Serious Why do people meddle?

[Bones]

I kind of had a mini-rant about this in the SB but I am really upset and angry about it all.

I had a really good day, and then I look up my emails and I find one with the subject title being my partner's name... so I open it.

The message said:
"ur bf messed around wid my m8 in bristol jus thought i let u no"

So for one they can't even type properly and I replied telling her to learn proper English. I mean I don't even know who this person was.

I sent an SMS to my partner to tell him about this message. And suddenly he called me and sounded pretty angry and defensive about it all, I don't believe this message for a second, I love and trust my partner 100%. I was really worried that telling him about this message would make it seem like I was accusing him, but all I want to do is be open and honest with him, as I want him to be with me.

So now me and my partner are OK (I think) But I don't get why a random stranger would just send a message like that to someone, because if it was someone else who is completely gullible, that could have been some unlucky couple.

Why do people do things like this?

 

[Abstract Debauchery]

Some people just have nothing better to do than to mess around with someone. For example, when I'm really bored, I'll start playing mind games.

At the end of the day, it's just someone trying to get their jollies trying to mess around with you.

 

[Marshy]

People are.... fucked at times. I mean there are people on the internet that harass people and steal peoples information and everything. People really have nothing better to do and have a low self esteem. I don't know you too well but if your boyfriend messed around with someone else, someone wouldn't just send you it over email. So i wouldn't worry about that.

 

[Whoareyou]

What Tsukianei said ^.

Also some people feel they need to do it for attention. It's entirely possiible that you could have been the sort of person to reply "Who are you", "how did you get my address" etc. and this is what some people are fishing for...

 

[Amizon]

Yes, it's always about drawing attention to themselves.

People would start rumours about me back in school, hurtful ones at that, and I'd ignore them after a while because it used to be the same ones over and over.

Best thing to do would be to ignore them. I'd hardly believe this, coming from someone who can't even spell for shit.

 

[blakstang98]

If there is one thing I've learned in my 27 years, is that people generally suck. I agree with some of the previous posts about this person just trying to piss you off for no good reason but their own entertainment. But then again, there could be a logical reason for it.

I don't know what kind of relation this person that text messaged you has with you, but it's possible they may be trying to sabotage your relationship. Why they would want to sabotage your relationship could be for many reasons, but I don't know enough about the situation to elaborate further.

But I'm thinking it's just someone trying to annoy you for no real reason.

 

[.Ted]

If there is one thing I've learned in my 27 years, is that people generally suck. I agree with some of the previous posts about this person just trying to piss you off for no good reason but their own entertainment. But then again, there could be a logical reason for it.

I don't know what kind of relation this person that text messaged you has with you, but it's possible they may be trying to sabotage your relationship. Why they would want to sabotage your relationship could be for many reasons, but I don't know enough about the situation to elaborate further.

But I'm thinking it's just someone trying to annoy you for no real reason.

I was actually leaning on that too.

The person might just be trying to annoy you, but if it was to sabotage your relationship....it gets me thinking. It could be one of your partner's ex-girlfriends. Probably one of the crazy ones that think "We will always love each other." But if that's the case, remember that there is a reason your partner is with you right now instead of that other person.

That's, of course, if that's an ex-girlfriend. If your partner doesn't even have an ex, then I agree that it's just someone who seriously needs help. Seriously, it just irks me when people bother others for no reason.

 

[The Illusive Man]

Well in my honest opinion, some people just never quite learned to grow up and leave the silly little games behind after they left junior school.

Now thats not to say that everyone is mega mature, we can all be immature at times, but some people are immature 24/7 and thats exactly what it seems like from this person that sent you this message.

As for why people do such things, its usually down to attention seeking or getting a kick out of causing others misery, weather it be anon texts and emails, to bitchiness and backstabbing, they do whatever they can because they hate to see people happy.

And then theres the people who lead dull lives who pull this kind of stunt to try spice there lives up a bit, I swear some of these people could really do with a couple of hours therapy a week if they think causing drama and misery is fun because it isnt.

But as everyone else pretty much said, just disregard it, just a sad strange little person with no life trying to bring others to there level, dont let em get what they want!