So for the past 4 months, my sister (as VP of her highschool's student council) needed a choreographer. She asked me to choreograph three different dances for three different events. Two weeks ago, she asked me to choreograph their dance again, this time for their school's foundation day. I declined since I'm busy fixing my acads and tbh, I'm tired of choreographing in general. She asked me, "If anyone asks what do I say?" I told her to just say the above, exactly.
She told me tonight that last week, when her student council adviser asked why they got a different dance instructor this time, she said that I was busy. My sister said the adviser kept asking "What is she busy with?" and according to her wouldn't give up until her question was answered. Eventually the adviser said "Is it just because she doesn't want to help us?" My sister ended up saying it's because I'm working on my thesis.
To be clear, I'm not working on my thesis. I can't until next semester. I stated that a few times in my social networking accounts. My sister has contacts/mutual friends and also some of my past teachers from that school follow me. So I was pissed because she put me in a difficult position of appearing like a liar.
The argument happened while we were in the car, I picked her up from a friend's house. After I told her how upset I was, she said sorry and was apologetic about it the entire time. Our argument continued until we got in the house, then my mom decides to step in. She said I should see how my sister was just trying to 'save my ass'. She made me apologize to her (and I didn't see why I had to, if anything, it should be the other way around) so I said no. I never asked for her to lie, she should've just stuck to what I said.
(I didn't curse at her, hurt her or whatever else. I don't do that ever. I just kept saying I was upset and telling her what she did wasn't right and I hope it never happens again)
Now I'm the one who has to go to her highschool to clarify the facts when if she hadn't lied, there wouldn't have to be anything to clarify.
My mother goes on to say that "...she ended up saying 'thesis' because your sister isn't a good liar, unlike other people' at this, she's hinting at me. No...not really. My sister is actually better at it than I ever was, my parents spoil her and they just buy everything she says. Like today, I was at home setting up the Christmas decors by myself (including the tree, the living room and outside) all afternoon while she was out "practicing" (by this, I mean hanging out with her boyfriend). My dad...it's clear as day to everyone how much he favors his precious, innocent youngest daughter. It's too painful to even go into that.
She was just here in my room looking for something and I was trying to tell her "I still didn't appreciate what you did.. Don't lie for me again, just stick to what I said next time.". Her reaction? Remember, she was apologetic in the car, but after being backed up by mom, she says "Whatever, I was just saving your ass." then slams the door shut.
Did I miss something? Was it wrong that I didn't apologize? If so, what should I have apologized for? Is lying for someone else really okay?
Should I just pack up and leave this house maybe?
She told me tonight that last week, when her student council adviser asked why they got a different dance instructor this time, she said that I was busy. My sister said the adviser kept asking "What is she busy with?" and according to her wouldn't give up until her question was answered. Eventually the adviser said "Is it just because she doesn't want to help us?" My sister ended up saying it's because I'm working on my thesis.
To be clear, I'm not working on my thesis. I can't until next semester. I stated that a few times in my social networking accounts. My sister has contacts/mutual friends and also some of my past teachers from that school follow me. So I was pissed because she put me in a difficult position of appearing like a liar.
The argument happened while we were in the car, I picked her up from a friend's house. After I told her how upset I was, she said sorry and was apologetic about it the entire time. Our argument continued until we got in the house, then my mom decides to step in. She said I should see how my sister was just trying to 'save my ass'. She made me apologize to her (and I didn't see why I had to, if anything, it should be the other way around) so I said no. I never asked for her to lie, she should've just stuck to what I said.
(I didn't curse at her, hurt her or whatever else. I don't do that ever. I just kept saying I was upset and telling her what she did wasn't right and I hope it never happens again)
Now I'm the one who has to go to her highschool to clarify the facts when if she hadn't lied, there wouldn't have to be anything to clarify.
My mother goes on to say that "...she ended up saying 'thesis' because your sister isn't a good liar, unlike other people' at this, she's hinting at me. No...not really. My sister is actually better at it than I ever was, my parents spoil her and they just buy everything she says. Like today, I was at home setting up the Christmas decors by myself (including the tree, the living room and outside) all afternoon while she was out "practicing" (by this, I mean hanging out with her boyfriend). My dad...it's clear as day to everyone how much he favors his precious, innocent youngest daughter. It's too painful to even go into that.
She was just here in my room looking for something and I was trying to tell her "I still didn't appreciate what you did.. Don't lie for me again, just stick to what I said next time.". Her reaction? Remember, she was apologetic in the car, but after being backed up by mom, she says "Whatever, I was just saving your ass." then slams the door shut.
Did I miss something? Was it wrong that I didn't apologize? If so, what should I have apologized for? Is lying for someone else really okay?
Should I just pack up and leave this house maybe?
You choose now to respond so positively. 
But you can't beat Mum an Dad, who are always right, of course. 
