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Ooooooh I'm not one for this, I only EVER come in here for a rant.
I DO NOT WANT/NEED ADVICE
Anyway, last night, inbox, 'you free tonight?'
Me: No, clares round, may be able to do tomorrow?
Him: Im away eary friday morn for my holiday, can you rejig it?
Me: No, had this pallned for ages. cant just ditch her last minute
(at one point, as i have now deleted the messages since posting this, and editting this in id said, shes already on her way! he actually suggested i tell her to TURN AROUND and go home)
Him: ah well, not free again, bottom of the pile as usual
Me: youve hardly given me any notice and i already have plans, im not about to tell my best pal to turn around and go home when we have had plans made for a week to have a girly night. If you think its a bad think that im not selling my mate out then, fuck knows. its not that i dont want to see you, but if i have plans, i wont change them
Him: just give me a shout when you are free or drunk after a nightout
(that message referring to friday, when I was int he PUB and met him afterward. what did he expect, i wonder, its not even like i was THAT drunk, i still remember everything)
andway, text this time, and il have to go off memory as he has since been deleted from my phone
I dont think il be seeing you again kelly
me: fair enough
him: fair enough? is that it? thanks for wasting my time
Me: what do you expect me to say? beg you to please reconsider? .. cant rememeber what i put after that but it was likely to the efftect of i DO want to see you but Im not changing my plans
he was like, its always on your terms, i have to ask you
which you know what, fair enough, the last couple of weeks, i HAVE let him come to me first. but only because i feel like i irritate him, its the fucking impression he gave me at least. I pretty much just said i WOULD text/ask to see you more, but i feel like i annoy you, so i backed off abit. im more than willing to travel to you, you know this
then later i raged text
something along the lines of
these last couple of fucking weeks have been difficult. someone close to me has died, ive had to tell my little girl that her nanna has gone, ive had alot on my plate. cant rememeber what else i put, but uit was a 3 pager plus, sorry if i wokeyou, i shant be texting you again
If he is like this now, and we are not in a relationship, i dread to think how it would go. MY loss apparently. Lucky fucking escape if you ask me
I mean seriously, its a BAD thing that I didnt want to ditch my mate for him last minute is it now....?
FUMING
edit* we wont be seeing each other again, just thought id point that out if it wasnt already clear, so its not like im sat here pining over him, or wanting to see him again etc etc. i just actually can not believe the nerve of some people
I DO NOT WANT/NEED ADVICE
Anyway, last night, inbox, 'you free tonight?'
Me: No, clares round, may be able to do tomorrow?
Him: Im away eary friday morn for my holiday, can you rejig it?
Me: No, had this pallned for ages. cant just ditch her last minute
(at one point, as i have now deleted the messages since posting this, and editting this in id said, shes already on her way! he actually suggested i tell her to TURN AROUND and go home)
Him: ah well, not free again, bottom of the pile as usual
Me: youve hardly given me any notice and i already have plans, im not about to tell my best pal to turn around and go home when we have had plans made for a week to have a girly night. If you think its a bad think that im not selling my mate out then, fuck knows. its not that i dont want to see you, but if i have plans, i wont change them
Him: just give me a shout when you are free or drunk after a nightout
(that message referring to friday, when I was int he PUB and met him afterward. what did he expect, i wonder, its not even like i was THAT drunk, i still remember everything)
andway, text this time, and il have to go off memory as he has since been deleted from my phone
I dont think il be seeing you again kelly
me: fair enough
him: fair enough? is that it? thanks for wasting my time
Me: what do you expect me to say? beg you to please reconsider? .. cant rememeber what i put after that but it was likely to the efftect of i DO want to see you but Im not changing my plans
he was like, its always on your terms, i have to ask you
which you know what, fair enough, the last couple of weeks, i HAVE let him come to me first. but only because i feel like i irritate him, its the fucking impression he gave me at least. I pretty much just said i WOULD text/ask to see you more, but i feel like i annoy you, so i backed off abit. im more than willing to travel to you, you know this
then later i raged text

something along the lines of
these last couple of fucking weeks have been difficult. someone close to me has died, ive had to tell my little girl that her nanna has gone, ive had alot on my plate. cant rememeber what else i put, but uit was a 3 pager plus, sorry if i wokeyou, i shant be texting you again
If he is like this now, and we are not in a relationship, i dread to think how it would go. MY loss apparently. Lucky fucking escape if you ask me
I mean seriously, its a BAD thing that I didnt want to ditch my mate for him last minute is it now....?
FUMING
edit* we wont be seeing each other again, just thought id point that out if it wasnt already clear, so its not like im sat here pining over him, or wanting to see him again etc etc. i just actually can not believe the nerve of some people
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