Serious Sick Twisted Love?

[Kayak4One]

I'm in love with someone who won't love me back. Two years, I've been in this addiction. It's terrible.

On top of that, I'm bored. So it's like I can't get away from the thought.​

 

[Bambi]

I really liked some arsehole at work, for a good long while. He was an arsehole aswel, so lord knows what I was thinking haha. I knew he wasn't interested but it didn't stop me pining. Then he left, I got over it, and every now and then Id see him and my stomache would do a little somersault until I DID get over it ....haha

Then, about er, 2 years ago, the old MD from our work got married so everyone (past & present) got invited, he was there and he was clearly interested, said I looked geeeeewd and I was just like Ohai....(hahaha me no like you no mooooore) then I smugly got on with getting pissed feeling really pleased with myself. Although I do admit when I heard he was going I was like uh-oh, what if I see him and like him all over again/......but nah, I was reet. Infact I was like ew woman, what were you THINKING Although he did used to be fit.... once

Not sure what my point was with that, but yeah erm......i sorta know how you feel?

 

[Mitsuki]

This seems more appropriate in Temple of the Ancients, so I'll move it there for ya'.

-Thread Moved-

And um, two years is quite a long time, I guess...sometimes it's just best to move on. Can't exactly force someone to love you back, especially if it's just not there, ya'know? There's others out there and one day you may finally get over this. Just hang in there.

 

[Fusilli]

It's not so uncommon to refuse to get over somebody even when you know they don't like you back, but that doesn't make it any less painful. It's like, you won't let yourself get over your feelings because you love them, and even though they don't feel that way about you, you still don't want to 'lose' them. And you look forward to things that would usually be dull just because they'll be there. I find that the best way to stop yourself thinking about them is by meeting somebody else, although preferably somebody who you have a chance with otherwise it'll be the same thing all over again. >_> And you say that you're so bored all the time, you could always try taking up a hobby to take your mind off things. Who knows, you might meet somebody special through it.

 

[Prince Oberyn Martel]

I'm in love with someone who won't love me back. Two years, I've been in this addiction. It's terrible.

On top of that, I'm bored. So it's like I can't get away from the thought.​

It happens. Alot. Go get with other people to calm the addiction as it helps. No I'm not saying be a man-whore, just take your mind off them. If its been this long then chances are you're not going to get over them so easily unless something comeplety terrible they do puts you off so just go with the flow. There are girls I will probably never fully get over but at least there is someone else out there to make up for it.

 

[Stella]

I'm in love with someone who won't love me back. Two years, I've been in this addiction. It's terrible.​

On top of that, I'm bored. So it's like I can't get away from the thought.​

Eh, I know exactly how you feel.

I've had a crush on this guy in my grade for a pretty good while now, and last year we had a ton of classes together, so we became really good friends. We started hanging out a lot more, so when he and his then girlfriend broke up I was like "Yay! maybe now I have a chance!" So, to make a long story short, he did ask me out, but then broke it off before we even made it to the one month mark because he had eyes for someone else and thought we were better as "friends". It totally sucked.

Bad thing is I still like him, but hes like madly in love with this girl he broke up with me for. I have to see them walk together in the halls and stuff, and all I wanna do is rip the little wench's hair out

So, although my story isn't exactly the same as yours, I know what it's like to like someone who doesn't like you in return. My best advice to you is just to go out with other people and try not to think about this other person, which is what I've been doing. You've waited long enough for them, and as bad as this sucks, they obviously aren't going to return the love anytime soon. It'll probably take you awhile to get over it, but the hurt and pain will go away over time.