Site Rules Thread said:Racism/Sexism/Prejudice
If ANY sort of racist, sexist, or prejudice remarks (skin coolour, beliefs, gender etc0 are spotted within FFF either by a member of staff or reported by another member, action will be taken even if the person suspected of making them only did it in a joking manner. They are serious matters and can cause an extreme amount of offense to the person who the comments are aimed at or if a member stumbles across them as they are extremely disrespectful/offensive and will NOT be tolerated.
Site Rules Thread said:Respecting 'Real' Names/Privacy/Harassment
Whilst we understand it is common then many people on FFF are respectively called by their REAL name, we would like to stress that if a member does not have their real name on their profile OR does not wish to give you it, please do not harass that member about it otherwise they become uncomfortable and you will be warned. Furthermore, should you happen to find out their real name or a nickname, please ask them for permission from them for you to use it as it respecting their wishes, and certain members may not like their name and/or nickname shouted around the forums as it could easily make them feel uncomfortable...
These need to be modified.
I am a genetic male who crossdresses and has been psychologically diagnosed as having severe transgender issues. At the same time, I am unable to even log on to the website without being asked whether I am male or female. I have chosen to hide that specific information on my profile for a reason. At least once a week since I've been posting and talking in the Shout Box, the question comes up. I do not feel comfortable telling people who or what I am, mainly because it makes the other person uncomfortable, and leads to them either avoiding me or attacking me. I have told a few people in person what I am, and half of them have cut off all communication with me, and one even tried to rape me, so you'll have to forgive my not telling any one.
My name is Max. I sometimes go by Natalie. But I prefer to only be called whatever my username currently is. I've had several people ask for my name in order to ascertain my gender/sex, and it occurs more frequently than you might think.