Why Women Choose "Bad Boys"

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Women choose bad boys because their hormones make them, new research suggests. When ovulating a woman's hormones influence who she sees as good potential fathers, and they specifically pick sexier men over obviously more dependable men.

"Previous research has shown in the week near ovulation women become attracted to sexy, rebellious and handsome men like George Clooney or James Bond," study researcher Kristina Durante, of The University of Texas at San Antonio, said in a statement. "But until now it was unclear why women would ever think it's wise to pursue long-term relationships with these kinds of men."

The study was published today, May 14, in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology.
The researchers had women view online dating profiles of either a sexy man or a reliable man during periods of both high and low fertility. Participants were asked to indicate the expected paternal contribution from the men if they had a child together based on how
helpful the man would be caring for the baby, shopping for food, cooking and contributing to household chores. Near ovulation women thought that the sexy man would contribute more to these domestic duties.

"Under the hormonal influence of ovulation, women delude themselves into thinking that the sexy bad boys will become devoted partners and better dads," Durante said. "When looking at the sexy cad through ovulation goggles, Mr. Wrong looked exactly like Mr. Right."

The researchers followed up that find with a second study in which women interacted directly with male actors who played the roles of sexy cad and reliable dad once during ovulation and again at low fertility. Again, ovulating women thought that the sexy cad — but not the reliable dad — would contribute more to childcare, but only as her partner (not if he shacked up with another woman).

"When asked about what kind of father the sexy bad boy would make if he were to have children with another woman, women were quick to point out the bad boy's shortcomings," said Durante. "But when it came to their own child, ovulating women believed that the charismatic and adventurous cad would be a great father to their kids."
"While this psychological distortion could be setting some women up to choose partners who are better suited to be short-term mates, missing a mating opportunity with a sexy cad might be too costly for some women to pass up," said Durante. "After all, you never know if he could be the 'one.'"

http://www.livescience.com/20294-women-choose-bad-boys.html

Blame it all on hormone rage!

Best "explanation" I've heard, yet. :elmo:
 
Wow this is the third attempt at typing this out now, fuck long thought out post

Doesnt exactly say why though does it? Absolutely what purpose does this have other than saying you may have one preference over something than at another point of your cycle. But, why?
 
ive never liked clooney

apart from when he was in from dusk til dawn, he was pretty fit in that
 
Is clooney rebellious? I can't imagine a time when a woman wouldn't want him either

This. I mean he's old enough to be my dad but hell, I would've never minded at ALL if that guy was my dad.
*coughs* He's very handsome.

Then again, my actual dad's a "bad boy" so I guess it rings well for my mom. Her ovaries picked out my daddy for her. :monster:
 
Anyway, its natural to be attracted to someone whos physically attractive to you as biologically we want to produce healthy attractive offspring...even I know that
 
...except george clooney, just to clarify for Sneezys sake :mokken:
 
Anyway, its natural to be attracted to someone whos physically attractive to you as biologically we want to produce healthy attractive offspring...even I know that

Word, what she said. We instinctively look for males who are physically more fit and attractive as we wish to have attractive and healthy children. It's the same reason why a lot of men instinctively look for females who have wider hips--child-bearing hips allows the baby to pass easily through the birth canal and it equates to a healthy and fertile mommy. :monster:
 
plus the 'nice guys' who whinge about how girls never want them are fucking boring. Who wouldn't pick a 'bad boy' over one of them?
 
Basically, ALL MEN ARE WANKERS! GODDDDD!!!!!ALSDFJWEFHI111111!!! :rage:
 
Hormones aside ...

See to me it's like this ... I always go for "bad boys" because they're typically more interesting to me--they go against the rules, they're not afraid to debate with me and can take my no-nonsense tongue lashing. They also know that I don't take bullshit. Most nice guys to me are too wishy-washy ... too boring ... it's like that generic supermarket cereal brand that you only pick up because it's cheap. It's harsh but hey, I know what I want--I want my specific cereal brand from General Mills and I'm getting that shit on sale if I can help it.

Tl;dr version: I like guys with personality, who can put a spark to my match and light me up. Nice guys are boring to me so I usually pass over them or they just become my friend. Don't get mad if I friendzone you because we were probably better off as friends any way and it just means that I wasn't into you like you were into me. You'll find someone more suitable to your personality type.
 
Nice guys generally would not go around saying 'I am a nice guys'. Well I don't think they would. Also I think lads are just as attracted to the bad girls

Well, find me one that is because they're usually going on about how they want a "nice, decent girl" who ahem, "isn't some whored up slut and has standards and likes to keep herself active." Oh wait ... sorry that's on PlentyofFish.com. Fucking annoying dating sites are annoying. :jtc:

Actually, I'm a really, really nice and fantastic girl. I like long walks in the park and holding hands and eating cotton candy and I love burying my nose in a novel. :monster:
 
me and teh boy work because of how different we are really, hes so laid back i have to poke him to see if hes still breathing sometimes, and il just fly off on one about everything all the time

it keeps it fresh i think, if we were like him, we'd be boring as hell, if we were like me, we'd kill each other, so we bounce off each other really well it just keeps it interesting how different we are

Also, the fact that I find him physically attractive is why i started seeing him in the first place, shallow as it sounds, but if he was all personality and no looks i wouldnt look twice, the same im sure would apply to him too, we wouldnt have gone beyond the initial appreanaces to discover that no,its not just the looks, you can be attracted to a bad boy, find him to be an arse hole and it will just be a flash in the pan relationship, which is proabbly why they get so much action, great for a bit of a thrill and some fun, but they will be onto the next bit of skirt soon enough. I just think alot of people are afraid to admit they are quite shallow, and appearences will always be the first thing we take into account, and if something comes across as mysterious and interesting, of course, we're going to be interested, its human nature to be curious - how else would we ever achieve anything?
 
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