On some episodes of truTV's "Forensic Files", a reality television program, I have seen incidents of women instigating arguments that led their male partners into resorting to domestic homicide. I also heard further incidents in the newspapers and the TV news media.
You do know that reality shows are staged, right? I hope you do, but you don't seem smart enough to know that.

And by the way, the news media has a certain talent for distorting facts, blowing things out of proportion, etc. I advice you to not believe everything you read or see.