Serious I would appreciate some insight

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Korytco

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What do you do when you have a college class with your old crush, and she now has a baby and a serious BF/ Husband who is way buffer than you ...

I know that one of the things you may do is feel like crap about it.


All I can think of is her thinking that I am a looser, or something , or how much happier she is with another guy.

I guess its one of those times the man acts like a man, but it's hard for me right now.
 
Not really much you can do man. I mean, it's college time for ya. If the girl ya like is strung up on someone else, AND has a kid, move on! As hard as it may be with whatever you've gone through in the past, there's TONS of other girls out there.

College is the time to be getting out and meeting new people and having fun and all that jazz. A loser? Just don't be strung up on her and you won't be a loser. I mean I don't want to sound harsh and everything, but watch the movie "College". Actually it comes out on DVD like next week. It's perfect man. Grab some friends, go meet people, talk, have a blast, forget her.

6 billion people on the planet.
3 billion girls.
1 billion are too old.
1 billion are too young.

That leaves 1 billion left available for you. Go find her dude. Or just let it happen. The less you try going after a girl, ya never know, it may just come up and surprise ya that someone who you wouldn't expect, likes you without you knowing it.
 
This seems more appropriate in The Temple of the Ancients, so I'll move it there for ya'. ;)

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And listen to Busta. The man knows what he's talking about. There's nothing much you can do, especially if the girls seems to be happy with her guy. It may hurt you for awhile, but just let it go because the more you sulk about it, the more you'll feel like crap about everything. You'll meet someone else eventually...
 
You're both right, thanks for the read. I don't have much a reply for you right now, but your posts are very helpful and insightful.
 
Busta speaketh the truth.

What you can do is go to parties, get drunk, get social, have fun. Well, of course you can also sit at home watching porn and thinking about that chick, but I personally prefer the first option. Spend your weekends well.
 
Youve gotta move on man. Shes not only got a lad but a child which im assuming is his. You should stay clear and let them get on with things someone else will come along at some point, its just a case of waiting it out.
 
"What can you do?" Nothing, related to her. She has a child and a husband with whom she is presumably happy - without being a home-wrecker, you can't do anything at all. I recommend moving on and staying as far away from relationship thoughts with her as possible.
 
Your use of the word 'crush' suggests to me that you fancied this girl but nothing ever happened about it, or am I wrong?

If that is the case (or even if you were together, for that matter) then the only thing you can do is move on. Easier said than done, I know. Most of the time it's difficult to get over somebody because you don't want to let go, and you still have the hope that it'll happen one day. The first thing you need to do is accept that you'll never be together and try to stop thinking about her. Try to meet other girls, and they'll make getting over her incredibly easier.

I hope that was helpful. >_>
 
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