To all men: What do you actually think of women?

Gatekpr said:
There is nothing I hate more in a woman than overactive feminism. So you're a woman. Alright, cool. But when I try to help you with something or hold a door open for you or something and you go off the handle on me about not needing the help and "I can do it myself", it's just outright rude and disrespectful. I also hate them not letting me pay for them when we do things >.>...that really bugs me.
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That happened to me once....and yes, talk about rude.

It's really that kind of feminism that creates a topic such as this --- how do we feel about women? and naturally we look for the bad stuff first, and this tops the list.
So basically, I feel that women are alright when they are making the right decisions and basically respect men back. But if it's a one-sided affair, such as men beating women, or the other way around, it usually depends on who I think has the right morals or who is telling the truth, or some other factor.
 
Yeah, even though the so called "damsel in distress" ends up insulting you for interfering in something that’s none of your business. Honestly I only dare to intervine if the asshole gets over the limit, and by God I swear the moron will wish he was never being born. In fact, I am not the agressive type, it's just that I can't to bear someone being abused, much more if they are women.

Honestly, one asshole tried to play cool to my girlfriend in front of me and if it weren't for her, he would have to get a new face since I know both karate and boxing and I hit quite hard :mad: and I always aim to the face, then the abdomen, following the arms and finally the legs! ARGH!
 
My god. Another thing is the way that girls overreact to everything. I was once friends with this girl, but I defended my best friend from her (they hate each other) and she suddenly HATES me. Seriously, girls, when a guy says something in the defense of another, the odds that they mean what they say are typically pretty damn slim.
 
Seriously and when they just say things like: "I am fine by myself, you don't have to pretend you care" How come they treat good guys like shit and bad guys like gods? To tell the truth, some of them only look what's outside of an average teen.
 
Then, by what you are saying, the problem lies with what the other gender thinks the second is thinking even though they may be far from the truth.
*hopes that makes sense*

It's this difference in ideals and world view that not only make us way different from one another, but also in that how we perceive the other gender is inherently dependent upon guy/girl ideals.
But how to fix that?
 
The fact is that we can't, life was not made to be fair at all. There's no such thing as "Happily Ever After" or "Eternal and Perfect Love", no matter how hard we try to fix this dilema, something just screws everything and then we have to start all over again.
 
Hmph. So much for Disney movies =(

I feel left out that girls flip for the bad guys all the time. I don't look like a bad guy, so bleh......
And then they complain after a really bad relationship sometimes. I always thought that was a bit hypocritical.
 
It's not a bit, in fact it's completely hypocrital. If they wish to have a serious relationship then why look for jerks instead of more matured guys?

Honestly I can't fully understand this idea....it's just plain stupid.
 
I think women explain it as....erm, I dunno about this ---- 'thrilling'.
Correct me if I'm wrong. *braces*

Sometimes they do the same thing that guys do to them in the name of 'righteousness', getting back at guys who they feel have done wrong to other women ---- probably wrong as well but in a sense is also hypocritical.
How can you be doing good by doing wrong?
What if the guy isn't all that bad in the first place? What happens then?

And also, along the same lines as above, some women feel that they can 'trash' guys like toys. Mind, guys do the same. I feel that that is just plain wrong. Again, what happened to morals, 'cause they sure don't seem to be appearing nowadays.
Golly, pretty soon we'll have a society that's just ripping itself apart from within because partly of this.
 
In facts, the problem comes from both sides and we will never come to a reasonable solution as long as we keep using each other for our selfish goals. Both genders are wrong....and perhaps they should learn from their mistakes instead of repeating them again, and again, and again, and again....*and again XD*
 
Julius Argexis said:
In facts, the problem comes from both sides and we will never come to a reasonable solution as long as we keep using each other for our selfish goals. Both genders are wrong....and perhaps they should learn from their mistakes instead of repeating them again, and again, and again, and again....*and again XD*
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It's the never-ending theme of our lives.
Which is why I study history! :cool:

And yes, I agree, I think this whole gender thing is completely stupid.
Why not give peace a chance and reconciliate, or something?

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^ I like saying that.
 
STL I'm not saying that you do, but if you're always a suck-up to women, of course they're going to mess with you and your feelings.;)

Most guys don't often hookup with girls because they have common interests, it's usually because they're attracted at first sight and think "I wanna hit that.":rolleyes:

But for me in the most recent occasion where I actually try to get with a girl with common interests and go into a relationship of commitment, I have to wait six months to hear something through the grapevine that I'm not her type because I'm not exactly white. Racist bitch.:dry:

I think that there's a huge difference between women and girls. I do believe that women look for what's on the inside, but also what's on the outside. But them girls in high school, they're always going out with them damn prettyboys and look at what's on the outside. :mad:

I happen to think it's fine to think that girls are thought of as a piece of booty when you're in highshcool. There's not going to be a long relationship too often at that time. Hell, check this. The girl I used to like has been dating guys for like, a year now and none of her relationships are more than two weeks long. She's also still a virgin. Guys are clawing at that like crazy.:O
 
I think Women have the same right as ANY man do....I fell that Women Should be Respected the same as Males are....I think the reason i think this way is because i have four sisters lol
 
Moondoggie said:
STL I'm not saying that you do, but if you're always a suck-up to women, of course they're going to mess with you and your feelings.;)

Most guys don't often hookup with girls because they have common interests, it's usually because they're attracted at first sight and think "I wanna hit that.":rolleyes:

But for me in the most recent occasion where I actually try to get with a girl with common interests and go into a relationship of commitment, I have to wait six months to hear something through the grapevine that I'm not her type because I'm not exactly white. Racist bitch.:dry:

I think that there's a huge difference between women and girls. I do believe that women look for what's on the inside, but also what's on the outside. But them girls in high school, they're always going out with them damn prettyboys and look at what's on the outside. :mad:

I happen to think it's fine to think that girls are thought of as a piece of booty when you're in highshcool. There's not going to be a long relationship too often at that time. Hell, check this. The girl I used to like has been dating guys for like, a year now and none of her relationships are more than two weeks long. She's also still a virgin. Guys are clawing at that like crazy.:O
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Well no, I am actually not the desperate average teen who has more muscles than brain. In fact, I am not that emotional, I just analize the facts and try to come to a solution to every problem, and this one is the hardest one could ever find. In fact, I find it quite stupid seriously, why are they so desperate? The average human live up to 80 years (between 90 and 105 years if you are lucky), so you have like 20 more years after the High School to find someone you might want to spend your whole life with.
 
A few days ago a fellow student in my math class decided to ask some nearby girls if they knew who Optimus Prime was. They, of course, had no idea, and seemed to be rather shocked when he said that he bet every single guy in the room knew exactly who he was and where he was from. He asked me, I told him, he asked another guy nearby, who also answered correctly, and even one of the "junkie" kids managed to name the show he was on. I tried this at home later on, and wouldn't you know it, my sister and mother had NO idea who I was talking about, and my dad and brother knew in an instant.

My god, are women just built differently, or do they all coincidentally ignore the cultural phenomenons that shape our generation? Maybe there's some feminine hormone that makes them focus on the incredibly unimportant aspects of modern society. Heck, this forum is good example. Ever notice that virtually every thread started in the "Pairing Clubs" section were created by women? Why in the world would you even CARE what FF characters are attracted to each other? Final Fantasy is about bloodshed and political upheavals, not some mushy love affairs!

You can see my frustration here.
 
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I never noticed that last part.....

And why do women feel like they need to change men in the first place?
*Ladies, hope you're picking up the tip here =P*
If the relationship's working fine in the first place, why the heck would you try to change something that's already going fine?


I'll quote my uncle for this:

If it's not broken, don't try to fix it.
 
Another intelligent and well argued thread that I have enjoyed very much.

Women have inspired me, made me laugh, turned me on, turned me off, broke my heart, made me feel like I was walking on air, argued with me, agreed with me, stole my shirts....

I have been hurt by them but love them still.

I raise my glass to the fairer, yet much more evil, sex!

Cheers x
 
*Drinks to toast*

Right. There's no possible way to be biased towards women as each is an individual in herself. There are good, bad, and plain weird girls, as there are men.
But more evil?
Slightly. nyesss..... :(
 
Ambiguity said:
A few days ago a fellow student in my math class decided to ask some nearby girls if they knew who Optimus Prime was. They, of course, had no idea, and seemed to be rather shocked when he said that he bet every single guy in the room knew exactly who he was and where he was from. He asked me, I told him, he asked another guy nearby, who also answered correctly, and even one of the "junkie" kids managed to name the show he was on. I tried this at home later on, and wouldn't you know it, my sister and mother had NO idea who I was talking about, and my dad and brother knew in an instant.

My god, are women just built differently, or do they all coincidentally ignore the cultural phenomenons that shape our generation? Maybe there's some feminine hormone that makes them focus on the incredibly unimportant aspects of modern society. Heck, this forum is good example. Ever notice that virtually every thread started in the "Pairing Clubs" section were created by women? Why in the world would you even CARE what FF characters are attracted to each other? Final Fantasy is about bloodshed and political upheavals, not some mushy love affairs!

You can see my frustration here.
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Well buddy Idk were you find you women, but I don't know a single girl that doesn't know who Optimus Prime is lol. And trust me, I know alot of women. Not that im a whore or anything but being gay might help.

I really think it all has to do with what "type" of girl your dealing with. Most girls that are raised in strict Christian homes or something of the sort have no idea what anything un-natural is. Another example would be girls who's parents sheltered them so much they can't even name a single DC or Marvel comic character lol.

Shit, even my mom knows who Optimus Prime is.

I really don't know what im trying to prove.... ha. :rolleyes:
 
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