The Perfect Body

[Kandy-Sugar]

I have a natural 'D' cup and they don't look plastic. D=

I did say most girls. =P Not all. =P

But it really does depend on your body shape as to what looks okay and what doesn't.

My friend and I are both currently A cups.

However her body shape is a bit bigger than mine and wider around the chest area.

So when I go in for my C cup she's going for a D.

I don't understand why anyone with a 'C' cup would need to go up a size but she'll probably regret it after, especially if it's something she's doing for someone else (i.e. her friends). She should be proud of the fact that she's the only one of them that hasn't had plastic surgery yet.

I agree.

She really should be stoked at the fact that she has a naturally awesome cup size and that she'll be saving $12,000 on having to have them done, unlike her friends.

 

[Bones]

A 'C'?

That's the size I'm trying to get too! She's really taking her boobs for granted. =/

I'm currently a 10A.

32C = 10C here which is my ideal bra size.

It will look natural and for people who don't already know me they will think they're mine. =)

She should appreciate that she was born with a decent cup size. Any bigger than 'C' on most girls looks ridiculously plastic!

Is she small? If so it's going to make her look ridiculous. She needs to consider her body size. Does she realise that if she goes too big that after the surgery the skin across her chest might not be enough to hold the implants nicely? Sometimes the implants show and you can see these horrible lumps above your actual boobs.

For someone like me who has no lumps anyway, that's not going to be noticeable. But if she already has a couple of natural bumps, the plastic ones are going to look really silly if they do pop out of place. =/

Errm do you mean just plastic breasts of that size? Cos I'm an E and mine are fine.

Anyway yeah from reading this thread sounds like the gf is thinking about this for all the wrong reasons, I think you should get her to weigh out the pros and cons, pro's being, bigger boobs more confidence, cons being a high risk of different health problems, and the difference to the body it can make, it could make your body shape look....wrong, I mean look at Katie Price. This whole plastic Surgery trend just baffles me.

 

[Kandy-Sugar]

Errm do you mean just plastic breasts of that size? Cos I'm an E and mine are fine.

If you naturally have big boobs they will obviously more than often look natural. The skin around that area is plentiful enough to support the amount of muscle you have in that area.

I'm saying that if you're already pretty big and then go and get plastic surgery to make them bigger they way too often come out looking far too plastic. The skin doesn't always support your new boobage and in turn sits far too tightly over your new implants and makes them stick out and look terrible.

If you're already pretty big in that area naturally it looks perfectly normal as it more than often suits your body type. =)

I've seen far too many girls I know who always go bigger after already being big and it just looks wrong and totally plastic. =/

 

[Ilyena]

I did say most girls. =P Not all. =P

But it really does depend on your body shape as to what looks okay and what doesn't.

My friend and I are both currently A cups.

However her body shape is a bit bigger than mine and wider around the chest area.

So when I go in for my C cup she's going for a D.

Sorry, I must have misread that.

I can understand your situation a lot better though. And if it's something you really want and you think will be good for you in the long run, go for it. Like I said, I've never had that problem so I can't honestly say for sure what I'd do. At least you're going for a natural size and not something massively ridiculous like FF (I know there are some who naturally have that cup size but I've seen/read about women who get surgery for something that large).

I agree.

She really should be stoked at the fact that she has a naturally awesome cup size and that she'll be saving $12,000 on having to have them done, unlike her friends.

Another thing is you really have to have the body weight to support a larger size or it can cause terrible back problems. She really should just save the money.

 

[Sum1sgruj]

Alright, well I hate 'boob jobs'. I don't see how people can possibly be turned on by it, let alone someone spending 1000s to get it done. I'd take an A cup over a silicone bubble any day. Large breasts are extremely over-rated, and when they are fake, it is very noticeable. I dunno, I guess for me it takes away the natural feminism that I'm attracted to.

On the other hand, if a person wants to get a topical thing done, like removing stretchmarks, than that's ok. But damn... Implants? I think people go overboard. I mean, most girls who get implants are already attractive, why insult you're body?

 

[blakstang98]

I don't understand why anyone with a 'C' cup would need to go up a size but she'll probably regret it after, especially if it's something she's doing for someone else (i.e. her friends). She should be proud of the fact that she's the only one of them that hasn't had plastic surgery yet.

This is my thoughts exactly. A C cup is already fairly sizeable, there really is no need to grow. As I said in my initial post, be proud of what you have. Even if it's for confidence reasons, there are certainly other ways to raise your confidence. Something as simple as a small weight gain will usually go a long ways in the breast department. There are ways to make smaller breasts look very sexy without spending a ton of money. And the end product will not be something artificial on something real. But because the breast size is already good, there's definitely no reason to increase, especially for the reasons given. Spending for a trend is definitely not worth it.

 

[kratos]

Well just think of it this way. Its how people make a living. I mean there will always be people out there who think they need reductions or additions, and there will be constant flow of doctors who are there to help them with their needs.

And if she wants smaller or larger breasts there are exercise now and vitamins and stuff that you can take that will reduce the size or make them fuller. Some women only get them so they wont sag, but if you really care'd about them that much then you should of taken care of them when you were younger. Not trying to sound mean or anything like that at all, but there are many ways to bypass the cutting and dicing factor.

 

[Zen]

I don't like fake breasts because ... they're fake. I wouldn't find it sexy if a girl had silicone implants on the OUTSIDE of her breasts, nor do I want them inside.

A woman's body is her own, and she has a right to do with it whatever she wills, but I'm not going to be attracted to it.

That being said, you should take care of your body and make moderate steps to maintain and improve your appearance just like you maintain your hygene.

Do you need to work or contribute around the house to be loved? No, but you should.
Do you need to wash your hair more than once a month to be loved? No, but you should.
Do you need to work on your appearance to be loved? No, but you should.

Trust me, your appearance means more than it should. It may not be right, but your appearance affects the way just about everyone treats you. Especially strangers.

 

[Gaige]

I don't think there is such a thing as a perfect body. But if someone honestly wants it, without some kind of sentient outside stimulus (like another person) getting in their way and influencing them, I see no problem with someone having plastic surgery. It can improve self image, make people feel more confident about themselves, and generally increase self worth. That's not exactly a bad thing.

Unfortunately, media and other people tend to pressure people into getting their body changed, even if they're not totally sure about it. It's unfortunate how some people demand their wives/husbands look better, or how the media portrays beauty as something not everyone can attain.

It's not nice, but it's kinda subjective. It's hard to tell what somebody's motives are for changing their body, whether it's a major change or a little one. At the end of the day, it's for the person undergoing this change to make, and it can be a good thing. It's just a matter of why you want it and how important it is to you.

 

[kratos]

Well if you watch the T.v or drive anywhere all you see is skinny girls with well equipped breasts. The girls of the next generation are being shown there things over and over again. Its just crazy. I know that i have a sister. She is 15, and she is about 5 ft 2 inches. She weighs maybe i don't know 120 or so. She still thinks that she is fat, when she looks like a twig. But i can see why, with all the advertisements that if u don't have a perfectly toned body, you aren't beautiful.

If she really wants to get a breast addition or reduction there really is not anything you can do to change her mind. You can list the facts that she is already in debt and that the money she would be using to pay for it would drain the two of you broke. But that's all that you can do. The decision is still up to her. You can either go along with it and wish her the best of luck, or try you're hardest to stop her, in which case may upset her.

 

[Rydia]

I think a lot of people do not realize that larger breast can be very difficult to dress. There are many things I can not wear because it makes me look heavier. And I am a C. When I have a T-shirt on, it drapes and I look bigger in pictures. I have to be careful about showing my cleavage because that can make me look heavier and it I lean over, you can see completely down my shirt. And lot of cute styles do not wear well the chest area. that and having to buy a large can be a bit awkward. I also do have somewhat of a big butt and small waist. So my body can look awkward in certain clothes.

It's always annoying to see women that have had implants complain how they no longer like their breasts or how much of a pain they are. And have you ever laid your head against silicon breast? NOT comfortable!

Many of my friends with larger breasts do not realize this. They wear clothes that they think make them look sexy, when it really looks like they have added many extra pounds. And I do not know how to tell them.

Honestly, larger breast are over rated. The back pains are also not fun to deal with.

Also going with the small waist, my rib cage is smaller than it probably should be and has difficulty expanding when I am out of breath and breathing heavily. It gets to the point that I might start gasping and start to gag. A shame because I love running. Doctor says that its fine, but it's embarassing when it happends in front of other people.

Big butts? You run it into things and it's embarassing when someone has to ask you to move because you are leaning over and they can't get around it

Also like I said, when you get older, gravity takes over and things begin to sag. So guys, if looks are very important to you, get a petite girl, she'll remain sexier longer =P

Also, people do have different tastes as far as body types go. I may have mentioned this before, but I met someone who loves fat chicks. His girlfriend weighs about 300lbs and he still wants her to get fatter.

Also, I think Hollywood needs to get more "typical" looking people and not these plastic starlets who can hardly act. They espeically need more typical looking women and which seems to be unheard of in hollywood. Also these old 60 year old men, stop giving them hot young love interests in their movies and some women acutally their AGE! Speaking of that, where are middle aged women that acutally look like middle ages women in movies?

 

[Bambi]

I've always wanted a boob job til recently. Sure Id like to have bigger boobs still, but I don't want to alter them with surgery any more. I'm happy enough in my own skin now. and basically. I dont really care any more.

For people that choose to do it though, it's their bodies, and they can do what they want, it's not r4eally any dofferent to having a tattoo really. Its personal choice, it may not be to everyones taste, but well, who's saying you have to look?

I wouldnt rule out cosmetic surgery in the future, but i dont think id ever go for anything drastic, maybe just fill in some wrinkles

And I think the 'perfect body' is all relative anyway. We all go for different things. Theres no way Id ever go for a bloke that had pec implants... to me, thats just absurd.. but thats just my own personal opinion. I like a man to look and feel ryan natural. Some other woman might think it was hot, and it might make him feel better about himself, which is great. But just because it's not too my taste or it's not my view of the perfect body, doesnt and shouldnt matter

I understand it can be trickier if you are involved with someone and they wanted something done you didnt necesarily agree with, but I suppose you'd just have to accept it - not alot you can do really. if someone said to me 'you are not getting this done' etc, they'd be getting telt. It's my body. And Im pretty sure it's not something most folk will take lightly, its expensive and can drastically alter your appearance

Im fucking waffling to fuck now.

Tl;dr: People can do what the fuck they want with their own bodies, their views on perfection are their own. Can't say I find it attractive or appealling, but Im not perfect either, who am I to judge? I just dont care enough to alter my appearance

 

[Rapture]

I personally would never consider plastic surgery for myself...because I am perfectly happy the way that I am. I may be petite, hardly have a butt, and have an A cup but, I don't let my appearance dictate my self worth. I think the world has become so obsessed with the image of perfect beauty that a lot of people are in a quest to become society's impression of the word perfect. Imperfections are ways to decipher us from others and those imperfections can be seen as beauty by others.

If someone wants to go get a boob job, so be it, if it makes you feel happier with yourself. If someone wants botox because they want to get rid of some wrinkles, go for it Just know that there are always risks with everything, and be well informed of them before you go and do whatever it is that you want to do. Implants can leak or cause cancer, or your body could reject them completely because they are a foreign substance in the body. Same with botox (although that in particular makes me nervous, I wonder what the permanent 10+ year effects of getting it done are on the body)...you could get an allergic reaction or whatever

What makes me really nervous about the whole perfect body thing is people who have multiple, multiple surgeries for many different things...like Heidi Montag did. You have to wonder what the basis for all that is...and if there could possibly be an underlying mental illness involved, like body dysmorphic disorder.

 

[Davey Gaga]

I'm not sure if this belongs here but hey ho!

The other day my girlfriend asked me it was good idea to have a boob job. Now, I am strongly against improving your image with surgery. The idea of the perfect body is wrong. I believe everyone is perfect the way they are and that they dont need to improve how they look to be loved.

Does anyone else hold an opinion on this?

If you're single and out for turning some heads, a boob job's not totally wrong. Evolutionarily speaking, the woman with the widest hips and largest breasts is the most fit to bear our children and so will be more sought after by men - she'll get a lot more attention. Personally speaking, if she's got a boyfriend, then to me it sounds like she's not being given the attention she wants and feels she needs to get it from somewhere else.

As shallow as it sounds, I'm sorry but some people are just unattractive. I'm no prize myself, and sure appearance isn't the most important thing in relationships, but at the end of the day a lot of people are initially attracted to someone else by the appearance. If you're in a bar, do not tell me you'll buy a drink for the acne-ridden, unwashed fatty over the muscular, toned, well-kept blonde because "she'll have a better personality". There's got to be something there for the initial attraction - the deeper stuff comes later.

I'm not much of a fan of pumping poison in to your lips or making your skull look reptilian but boob jobs, liposuction, whatever else - if it makes you feel better, why the hell not?

 

[Ragnarök1]

If your gf really wants to have a plastic surgery then let her do it, if that will make her happy. Your job is to make sure she doesn't get addicted to the thing because there is no such thing as perfection, there is always something more... she might even become paranoid with every little detail about the shape of her body and ask for more and more. Don't let her do something she might regret for the rest of her life, a healthy body is the perfect body that's all there is to it.