Serious Sex: A Sensible few questions.

[The Illusive Man]

These are a few sensible questions on the topic of sex, dont be shy and answer as honestly as possible.

Do you always carry contraceptive protection on you?

Personally I always carry contraceptive protection on me at all times, because I feel its not only the most sensible thing to do, I feel that doing so helps me feel much more like I'm being responsible and fully aware of the consequences of my actions.

Some of my friends dont carry it at all, and will only get it at the request of there partner, which I feel is a bit silly because sometimes "things happen" in a relationship and its always better to be prepared than trying to rush off to the 24 hour at the last minute.

My next question is, have you ever been tested for STD's/STI's, and if you have, do you get tested often?

I have been tested in the past and I prefer to be tested with each new sexual partner, as I believe "better safe than sorry", I also like to urge my partner to take the test as well, although its an uncomfortable question, I also feel your just being cautious so that you are fully able to enjoy your sex-life together.

And my Final question, have you ever felt pressured into having unprotected sex and gone through with it?

Sometimes and its quite difficult for men to admit, but our partners can be very pressurising at times and should we be caught without protection (such as running out for instance) they can often be pressured into having intercourse without protection.

I have been pressured myself in the past to have it unprotected (I ran out) and I will admit that I went through with it, I will say its not a good experience and you cannot help but feel the nerves afterwards as the questions of "What if" is raised.

 

[Rydia]

Do you always carry contraceptive protection on you?

Not anymore. I've been in a relationship for 7 years so me and my fiance have pretty good control over our "instincts" now XD. And we always have some at our houses.

Back when I was an immature teen, we did not always and that kind of scares me looking back. We both thought that the pull out technique was good enough... and luckily I never got pregnant.


My next question is, have you ever been tested for STD's/STI's, and if you have, do you get tested often?

No because we both have only had one other partner so there is no reason for this.

And my Final question, have you ever felt pressured into having unprotected sex and gone through with it?

Never pressured but have done it. And it was stupid of both of us. I'm just happy that pregnancy never came from it.

 

[Kim Taehyung]

Do you always carry contraceptive protection on you?

Nope. My boyfriend has it, and I'm working on getting birth control for myself. don't have any health insurance that'll cover it, so I have to go through a free program.


My next question is, have you ever been tested for STD's/STI's, and if you have, do you get tested often?
i've never had the need, as (and I'm fully willing to say this) I'm a virgin, and therefore have never had any risk of needing to be tested. I'm still a virgin, by the way.

And my Final question, have you ever felt pressured into having unprotected sex and gone through with it?
Only one time by a really scuzzy guy, and I totally blew him off. Though we ended up kissing, since that was the only thing I was willing to do.

i totally knew this questionnaire was gonna be short.

 

[Saga]

Do you always carry contraceptive protection on you?

No. I use the pill. I don't see the point in carrying around condoms 1) because I'm on the pill 2) I'm not going to randomly jump the first guy I see and 3) I'm allergic to them. so that kind of makes things awkward. And 4) I'm more likely to end up in bed with a woman at this point in my life.


My next question is, have you ever been tested for STD's/STI's, and if you have, do you get tested often?

I've gotten myself tested three times. First time after certain things in my past. Secondly after being with my partner of three years and then more recently, at the start of the year. I like to just make sure everything's still going on. I'm all clean. I'd much rather keep it that way.

And my Final question, have you ever felt pressured into having unprotected sex and gone through with it?

I've gone through it with every partner I've had, due to being allergic to contraceptive protection. I don't know if it's the lubricant or what, but either way, I can't have sex with it. I do take other precautions like being on the pill and always made my partner pull out when I was around the days of being most likely to concieve. I didn't work that one time... but it's not failed me any other. =/

call me what you will, it's not my fault.

 

[The Illusive Man]

Just to clarify btw peeps, contraceptive protection doesnt neccessarly mean condoms, it can also mean all the other stuff such as the pill, IVF injection, etc.

My bad for not being clear once again *facepalm* but thought I'd let you know due to the direction the topic is leaning and thanks for sharing!

 

[Kandy-Sugar]

Do you always carry contraceptive protection on you?

I used to when Steve and I didn't live together.

Didn't know where we'd end up and find that we needed it. >.<

We still ALWAYS use protection and I always use the pill, so if we ever get pregnant then it was obviously meant to be.

I don't think it's smart of people to stop using protection just because they've been with someone for a certain amount of time. Just because you've been together for a few years, does not mean that you're ready for a child. Think about it. Do you want a kid or not. If not, use the effing protection! Me and Steve sure as hell do not want kids at this stage in our lives and therefore do nearly everything to prevent it.

Some of my friends are ridiculous. They don't even live with their partners and use no form of protection because, 'They wuv each ova.' <_<

My next question is, have you ever been tested for STD's/STI's, and if you have, do you get tested often?

I have and it was after previous partners and while I've been with Steve. So I think we're pretty safe now. We've been together three years, so unless one of us does the dirty on the other there should be no problem. And I know it will never come to that.

And my Final question, have you ever felt pressured into having unprotected sex and gone through with it?

Not really. Though with my first I never really used condoms by choice. He had never been with anyone but me though, so I felt pretty safe being on the pill as well.

Though I look back now and think how much of an idiot I was. I still could have gotten pregnant. Luckily I've always been on the pill.

 

[DeadFantasy]

Do you always carry contraceptive protection on you?
Well if you don't know now, growing up my dad was super overprotective so he told me 'As soon as you get a boyfriend (my very first bf) and he met him approved whatever to take the pill just in case.' Of course he told me not to give in so easily so my first time we were together for a while so I know he wasn't just with me for sex. So yes I guess. I consider the pill a form of protection.


My next question is, have you ever been tested for STD's/STI's, and if you have, do you get tested often?
Well my first yes we as a couple did (even though I was at the time a virgin I don't think he was so just to be safe we went together) I do it every so often. I don't go 'round fucking every guy on the block. >.> I oe nly will have sex with my boyfriend at that time and i'd ask to get checked (if new boyfriend but if we're together for a while there's no point in going like every time we have sex.) but a check-up is always a good idea. As for now, i'm single so there's really no point if I haven't been active.


And my Final question, have you ever felt pressured into having unprotected sex and gone through with it?
No. All my past boyfriends we're really sweet about it (because they know if they forced me to have sex unprotected my dad would kill them LOL) Even though I was on the pill extra protection is something I feel a must. Recently watched 16& pregnant and Teen Mom and i'm just so thankful that overall i've been good about protection. I know I don't want kids (not now) so i'm covered and when i'm ready then i'll stop using the pill. Simple as that.