Serious Why doesn't anything go right

[Oliver Queen]

Sucks to hear about your problems man. I understand how it feels to get picked on during school, and it really sucks, but the only thing I can say is just stick with it.

About the college funding, if you get lucky enough, you can get scholarships and financial aid to help with that. That's how I'm getting through right now.

And to add with what DeadFantasy said, you will have us as friends here, so don't be afraid to come to us for advice and/or help.

 

[Oblivion_XIII]

thanks cardiac, I really appreciate the support!

 

[Black Butler]

we wont meet each other in real life but we are all here to give each other help and support,were all online friends here.

 

[Oblivion_XIII]

how do you know that bison, i believe that anything is possible bison

 

[Black Butler]

i mean that we dont meet each other as a group,we aid each other in certain sites like this one,we could post pics of us to each other but not meeting in real life.

 

[Oblivion_XIII]

no, i meant, how do you know we will never meet in real life, what if one day i pop into your barber shop lol, don't worry, I'll ask for Seb

 

[Valvalis]

And to add with what DeadFantasy said, you will have us as friends here, so don't be afraid to come to us for advice and/or help.

Very true. That's what we're here for Don't be afraid to ask advice about anything. And hang in there, it'll work itself out.

 

[Oblivion_XIII]

I sure hope so, hey, at least im not suicidal

 

[Kandy-Sugar]

Hey I understand that this is a thread to support Oblivion but can we please try and cease a little more on the chit chat.

Giving advice and helping is one thing, but obvious chit chatting back and forth is just spamming it up a bit.

If you want to talk back and forth like that please take it to PM's or MSN.

Thanks. =)

 

[YamiJay]

I'm in a big hell hole right now.
My mom is being a bitch for no reason, so won't stop telling me and my dad to go fuck ourselves, she screams at me for little tiny things, and she said that all my school problems (bullying, fights, ect.) are all my fault, and they're not.

Next, all my friends are being assholes or just plain old leaving me, for no reason. I have a few friends, but they aren't real good friends, I haven't know them for long except for 3, and 2/3 are being jackasses half the time.

School, I get bullied because I'm smaller than everyone and I'm smart. I've been in fights, and I've had kids stalking me home to find out where I live so they can jump me. And I'm called "gay" because I can't get a girlfriend, and I get harassed on a daily basis about it, and trust me, I'm not a fan of homosexuality, It doesn't seem right for me, maybe for other people, but not me. And I'm "good friends" with the deans and the principal at my school, but they're at the point where they cannot do much anymore, they've tried hard.

I'm loosing my motivation, becoming emotionally dead, my life is a hell hole and I'm only 14, and from what I know, It's gonna be worse.

any help or advice, this is the only place i can go now

Ohh im very sorry to hear about your problems but i use to be in the same situation about 4 to 5 years ago. So here is my advice...listen...take it...do whatever you do with it.

Mum Issue: Mums will be mums and will always be angry...im not trying to offend anyone here but its mainly because she is a woman. from a womans point of view....they do get life a lot harder then men (for example PMS, Pregnancy) and as they get older, they sometimes get worse. Mums can also be over protective and sometimes they say its your fault only so you deal with the problem yourself...because after school.....you become so independant....its not funny. Do you and your stepdad get along???

Friends: We have all had our share of friendships lost. I remember going through school and your friends only liked you if u had money, or the best things or whatever...Friends are the people you can trust, talk to, have fun, and you can love them too. Just remember the saying "A good friend will bail you out of jail, but a true friend will be beside you saying man we f**ked up!" (not telling you to do something bad either). Make new friends that you can trust, even if its over forums, MSN...whatever...(just be careful of creeps.....)

School: School will always be tough unless you are part of the "cool crowd". I was exactly the same going through school, i got bullied cause im skinnier then the other kids, and hey i aint no Johhny Depp either. I was crap at sports but i was really smart. I could never get a girlfriend, and the only girl i liked at school ended up sleeping with my brother.....lets not get into that. The best thing about school, as you only have to go through it once....after school...its uphill...trust me, youll become more confident in yourself, you'll feel better about yourself too.

Just remember your only 14...you have a whole life in front of you. there are worse people out there then you, and thats not being mean. Some people dont get to live 14 because of poverty and war. Just remember to be yourself and enjoy life.

PS.. Im sorry if i offended anyone ie women....im not a sexist.

I hope my advice helps

 

[Oblivion_XIII]

Thanks everyone