Why Women Choose "Bad Boys"

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sneakerpimp441 said:
Well, find me one that is because they're usually going on about how they want a "nice, decent girl" who ahem, "isn't some whored up slut and has standards and likes to keep herself active." Oh wait ... sorry that's on PlentyofFish.com. Fucking annoying dating sites are annoying. :jtc:

Actually, I'm a really, really nice and fantastic girl. I like long walks in the park and holding hands and eating cotton candy and I love burying my nose in a novel. :monster:
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I LOVE CANDY FLOSS :rage:

Makes my hands sticky though.... ):
 
Bambi said:
me and teh boy work because of how different we are really, hes so laid back i have to poke him to see if hes still breathing sometimes, and il just fly off on one about everything all the time

it keeps it fresh i think, if we were like him, we'd be boring as hell, if we were like me, we'd kill each other, so we bounce off each other really well it just keeps it interesting how different we are

Also, the fact that I find him physically attractive is why i started seeing him in the first place, shallow as it sounds, but if he was all personality and no looks i wouldnt look twice, the same im sure would apply to him too, we wouldnt have gone beyond the initial appreanaces to discover that no,its not just the looks, you can be attracted to a bad boy, find him to be an arse hole and it will just be a flash in the pan relationship, which is proabbly why they get so much action, great for a bit of a thrill and some fun, but they will be onto the next bit of skirt soon enough. I just think alot of people are afraid to admit they are quite shallow, and appearences will always be the first thing we take into account, and if something comes across as mysterious and interesting, of course, we're going to be interested, its human nature to be curious - how else would we ever achieve anything?
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I'm a completely shallow person actually. :mokken:
I always tell my friends that I must have been drunk or at least ecstasy'd up or something when I considered seriously dating my ex. Horrifying personality aside ... (he had a fucking mouth on him, I just wanted to muzzle the motherfucker sometimes) he wasn't even my type. It wasn't his weight, that I overlooked, there was just something off about him. I don't pick someone on the pretense that they have to be physically perfect in my sense of having a six or an eight pack. They don't need prominent abdominal muscles or washboard abs but it IS nice and I'd be lying my teeth off if I said that I didn't oggle a guy who had a nice bod.

It's the eyes that always get me. That's honestly the first thing I look at when I meet a guy for the first time. I look at their eyes then I look at everything else physically--the whole face ... the features, yada, yada ,yada. Nose, lips, teeth, etc. Then I look at their clothing--does it look like they just rolled out of bed? Are they wearing an obviously worn and beat up pair of shoes? Do they care for themselves? Are they well groomed? It's shallow as fuck but I'll admit it ... NOW I won't look at a guy and seriously consider him if he doesn't groom himself and dress himself in an appropriate manner. I won't consider dating him if he doesn't fit some standards. He doesn't have to be George Clooney gorgeous for me, but he does have to be nice looking and he definitely has to have a personality to match those looks. They must go hand in hand, this is true for me, and I think it's true for a lot of people in general.
 
Every one is shallow.

No ones gonna see some fat uggo in a bar and go "Gosh I gotta get me some of that!!"
 
the way you here some people talk round here im nor so sure :wacky:
 
Bowie said:
Every one is shallow.

No ones gonna see some fat uggo in a bar and go "Gosh I gotta get me some of that!!"
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I dated a "fat uggo", Toni. :sick:

And omg cotton candy is the absolute best, Kelly. I haven't had it in aaaages though. I miss it.
I need to go to a fucking carnival and get me some.
 
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i didnt date a fat one, but he was definately uggo ):
 
the standard bar has been upped since those unfortunate times!
 
Bambi said:
the standard bar has been upped since those unfortunate times!
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Same! And yeah Toni, we will pretend that I was blinded, deaf 'cause I couldn't hear the bullshit he used to say to me. Absolute bullshit.
I think I'd beat the shit out of that motherfucker if I ever saw him, he was really THAT horrid of an ex a good 85% of the time. The other 25% he was decent to tolerable.

Now I look at jacked guys. Mmm abs. Lovely, yummy abs.
 
Bowie said:
Every one is shallow.

No ones gonna see some fat uggo in a bar and go "Gosh I gotta get me some of that!!"
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come to think of it, i know a guy who likes his women fat,which is really weird becuase he practically lives at the gym, i dont get it. though my comment about shallowness wasnt really about what youd hone in on when youre out, but when you get all the people going on about its not about looks its all in the personality blah blah trying to pretend theyre not in the least bit shallow, i think its bollocks, becasue yeah right as if youre not gunna automatically look at the hottie at the bar full of people

Apart from that guy i know what likes em fat i suppose
 
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Appearance is a large part of a first impression. Personality is important too but guy or girl, I don't wanna fuck somebody with a face full of acne scars and morbidly obese. That's shallow, yes I'm shallow. But I don't really care.
 
​Oh same. It's a horrendous double standard I'll never quite get over.
 
Frank Fontaine said:
Well if he only likes overweight women, then he is still shallow
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That error is duly noted. Note that a bulk of that shit was horrible for me to put up with.
I learned that I have a crap load of patience for b.s. or at least I did.

And OMG OMG acne scarring is ugh. Death. Don't even mention acne to me, it's so gross and shit and I hated dealing with that shit back in middle school. I'd hate it even more if a guy had like acne ALL over his face and tried to talk to me and if his skin was like oily and greasy and full of pit scars. Ugh. UGH! :rage:

No.
 
Frank Fontaine said:
What a bastard going through puberty like that, people like that make me sick. How dare he try to talk to others like he is a person?
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Iknorite, the nerve! I'd have to just give him some Proactive or something. In a basket. With a note.
Just to be nicer about it and not seem like a mean ass person. I mean if I had to scrub the fuck out of my body to get rid of that nastiness then so should guys who have horrid acne. Don't talk to me with that on your face. Ugh.
 
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