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I searched for a similar thread and couldn't find one, but Im sure there must be one somewhere so please merge if im being a dumbass again

I was talking about birthdays to a friend on msn and told him I bought myself the Spesh ed box set Advent Children for myself then told my mum she owed me the money for it (lol)

So he said, do people not know I like this kind of stuff & I was like yeah, but none of my exes ever bought me what I wanted because they thought it was 'shit' which is stupid because if I like something Im obviously going to appreciate that more than some un thought out gift. Then that got me thinking.......
Iv had 3 serious relationships that have coincided with my birthday and only my last boyfriend ever got me something for my birthday >> I know its not everything but sheesh......
I was with one of them for 2 years the other over 3

I have terminally bad relationship luck :monster:

What are your relationsip views, I think Iv given up on them
 
Had two serious relationships, and both have been great, though neither have lasted excessively long (four and one-and-a-half months respectively). Both have hurt a lot after the break up, but I've not given up at all.
Someone perfect for me is out there, by the law of averages.
 
I dont think any of mine went particulaily well

The first one never wanted to do anything ever and I was young so i was just like 'il do what you wanna do' which meant sitting around at his house >> that ended badly but was both our faults

the second one was a controlling butt head. Ended really badly. His fault

The third one just took advantage, because I cant go out every weekend he'd get a better offer and sod off. It was ok for the most part but I got fed up >> we still talk altho we have our run ins lol

The most recent lasted about 3 months and because he actually treated me nice I got freaked out and ended it >_<

I swear theres no hope for some people :monster:
 
I'm still on good terms with all of my exes, even though I don't see most of them much at all, or talk to them for that matter. But they ended alright.
Though generally, I hate being single. >>
 
Yeah, being single is starting to really grate on me now but I dunno if Im ready for a relationship (she says at 25 >_<) especially after the way I freaked out with the last one
 
Bambi said:
The most recent lasted about 3 months and because he actually treated me nice I got freaked out and ended it >_<

I swear theres no hope for some people :monster:
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There may be no hope for you if you brush him off. XD If he's good to you, your might want to consider keepin' him, 'cause good un's are soooo hard to come by. I've never dated, and I still think that. Just look at your first few jerks, and the rest of the world.

As for relationships, cannot wait to actually have someone to love, but I don't wanna date around, I wanna save all of me for the guy to come (hopefully). Ever seen Juno? Awesome relationship movie, and funny as heck. :P
 
No Iv seen it advertised though lol

Me and the nice one werent really well suited anyway, we had naff all in common. I guess Il just coast along and hope for the best!
 
This is my second serious relationship and Ive spent 2 birthdays with him, almost 2 Vals days and hopefully another birthday with him this year.

We've discussed moving in together lately cause we hate being apart from each other. Were open and dont argue as much, well not massive blazing rows like I had with my ex.

I thought my world had ended when my ex dumped me. I was beyond upset and had suicidal thoughts, thinking I would never be loved or could love again. Thank god I dragged myself out of that pit as Im much happier now.
 
I have never really has a 'serious' relationship as such as I've always avoided them getting that far with the girls I've been with. I don't like to feel too tied down n'all that shizzle and want to have as much fun as I do when I'm single and free of obligations. However the ones I do see myself having serious relationships with never work out. Lately I've been pretty bad on the relationship side of things, as my age group have all fucked off to Uni or moved away leaving me with the slightly younger or older woman. Which is fine but I find the younger ones too immature mostly and the older ones don't have a fucking clue what they want, with the ok ones already taken. Yeah I'm clearly a fuss pot.>_<

Though saying that even though I'm not ready for anything serious, I always treat whomever Im with in utmost respect and dedicate myself (to a certain extent) to them regardless.
 
This is my first serious relationship I've ever been in and I'm getting ready to celebrate my second birthday with him. We're not really that romantic to begin with. Birthdays are really nothing, I think my last birthday I went out with my friends, he was my designated driver for the night since he wasn't old enough to drink.

We live together at my house but we each have our own rooms. I just don't feel comfortable sleeping in the same room with him yet, though it's weird since if for some reason we stay at his house we stay in the same room.

But as for gifts, we don't really do anything special. The first real gift he bought me was for christmas and they were promise rings. That's about it.
 
I've never been in a relationship, and at 15 I'm not particularly bothered about that. I know that some of my friends think it's really weird, given that they are getting with someone new every couple of weeks, but I don't really care tbh. I've just never met somebody who I feel comfortable with, or the feeling isn't mutual/they live far away etc. I'm not in a particular rush though, I'm not going to hook up with someone just for the sake of it. If I meet someone then that's great, but right now I'm coping fine without a boyfriend and don't see why I *should* have one.
 
Meh... I've been in one relationship. I'm a really loving, polite, considerate guy. I thought she was loving, polite, and considerate too and she seemed that way for a few months at the beginning then she started trying to get a bit TOO serious, and because I didn't want to take our relationship to a bit of a higher level, so to speak, she cheated on me, several times... I forgave her but one thing was the last straw. We lasted 8 months together, mostly due to my forgiveness and persistence to try and make it work.
 
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don't see why I *should* have one
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yeah like its socially unacceptable to not have a gf/bf and when you dont people are always asking you if you have one and when your gonna get one, but when you do, meh they dont care.

ive been going out with my gf for 4 months now and its nice. its not to serious just how it should be when your 18, and i dont feel obliged to always go out with her when i go out.
 
i had one serious one. it lasted 7 years. we broke up 2 years ago.. i admit when you get in a serious relationship and it ends.. it feels like the world comes crashing down on you, but you over come it..

to give up. nah. you can't give up. theer is some one for everyone out there.. you just gotta look.
 
I'm in my first relationship. We started dating almost three months ago. I never saw a point in dating someone because it's the "cool" thing to do. I think my relationship is serious, at least compared to those of others my age.
 
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