Serious Mini Skirts in relationships, your views.

Honestly, I've never had a girlfriend wear a mini skirt in front of me. But I think the idea is pretty hot, being the leg man I am. I mean, the way I look at it, if she's dressed up as such and we go out, it's only giving me great signs for what will happen at the end of the night. :kinky: It would be one of those deals where it would make me hot and bothered, then by the end of the night, I'll get to express it. So if it ever happened for me, I can only see it as being a great addition to sex.

But to counterpoint that, I do understand that it can represent an open (no pun intended) opportunity for others. But this is only the case if the girl is looking to move on. I can also understand the insecurities, as I've been cheated on before, that men aren't the only ones capable of cheating, and a woman can lead on a man easier than a man can to a woman. If I suspected that there was ill intent for wearing the mini skirt to find someone else, I would simply talk to them about our situation as a whole, which may or may not stem from a mini skirt incident. But I think more than anything, the mini skirt is something to make the man look better, as other men will want to be in your shoes if your girlfriend has a little somthin' somthin' going on.

I can see the insecurities that can come from it, but overall I think the idea is hot!
 
This is certainly new to me. There have only been a few times where I have questioned what my lady was wearing due to the type of restaurant we were going to... a crap shack. Why? Because even if it is the crappiest restaurant she likes to wear nice clothes.. and we both know she is a messy eater and heck so am I. So BBQ + nice clothes = appetite for destruction. (guns and roses)

It has nothing to do with insecurity though.. I just feel that if my lady does dress up, I feel like I have to. I like the rare occasion to go to a restaurant with a t-shirt and jeans and unkept hair. I don't think I've ever been insecure though, heck I let my lady go to bars with her girls more often times.. for one it gives me some bro time or alone time.. which in the world of relationships.. is very much needed from time to time. It's true there will be times where you will either have a fight, or just get plain bored of one another.. so after a fall out.. friends or alone time is there for a reason.The insecure side though.. I don't think I've ran into this. Isn't it usually the ladies who have the issues with men? =P I kid! Well actually that has mostly been the case with me.

Me I'm a laid back fella who talks casually to folks, guy or girl in real life. I think some ladies in life think if the lady is more attractive than them (in their head) then it is a threat on their territory. I think this is what it boils down to for JV here. Since JV had a long distance relationship and the girl would wear stuff and talk about other men.. etc, the question was why was he ever with her. Such little to work with in my opinion, some women aren't worth mine or any other man's time.

Society calls for one thing, but if it a loving relationship, I don't think insecurities are there.. then what do I know, I know quite a bit of people are paranoid as it is. I'm the type of person who can turn on music and close my eyes and wake up 2 days later in bliss, so I need very little to keep me going =P.
 
The only time I would have an issue with a girl wearing a mini skirt is if she is doing to attract attention from other guys to make her boyfriend jealous. But then, if that is what she is doing, then that guy needs to find another girl friend.

Other than that, I have no problem with a girl wearing a miniskirt or any other revealing clothes for that matter. She just has to realize that if she does dress that way that she is going to attract attention from other guys, whether it be positive or negative. The one thing I can not stand is when girls wear revealing clothes and then complain that other guys are staring at them. Seriously, wtf did you expect would happen! If I saw a shirtless well built guy walking around I'd be staring at him too.

But my boyfriend once explained this to me. It's not that he doesn't trust me, he doesn't trust other guys. But he has never restricted me on what I want to wear.

 
I like to wear mini skirts in the summer mostly if not a pair of shorts. My GF doesn't say anything about it and I think she likes them on me. And if she ever asked me to stop wearing them, she had better have a darn good reason. Because when it comes to clothes... nobody can tell me what I can and can't wear. Well, besides my parents. But when its something like a skirt, I'll wear one and nobody can stop me.

I don't think you telling her not to wear a mini skirt because of you being insecure is a good idea either. It shows a lack of trust and that isn't good for either party to be honest.
 
This is a good topic! Why did it die? D;

My boyfriend has only ever restricted me to not wearing one thing, and that was tube top. It was on clearance at Wal-Mart for 4$, and after dropping 40lbs, I figured I might try one out for the first time in my life (not one of those skanky boobs only tube tops, but a full shirt one).

I tried to wear it out twice with him, both times he asked me not to. When I asked why, he simply tugged on the shirt and pulled it down. "That's why." >.> Clearly he was worried about some random passer byer pulling my shirt down. While this was... somewhat justified, I respected his wishes and didn't wear it.


All in all I think that if you're comfortable with what you're wearing, wear it. However if it bothers your guy for some reason or another, perhaps respect his wishes and not wear it, and maybe bring it up another time? If they seem legitimately bothered by it, I wouldn't want to wear anything that was going to ruin the rest of the day just because 'I won'.
 
it really is a trust issue at heart. if for any reason a guy feels the girl is wearing revealing clothes to attract attention other than his, there are trust issues on at least one side of the relationship. for that matter, the same applies to girls whose boyfriends look really suave and attract a lot of attention from women. trust.
 
Im not a minskirt wearer, I dont have the legs or figure for them :/

But if I did decide to wear one, then I really wouldnt care what my boyfriend thought. I have the choice to wear whatever the hell I like and no one is going to tell me otherwise.
 
Ah the beloved miniskirt, I started experimenting with pairing this up with leggings and a layered shirt underneath a vest sometime around . . . my junior year. For the first time in my life, I might add. Before that, I stuck strictly to jeans because I wasn't sure how I felt about showing off my legs in public. I wore the miniskirt simply because I wanted to, not for a potential boyfriend (I was single at the time and still am), or anything, just for myself.

Likewise, if I were to be with a boyfriend, I'd still wear the garment because hell, it looks flattering on me. I mean, I'd make it look decent of course, but I'd wear it not just for myself but also for him, because he'd (hopefully) approve of it. The way I see it, there's nothing wrong with wearing anything unless the intention of why you're wearing it is clear: to seduce some dude when you're clearly taken or to prove to your guy that you want "some action" or simply because you want to dress down for something. (I don't find mini skirts to be formal, really)

As long as there's a legitimate reason for wearing it, for yourself and your bf, or just because you can and want to, then it's cool. The only time I wouldn't ever do it, is if I were wearing it to seduce some guy even though I'd be taken at the time. Ew. No, that would just be disrespectful.
 
Interesting topic. Coming from the young college student point of view, practically every girl wears miniskirts/short dresses when going out on the weekends, may it be to house/fraternity parties or to the bar. As far as dressing like this when in a relationship, I suppose the point-of-view of the girl is that just because they're in a relationship doesn't mean that they have to dress like a middle-age housewife. Everyone likes to look good/"sexy" when they are out so that they can have a good first impression when meeting people and all that. From the perspective of the guy, it might be a bit weird because they could think that she was putting her body on display and thereby being "disloyal" to their relationship.

In my opinion, crossing the line would be actively flirting with guys, thereby using the miniskirt as a tool. But if she just wants to look and feel great, then I don't really see a problem with it. Behavior is the key here.
 
I fell over a wall once many years ago walking home from the pub with my mate and my boob tube fell down, tit tape is a WONDERFUL invention ]:

It is just a trust issue more than anything, a girl could go out dressed head to toe in ninja gear and still cheat, all she has to do is approach a willing guy. Yet there could be a girl wearing next to nowt and getting approached by the masses yet telling them all to fuck off and happily toodles off to her boyfriend. At the end of the day its just clothes, or lack thereof, but it's trust. If a person is gunna cheat they will cheat regardless. Sure some girls DO dress like that for the attention/to go on the pull, usually (you would hope) these are the single girls.

If attention on your partner makes the jealousy flare up, then that's something for you to deal with - an ex of mine had an absolute FIT once because someone LOOKED at me, though it was more likely that I was in his eyeline, he was just a pillock

I have some ridiculous clothes, I won't let no one tell me to stop wearing them either

Hell, I didn't even wear a mini skirt one time, I just wore a shirt belt and heels - if you are comfortable wearing shit like that, and you aren't dressing liek that for the wrong reasons if you are in a relationship, then I see no harm in it. It's not hard telling someone you are not interested :mokken:
 
It's an issue of trust, as Kelly says. I know that I wouldn't let my partner dictate to me what I can and can't wear, so I would extend the same courtesy to them. If you show you can trust them, then most likely, you'll have a strong relationship. If you get worked up over them wearing a miniskirt... then there's issues, in my opinion.

I don't really get the whole "jealousy" thing either. I'd be flattered if someone was eying up my partner xD
 
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