Men and woman relationships?

I can only assume you linked to the wrong study because the one in your post only talks about pleiotropy and general on/off-switches and throws in its evolutionary benefits.

This will be the last time I post in response to the goals of evolution so I'm sorry of this is controversial but...

"Reverting back to original form"

That's just...not correct. Alas, if you want a debate on the mechanisms of biology then it's not for here. Again, I only mentioned it to strip down attraction to the basics. I'll gladly post in another thread if you want to make one.
 
I find that alot of guys actually want far more commitment than they're given credit for, the main reason for that being that the vast majority of women won't go for that kind of guy. It's only when women approach the age of thirty that they actually begin to put two and two together and begin to see the age old tricks 'alpha' males use to attract them and such behaviour becomes less of a turn on and more like a red flag.

The male equivalent would perhaps be looks above character in females, seeing as most males I know go for the good looking females above the classier, kinder and plain better ones. It's only later in life that they realise looks fade and beauty can only ever be found within.

...ugh did I just right that mush :trollface:
 
the majority of people are shallow and don't know what to look for in a partner. the stereotypes that exist in the media today are a result of this - whether it's a hot blonde with a tiny waist, long black-haired subservient asian girls among those with yellow fever, hot stripperific gamer girls for the lonely geeks; even nerdiness has been chic-ified. people don't know what they want, so they let others tell them what they want.

my trump card is knowing that sex will always pale in comparison to some good trance.
 
1. If the guy isn't responsible and only wants sex, why does a girl stay with him?
This is a difficult question to answer because in order to gain some clarity, one has to view the individual (female). She will have her own reasons. Not every girl in the same. Not ever girl who finds out a guy only wants sex will stay. I'd say this question is way too broad to narrow down to one answer.

2. Is it fair to say put most men or most girls in one category?
No, of course not. While it does happen quite a bit, it's certainly not fair. I know I hate it when I'm stereotyped like the rest of my female-kin.

3. If most guys are like this, then aren't most girls like this also?
I would say this question ties into the second one. If we're going to assume that all men only want sex and all women will stay regardless, then we're sort of sending ourselves into a loop here. But if we ignore the stereotypes, then we get into totally different territory.
 
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