reason and/or she's got somebody else on the side. Just move along.
 
I'm gonna do this the easy way and say "What they said." *points up*
Really, though, perhaps there's a reason. I know one of my...well, can't say "girlfriends"...hmm..."lovers" tried doing the same to me. I hounded her until she finally confessed that she thought she was pregnant and didn't want me dealing with it. Thankfully, she was wrong, and we went on like normal from there.
 
420ink all I can say is Karma is a bitch. She will have hers my friend. Don't worry about it, if you were arguing that much to be quite honest, it did not seem like a healthy relationship to begin with.

Hell the sex might have been great, but seriously.. after the sex.. just look who you have to deal with? If you love the girl, I'm sorry for you. There are other people out there though, if you are looking to settle down, there is a girl for you.

These days people are more often to break up by text, because they don't have the balls to work up the confrontation. I'm sorry break up by text is by no means closure, if I have to do it, I like to know the girl won't stalk me to no end, because she feels as if it was a rash move on my part.

Although let me give you a bit of advice. If you just got out of a 3 year relationship, don't just jump to the next girl. Have some fun first. Be safe, use condoms, do the whole dating thing.. and let go a bit.

Settling down is all well and good, but you have time. Don't settle for a two faced whore named chloe, bud. There are well too many out there who love to deal in the game playing.
 
Damn Ink, sorry to hear that. I do know the feeling of randomly being dumped without really knowing what the hell happened. It's a sucky feeling indeed.

From what I've read, you mentioned that you had broken up with each other before, and I personally think that's a big red flag. In my experience, getting back together never worked. It may work to some extent, but it'll never really grow much more.

My advice, pick-up and move on. If she was too cowardly to face you and tell you this, it's because there is more going on than you realize. I'm sure you don't want to hear this, but I think there is someone else. And the fact that she won't face you to tell you means that she's too guilty to come clean with you. And I think that kind of betrayal isn't worth fighting for. At least you're still young, you'll surely find someone when you're ready to have another relationship.

You may feel like shit now, but you've learned something very valuable with this break-up. Now you can use this knowledge and move on knowing more than you did before. Now you'll know the warning signs a little better, and this will help you to understand if a girl is really into you or not.

Anyways, sorry this happened to you dude, and sorry my words may be a bit brash, but I really think this will end up being a good thing for you, even though it doesn't seem like it now. Cheer up man, and there's always something in a pipe waiting for you to cheer yourself up with :awesome:
 
thanx for all that guys :), helps to have more than the few friends i see irl to talk to, i agree with aspects of what you all have said, but, n im gunna not jump straight into anything, not for a long while, no daiting either xD lol just the whole use protection thing :awesome:
 
Shu said:
Although let me give you a bit of advice. If you just got out of a 3 year relationship, don't just jump to the next girl. Have some fun first. Be safe, use condoms, do the whole dating thing.. and let go a bit.

Settling down is all well and good, but you have time. Don't settle for a two faced whore named chloe, bud. There are well too many out there who love to deal in the game playing.
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Shu is a wise Buddha. He speaks truth.
On a more serious note I had a very similar situation, and for a while just was, technically, single. Being able to choose and control your own life, taking your time in your decisions...it's nice. As they say in the "Remedy", "When I fall in love, I take my time, there's no need to hurry when I'm making up my mind."
 
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Wtf are you talking about Royal? What's wrong with a guy getting a little upset?
If he was so upset he killed himself....then that would be wrong.
 
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