That fact is your talking about treating 'woman'. It's not woman your treating it's the individual. Do you like to be treated the same way as your dad , George Bush, David Beckham or the Dali Lama, no because your not the same. Yes you are all 'men' but that difines you down to physical and biological atributed only. Everybody has their preferances.
Treat the Indiviual not the woman.
Treat the Indiviual not the woman.