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Aztec Triogal

Aztec Triogal

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Have you ever been used before? honestly I've been guilty of using people before... but I've never been on the recieving end til just recently. Actually, there was an incident in 6th grade but that was small comparitively. A kid pretended to be my friend to get a burnt copy of a video game. Whatever.

Anyhow, like I said, I've used people before. There are a lot of really gullible suckers out there that you can get to do pretty much anything for attention. They're not neccessarily bad people but they are usually eager to do almost anything to gain acceptance. I've paid kids $1 to beat the hell out of each other. On the first set of forums I belonged to, I knew a member named NinjaChicken... who I'd have post rants or bad things just to get a kick out of it. He'd go off on rants against members I didn't like just to get my approval.

I've also known a ton of people that have been very seriously used. Unlike stupid forum pranks, I've known at least a half dozen women that have been either mollested or raped. Easily. Actually I just counted them up real quick... the total is probably closer to 9 women. That's quite a lot.

I think the reason it impacts you so much is because fears must be able to gather momentum. And the farther back in your brain a fear is, the more it hurts when it's rifled at you. When someone takes the big fear that's hiding in the very back of your mind, so far back you think it's silly to even have it, and then slams it into the front of your mind... it hurts. And when you suspect something of happening and it does, there's not a lot of momentum. It was already in the front of your mind... so there wasn't very far for it to move. But those lurking fears when realized... it just kicks your butt. I guess in a way I'm glad that fear is cleansed. Its out of there. It's not lurking anymore... but it certainly did pack a punch when it hit.

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I've not actually been used before, but I have used other people. Though not for any overly malicious intent. Personal humour only. I've wrecked online relationships before, and I've broken friendships. Though, the people involved did deserve it all, so it's not too bad.

Poor humour, I know, but it was amusing at the time. XD



I guess I'll feel regret when someone actually has the ability to "use" me in any way.
 
Aztec Triogal said:
lol Hopefully it doesn't. Although everyone has things that set them off-guard and time makes fools of us all.
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True enough. But I don't let myself get by any means emotionally involved with people, so I'm safe in that respect. ;D

As for trust, I might be caught off with that. Though, I'm a very difficult person to get to know if I'm not interested, so I'm still pretty much safeguarded. XD
 
Ive been used, but Ive never used people. I always tend to forgive the ones who have used me as I still see them as friends, but at the time of when I was used, they were jsut being foolish. I cant harbour bad feelings towards friends as I love to have as many friends as possible.
 
I really have never used anyone before, I feel like people take advantage of me a lot but I'm aware of it and letting it happen, and I don't consider that a bad thing. Of course, it's only not a bad thing when it's not something serious. I feel like people take advantage of my kindness and forgiving nature, and that they should... I want to make people feel cared about and know they have a friend if they need one, but I have been seriously used in a relationship which was terrible. It felt terrible, and it has caused a lot of regrets. I guess I am one of those people who helps everyone out so much but never asks for it in return. I probably deserved it, maybe that was my wake up call.
 
I've been used a few times before, and one of them was actually my best friend! I actually didn't catch on right away, or believe it when my dad was pointing it out, but it turned out to be true, and she didn't deny it either. I found out she only wanted to be my best friend to make herself more popular, even though she was popular enough without me. After high school she was still my friend, but she only hung out with me when we went out, she would never wanna hang out just me and her. It really hurt that she would use me like that, but we arn't friends anymore and I don't talk to her and I think I'm better off without her anyway
 
I'm too much of a loser to be used.... Unless some girls begging you for a couple bucks for a drink that know you're attracted to them counts.

Bitch girls.... I wanted some gummi worms that day, but I gave them all my money...
 
i hate getting used by people who want get driven somewhere. Like they dont talk to you in ages and all of a sudden you're invited to this thing but their real intent is to use you to drive them somewhere... I'm not a damn chaufeur...
 
Saix said:
I've not actually been used before, but I have used other people. Though not for any overly malicious intent. Personal humour only. I've wrecked online relationships before, and I've broken friendships. Though, the people involved did deserve it all, so it's not too bad.

Poor humour, I know, but it was amusing at the time. XD



I guess I'll feel regret when someone actually has the ability to "use" me in any way.
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Man I can so relate. I've also had a hand in ruining online relationships by starting rumors and such but it was only on people I didn't like. I also used a friend to get a burned copy of a Bjork album xD. anyway I've been used to like my friend stole my copy FFX and that sucked because it was a long time before i could get another copy
 
it took me about 5 years to relise this my mum pointed dis out to me a few times but i didn't wwanna belive it...one of my friends his name is greg his nan lives around the corner from ym house and he visteds thier about every 2 week end and i always used to play with him always to go for rides around the block but then i found out he never really like me he just liked my best friend because i started getting hints because he always wonted my friend to come down so then i poped the question do u even wanna b my friend?? and he said man im sorry but like i tim better and im like FTW man?? i've known u for about 5 years and u just met my best friend and u liek him more.

doesn't feel good to be used for 5 years :(
 
I was used by a guy in high school. He dated me to get to know my better-looking sister which was who he actually liked. When he dumped me and started dating my sister I was furious. But I got my revenge. I snuck into the boys changing rooms after PE one day and took a photo of him naked. I then developed it (I had my own darkroom at the time) and made LOADS of copies and posted them up round the school.
 
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