The guys seem to have an issue comprehending that if someone's being a dick, you retaliate... I don't know when someone had ever just 'walked away' after being treated unfairly, and if kicking a man in the balls puts him in his place, then so be it.
I think you have a hard time comprehending that just because you think you have a right to do something to someone does not mean you actually do.

If a guy was annoying you, I dunno, calling you a bitch or something to your face (because that seems to be what you count as a justifiable reason to kick someones balls in) and you kicked him in the balls for it, would it then be ok for him to smash your stomach in with his fist to put you in your place? Somehow I don't think so.
Would you get up and just walk it off? I don't think so
