Serious No Other Place for this

[Shu]

This is the only thread where I can actually make a non essay approach.

What you have here is a friend not respecting his boundaries. You can sit there and comfort yourself all you want about the situation, but he is still being a dick.

Your girl.. You either are starting to lose her or already lost her. If she is looking into other people, you are basically holding up the relationship for someone who doesn't have the same interest in you.

I understand the situation you are in, because people are people. You might feel you love her, you might feel like you can give it a second chance this time around, but you have now been cheated on, and that only leaves to more opportunity in the future. If you don't stand up for yourself, you will be dragged through the mud, you either tell her you need space, or tell her the cold hard truth.

Otherwise you are being dishonest with yourself, she hurt you.. do something about it.. and do not, I SAY DO NOT raise your hand at her, even if it gets bad.

 

[Prince Oberyn Martel]

Bro's before ho's. There is nothing wrong with you willing to forgive him and move on if that's what you feel you can do. But make it known that you are hurt and that it was wrong to do. Make him work for your forgiveness, at least to show that he really does care about your friendship and not just taking you for a ride for his own gain. Girls are not worth ruining friendships over. Ever.

As for the bint get rid of her if it's causing problems. Yes things do happen but there's no use taking shit. If she wants your friend then there really isn't much you can do about it. If she stays with you she will probably still long for your friend and that may cause problems down the line for you all. If she wants to be with your friend and he wants her aswell then let them be together if you feel you can handle that and move on. You may be the 'loser' in it all but you would have saved your friendship with your friend and the girl....maybe even strengthen it. There's plenty of other lasses out there to have a go with in time. Work it out but don't allow them to walk over you.






Alternativly flamethrowers to their faces can very therapeutic.