Who is your phoenix?

[Shu]

This might be a bit weak on my part.. but is there anyone in your life who you miss having around? Whenever you saw them it gave you a boost.. in life. They could of either passed or just grown out of touch.

Mine would be my grandparents on my father's side. They were very traditional people yet very glad to have me our family around. They both have passed from old age, but will never be forgotten.

 

[Cheshire]

Im not sure if this would be considered that but I miss having my boyfriend around. We live in two different countries. Well he came and seen me in October and spent 2 weeks with me. It was like them two weeks went by so fast. Yes we might talk all the time every day but still it doesnt match the feel and happiness I had when he was here with me face to face

 

[SapphireStar]

There are 2 peeps.

First is my ex. Yeah he can be a jerk, but hes determined to stay my friend no matter what. Since we've spilt we've had rows and always end up becoming friends again lol. Plus he fixed my laptop when I was a bitch to him and I spent the day with him yesturday and I didnt want to leave him. Yeah I still do love him, but he made me laugh and smile so much. I still do miss our relationship 7 months down the line.

The other is my dad. He lives in Perth, Austrailia and I recently got to visit him. I barely seen him over there as he was working alot and when I did see him, his family were all around him. The only time I could hang out with him was after dinner we'd have a long chat and dropping me off at the airport. I miss him so damn much.

 

[Beyer]

My cousin who moved away, I miss him. Thankfully we are in touch again after 5 years thanks to facebook but it is not the same
My nan who died over a year ago, she was a lovely lady, independent, caring, loving. I miss her greatly

Some friends who either of us have changed...

 

[Dionysos]

I don't take partings very well in a general sense, but I particularly miss my grandparents on my Mom's side. They were the biggest influence on me as I was growing up. Some people aren't close to their grandparents but to me they were like second parents, even though they lived up in Consett. They'd come down to stay with us every christmas, and we'd go up to see them at least once or twice a year. It was awesome.

They were really kind and selfless, and helped me feel protected and secure as a child. They both died within a few months of each other, so it was a huge shock to the system at the time that that happened, and there is always a gap that they have left.

I'm going to have to buy a load of old western movies at some point and watch them. My Granda loved those, so they remind me of him.

 

[Mitsuki]

Very relaxing song. I like.

I guess for me, it'd have to be my mom. She's still back in my home country but will be coming here soon by this summer, hopefully. I've waited for 15 years and we've only seen each other four times. She's definitely my best friend and I miss having her around in my life. I know that back when I was a teenager, I'd talk to her on the phone from time to time and we'd both be crying...heh, sure it sounds silly but it's that mother-daughter bonding that matters. Now that I have a family of my own, I know she's still having a hard time accepting that her baby's all grown up. She sure have shed many tears for me and my brother these past years. I really can't wait to be with her again...

 

[Twisted]

I miss a dear friend, she maked me smile and laugh all day and we talked all day long and everything and i kinda felt like i wanted something more out of our friendship but she didn't and i'm still feeling the same way i did 2 years ago. now i'm not that happy anymore because i ruined our friendship, because of how i felt for her..

 

[Six]

Im not sure if this would be considered that but I miss having my boyfriend around. We live in two different countries. Well he came and seen me in October and spent 2 weeks with me. It was like them two weeks went by so fast. Yes we might talk all the time every day but still it doesnt match the feel and happiness I had when he was here with me face to face

Heh. I know exactly what you mean. Nothing better than to be able to see them day in day out.

Three people, which of one has passed away.

My boyfriend, cousin, and grandma.

My grandma hasn't been around since I was 11... Still miss her everyday. Heh, yeah I'll stop there, before Kira gets emotional...

My cousin... Her and I grew up like sisters basically. With all the family drama that has happened over the years... We just don't have any contact anymore... Still bothers me...

And then my boyfriend. Having achieved to keep a long distance relationship strong for 4 years, is something I'm very proud of. We visit when we can, and even though we're looking into moving, it's still hard to not see him in person everyday.

<3

 

[.Ted]

Nice topic. I'll punch in my two cents.

It's got to be one of my relationships. It was this girl who was introduced to me by another friend. We hit it off, and she actually fell in love with me. She was kind and selfless, but her biggest flaw was that she never fought back. Which attracted many bullies.

She passed away about two years ago after battling cancer. I miss her so much, it's still hard for me to move on.

 

[Meds]

I miss a dear friend, she maked me smile and laugh all day and we talked all day long and everything and i kinda felt like i wanted something more out of our friendship but she didn't and i'm still feeling the same way i did 2 years ago. now i'm not that happy anymore because i ruined our friendship, because of how i felt for her..

Wow, that is exactly the same with me. It's been exactly 2 years for me as well. I know exactly how you feel. Even with a new girlfriend, things are never like they used to be with that girl.
It makes me wish love didn't exist.

 

[Amizon]

Definitely my granddad. Not a day goes by without me thinking how life would be different now if he were alive. He died in hospital with a lack of oxygen in his brain. He started to forget the people around him and my grandma sent him there in the end.

He would always encourage me to continue with my writing and not let anyone get me down. Sadly, I failed to finish a novel before he died. I regret not doing it sooner, but it's pushed me further to persisting with this career I want. I'm doing all I can to make him proud.

 

[Morrigan]

To me it is my former english teacher in fact that now has become my friend.For some weird reason that person inspires me a lo,I feel like doing a lot of things after our meetings.
I never thought there were actually those kinds of people around.Plus,I've learnt a lot from her and how to appreciate the little things in life.