Grudges

I'm probably one of the most brutally straightforward and honest people anyone knows now. I used to hold grudges and be secretive and deceptive and hold back my emotions and thoughts, but that came to bite me in the ass. Eventually, so many people were talking about me behind their backs or criticizing me to my face, I became cold and indifferent to a lot of people. If I have a problem with someone, they'll know it in a snap. If I don't like how you look or act, I'll be the first one to speak up and shoot you down, no matter who is around, may they be the Principal or your own parents.

I can't hold grudges anymore, because that's how I bottle up emotions and get really preoccupied and frustrated with myself. I'm good at making up with friends and acquaintances if we have a tiff, but if someone has done something to hurt me substantially, they're gonna go through some karma. :]
 
I hold grudges really badly. There are people from my highschool days, I'm talking like 5-6 years ago, who I still fucking despise. They made my life a living hell, so yeah, if I saw them today and could get away with it I'd probably beat the living hell out of them :elmo:
 
I can't hold grudges. No matter how long try to hold them, the very next day, I'm laughing and having a merry time with the person I am supposed to be grudging.

Yes, there are many people I despise, but, I just try to stay away from them.

Oh well, I guess I'm just too nice to be bitchy :elmo:
 
I don't hold grudges. I either like you or I don't. Most people I really don't trust. It takes a while to break the ice with me. If you prove not to be trustworthy and honest, I just don't bother with you anymore. That's final.
 
im a laid back easy going guy, so im pretty hard to annoy and i can get on with pretty much anybody.
that being said, there are 1 or 2 people, who i fucking hate, and just their existence pisses me off.
no, i dont hold grudges, i can be in fight with someone and then talk to them the next day like nothing happened
 
When it comes to it, I won't say sorry unless I know (or think) it's my fault. But I'm a really laid back person and I don't get phased easily, so I'm very rarely in a situation where I have fallen out with someone. Though I haven't properly made up with one of my mates for going on a year now, even though I occasionally still see him. It's just over a small thing between me, him and my ex that really bothered me and he still sometimes gets at me for it.
 
I rarely hold any grudges. The only occasion is if a really good friend hurts me more than once. That is the only time I will hold a grudge and I don't want to see that person or talk to them again.

Otherwise I just tell them what I think, and leave it up to them to see if they want to hold the grudge against me, but I won't hold it against them.
 
I'm the same in the morning as I am in the evening.

I'm not entirely sure whether it's holding grudges so much as acting on them, but whether or not I have them, I rarely ever act on them. Although I would like to think that most things that make people hold grudges only make me amused.
 
I don't think I've ever held a grudge...There's so much crap that I just don't care about...of all the things that people have ever done to piss me right off...none of them have ever meant enough for me to hold a grudge afterwards.

You could probably shave my head while I'm sleeping, and...without a doubt, I'd probably get back at you, because that's the kind of thing that would really piss me off...I still wouldn't hold a grudge. And I'm usually too "don't give a flying fck" to get back at people anyways.

Even though I usually forget about things that upset me within the span of a week (or sometimes even hours), even if I don't ever forget about it; I'll never really care about it.
 
I just realized, I can have a very "vengeful" opposite personality if provoked. During these days I've felt cold hearted, serious, and reluctant to pay any attention to anyone. I duplicated my training, which ends up doubling my anger level, even though I managed to keep it under control to avoid problems.

The reason is I was deceived by a special someone. I take lies personal, I can be deceived by a person once, but that is a mistake a hardly ever repeat. So yes, I do hold grudges.

Being bad, feels good :devil2:

...
Joking :wink:
 
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