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I owe you all an apology, for suddenly disappearing for several days. And you better believe I've got an explanation for it, this is been a very stressful week...
Everything started on Tuesday, when my mother left us, her family. She left unnoticed, it would seem it had to have been a very early hour of the morning, but we thought she was just gone to work at first, she said she had to work that day.
But after a while, well, we had ran out of oil for the furnace, so my brother was getting in the Van, which he just had given to and and switched to his name the day before, to get some more oil, that's when he noticed that there was three notes left on the driver's seat, one to each of us.
That's what said that she was leaving, and worse is that she had supposedly been saving up some paychecks for months, she left taking all that money and taking what money she had out of her bank account, thousands of dollars, right before there was going to be a bunch of big bills coming up...
She had obviously also been saving up some chunks of her tip money (she is a waitress) as well, because for months, when it came time to go to shop for what groceries we need, for the longest time there kept seeming to be way less money than what there should have been for how much money she made from work.
My mother has done a lot of bad things, and made some bad lies, like one having me come to Nova Scotia for what she said was an extended visit, because one of her parents wasn't doing very well, but that was under false pretenses, as soon as me and my mother got there, then when she called back to Ontario (where my father and brother still were), she was saying she is there to stay, and isn't coming back...
It came back to haunt me again some months later, when during one of the calls to them she was telling my father she would never see me again unless he moved here, I've always felt very guilty about this, she got me there, then she used me for leverage...
But that's not when they absolutely had to move out, a little later her and her mother got their power cut off in their house and had them evicted, being given a notice if they weren't out by a certain date, the belongings would just be put out to the side of the road.
This wicked scheming is ultimately forced their hand, though they would have gotten to me or gotten me to them one way or another anyways, but that was just an awful thing that my mother did, one of many.
Forgive me, I have sidetracked a bit here, I'm getting back to more of what has kept me offline for several days...
She left my father for some other man, who works on a ferry, and is also a performer, makes quite a good living. :/ Turns out this guy is married too, she is stealing some woman's husband away (albeit, the man is with her very willingly, he apparently wasn't so happy with his wife), and leaving her family in thousands of dollars of debt and ran off with the money that was to be used to pay them.
What is really taking the cake for how nice everything she is doing is, she is going around telling lies and all manner of awful things about my father, making pretty much everyone around here hate him, and support her for doing this, which really is a pretty sick thing to do.
I mean, how she played him, she had clearly been planning for months to leave, saving up those paychecks then up and leaving with them, just a few days before she left she told him that "I love you and you love me, and we're going to grow old together", which isn't accurate anyways, she treats him miserably and cold, and he's wanted to separate from her for many years, but she traps him with these wicked schemes...
And my father is a great man and very intelligent, he deserves a lot better, for many years, basically any of the years I have been alive, my mother has just mistreated him.
I'm bringing this post near it's end getting to why I simply couldn't get online, which was killing me because I know I am falling behind in RPing...as of Thursday morning, we found out that the phone line had been disconnected, there was no dial tone, no calls going to be made or received, and since the only thing available right where we live (currently) for Internet is Dial-up, I was screwed too...
Just got it connected again today, but the Dial-up Accelerator program isn't working now, and may not be for about a few days probably, so stuff is going to load ridiculously slow for me for the next handful of days, so keep that in mind when I am online in the next few days.
What good has come from all of this? Come to the realization we need to get the hell out of here, so once we do, I'll be able to get High-Speed Internet.
But yeah, that is the gist of the nightmare that has been the last week. I am very sorry for the sudden absence, I could hardly stand not being able to get online for several days.
I missed you guys, and am so glad to be back, this is my chance to escape such said nightmares. >_>' And you're all of a great community, and am honoured to be a part of it. 
Everything started on Tuesday, when my mother left us, her family. She left unnoticed, it would seem it had to have been a very early hour of the morning, but we thought she was just gone to work at first, she said she had to work that day.
But after a while, well, we had ran out of oil for the furnace, so my brother was getting in the Van, which he just had given to and and switched to his name the day before, to get some more oil, that's when he noticed that there was three notes left on the driver's seat, one to each of us.
That's what said that she was leaving, and worse is that she had supposedly been saving up some paychecks for months, she left taking all that money and taking what money she had out of her bank account, thousands of dollars, right before there was going to be a bunch of big bills coming up...
She had obviously also been saving up some chunks of her tip money (she is a waitress) as well, because for months, when it came time to go to shop for what groceries we need, for the longest time there kept seeming to be way less money than what there should have been for how much money she made from work.
My mother has done a lot of bad things, and made some bad lies, like one having me come to Nova Scotia for what she said was an extended visit, because one of her parents wasn't doing very well, but that was under false pretenses, as soon as me and my mother got there, then when she called back to Ontario (where my father and brother still were), she was saying she is there to stay, and isn't coming back...
It came back to haunt me again some months later, when during one of the calls to them she was telling my father she would never see me again unless he moved here, I've always felt very guilty about this, she got me there, then she used me for leverage...
But that's not when they absolutely had to move out, a little later her and her mother got their power cut off in their house and had them evicted, being given a notice if they weren't out by a certain date, the belongings would just be put out to the side of the road.
This wicked scheming is ultimately forced their hand, though they would have gotten to me or gotten me to them one way or another anyways, but that was just an awful thing that my mother did, one of many.
Forgive me, I have sidetracked a bit here, I'm getting back to more of what has kept me offline for several days...
She left my father for some other man, who works on a ferry, and is also a performer, makes quite a good living. :/ Turns out this guy is married too, she is stealing some woman's husband away (albeit, the man is with her very willingly, he apparently wasn't so happy with his wife), and leaving her family in thousands of dollars of debt and ran off with the money that was to be used to pay them.
What is really taking the cake for how nice everything she is doing is, she is going around telling lies and all manner of awful things about my father, making pretty much everyone around here hate him, and support her for doing this, which really is a pretty sick thing to do.
I mean, how she played him, she had clearly been planning for months to leave, saving up those paychecks then up and leaving with them, just a few days before she left she told him that "I love you and you love me, and we're going to grow old together", which isn't accurate anyways, she treats him miserably and cold, and he's wanted to separate from her for many years, but she traps him with these wicked schemes...
And my father is a great man and very intelligent, he deserves a lot better, for many years, basically any of the years I have been alive, my mother has just mistreated him.
I'm bringing this post near it's end getting to why I simply couldn't get online, which was killing me because I know I am falling behind in RPing...as of Thursday morning, we found out that the phone line had been disconnected, there was no dial tone, no calls going to be made or received, and since the only thing available right where we live (currently) for Internet is Dial-up, I was screwed too...
Just got it connected again today, but the Dial-up Accelerator program isn't working now, and may not be for about a few days probably, so stuff is going to load ridiculously slow for me for the next handful of days, so keep that in mind when I am online in the next few days.
What good has come from all of this? Come to the realization we need to get the hell out of here, so once we do, I'll be able to get High-Speed Internet.
But yeah, that is the gist of the nightmare that has been the last week. I am very sorry for the sudden absence, I could hardly stand not being able to get online for several days.
I missed you guys, and am so glad to be back, this is my chance to escape such said nightmares. >_>' And you're all of a great community, and am honoured to be a part of it. 
Wouldn't want to lose a valuable member of the forums and everything 
