Why is sex so important?

[Shu]

Oh, no. It's just how I feel about it . I grew up thinkin' sex was designed best for a married couple, but in today's world it's not that simple, but this is humanity after all...I do have say that you put it perfectly though. What people do behind closed doors is their business and noone elses.

To your OP, Heck yea I have an interest! . Who doesn't? lol . I wont lie that I'm not nervous for I am a virgin, but I'm sure I'll do just fine.

I think it was designed that way originally, but the appetite is always there. If we didn't have the generation marketing women dressed up in basically no clothing at all, and advertising sex left and right. As well as Men who basically do metabolic steroids to look cut in advertisements, or that half of those men are actually of the homosexual blend. It's pretty confusing to the women, as well as the men in the world. Airbrushing and photo shopping is the new feature of this generation. We make people look one huge step better by taking out the imperfections.

Sex is great, but I do frown upon those who misuse it as a weapon or are overly promiscuous. It's one of those things that honestly.. can either be a drug, or can be one of the greatest experiences between two folks. Me, I'm very afraid of an STD, so I always advice folks to wrap it up. I know to many folks who make the mistake of getting with a girl based off looks, and getting some crappy STD the next day/week. Trust me, folks might look good, but if they are overly.. well desperate and they look good, best to keep your distance. Also, sex on the first date is a bad thing.. mmkay?

 

[blakstang98]

Well, sex is a chance to share intimate moments with a woman you love. You get to connect with someone in a way that can only be done by the way of love. Sure, you can hire a prostitute and get your rocks off, but the feeling probably won't be the same. Being able to share such passion with someone really is an intense feeling that is really unparelleled. I highly recommend it.

And yes, the purpose of sex is to procreate, as most religions forbid pre-marital sex. This is something that was more of a common practice in the days of our parents, which led to shotgun weddings if the woman got pregnant as a result of pre-marital sex. These practices are not so common anymore among our generation and the younger generation.

Personally, I don't see why marriage should make a difference in whether 2 people should have sexual intercourse or not. I mean, if you care about someone, why should you withhold intimate moments just because of a lack of marital ties? The act of sex itself is a big enough deal where precaution should be taken to spare emotional scarring, but its your feelings for someone that really counts (which is a topic for another day). In a younger releationship (I mean younger as in a relationship thats still in its early stages), then sex is a big deal. Naturally a woman doesn't want to be taken advantage of by a dude who's just looking for sex. STD's and pregnancy are a possibility even with the proper precautions and contraceptives, so best not to have sex too early in a relationship. Two people have to want to have it and not just do it to get it over with or do it for the sake of telling their friends they just banged this person. In a matured relationship, the idea of sex has already been utilized (in all likelihood) and comfort level should be such that it just happens naturally. If 2 people are married, sex goes down in priority as things like purchasing a home and starting a family and taking care of the family are the larger priorities. And yes, sex is necessary to start a family, but now sex is being done with more of an intent and purpose, and not just for pleasure. But I'll certainly want to make sex as pleasureable as possible when me and my wife start to have children some day.

For a , having sex is most excellent. If you and your partner are serious about it and want to share such intimacy, then take the proper precautions and I say go for it.