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Warbsywoo

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Have you ever fallen in love with anyone even though you've never talked to them before?
{I was arguing with myself whether this should be in The Pagoda or not :P}

Or rather, immediately liked them?
If you'd rather the whole forum not know, then....well, you know.

I'll just say I have. :|
 
I sometimes get horny when i see hot girls walking by...withought knowing who they are.

But i dont feel love at first sight.
 
Jimmy said:
I sometimes get horny when i see hot girls walking by...withought knowing who they are.

But i dont feel love at first sight.
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God, at least he's brutally honest.
How admirable. XD
 
Jimmy said:
I sometimes get horny when i see hot girls walking by...withought knowing who they are.

But i dont feel love at first sight.
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:rolleyes: At least it's only sometimes.

Anyway, of course...it's only natural. I wouldn't say "love at first sight" though, as I don't believe in that sorta thing. If someone's good looking, then you'd have this urge to talk to that someone, hoping you can get to know that person. Instant liking, right there.

Or just be like Jimmy. Ogle at their good looks and let nature do its uh own thing, and let them pass you by without ever getting to know them.
 
I used to see this girl all the time in school. I would daydream about how pretty she was and how cool it would be to be with her. I thought man this is love at first site. About a month went by and I finally worked the nerve up to ask her out. She turned out to be a drugged addicted looser and very insane. Needless to say I would try to get to know the girl before asking her out after that experince.

I also learned that appereances mean very little when it comes to the person. Yeah they have to be attractive but thats only one small part of a person. Who they truly are can be way more attractive to me than just the physical look.
 
I'm not so sure about love at first sight but I know I've been attracted to people very heavily in a extremely short amount of time before. Say like 7 hours or so... lol Now I've had it go the other way though. I've been "in love" with someone I've only ever talked to online but never seen, known in person, or even heard their voice.
 
I think I've done that a couple times already xD

I like this girl at school but never worked up the nerve to ask her......anything. -_-
I mean I tried, but hey, I didn't know the person.
The appearance is one thing but personality is totally different and more important, although sometimes we get blinded by the features more than the person him/herself.
 
I honestly don't focus that much on appearances, unless I find the woman extremely ugly... in which I always have several comments that are usually responded to somewhat like this "That's so rude!" or "No she's not! You're mean!". lol But personality is much more important. I fall in love finding out about a person. And yea, I'll be honest... I don't ever get into much details with guy friends. There is always "on the surface" stuff but I'm never anywhere near as interested or sensitive to guy friends as I am to female friends. But there's something about learning about them and knowing them in ways that not even their closest friends know them... it just really gets me going. lol Granted I often use it to tease them about it later... but that doesn't ever mean that I don't love knowing them on a more non-physically intimate level.
 
I 'gree. It definitely should be about personality. Unless they're ugly ;D
I try not to make too much fun, or I'd get slapped. But sometimes they get too angsty or rude that I just can't help it.
Girls down here seem to take their time at everything, and respond to you with...what's the word...condescension.
It's like they're superior or something, it's weird. :|

Anyways, knowing a person, in this a pretty girl :P is definitely important, 'cause decent girls actually look for that...right? =\
 
I'm not sure if decent girls look for decent guys. I can be caring and understanding but no one has ever said I was especially decent. There are enough people on here though that know me well enough to speak for me on those matters though. lol
 
Decent girls usually look for decent guys, yes...but well you never really know. I mean, there can be guys that are bad boys then suddenly turn decent after meeting the girl of their dreams, good looking or not. It really depends on the situation.

I mean, how does one define good looking anyway? People have their own personal interests in others. Some might find one particular attribute in another very attractive, but some may not. Or it can be the other way around. So what am I trying to say here?

I really have no clue. I just lost myself.
 
I've yet to see opposites attract. I mean it's hard to tell if someone likes you or not especially if you believe they're being mean to you.
It's practically impossible to tell if they think you're decent or not whenever that happens, I would suppose.

As for me? I've never been called decent in my life. Though I think that they think that I am. :worried:
 
I have had attractions to people, but not due to their appearances. Bodies are a mere shell and matters not compared to what they hold within.

With some people that I've watched, I felt drawn towards them by what they do by themselves or how they act around their friends. I found that a person who actually reads and keeps to himself/herself for the most part are the better people to get along with. They end up kooky and weird like me, but that's the joy of it. :D
 
I don't think I could ever really admire someone unless they did something incredible to amaze me. Such as idolizing celebrities and hollywood dwellers? It doesn't make any sense...Half of hollywood is just a bunch of coke addicted annorexic freckle monsters. Save for a few well-to-do people who actually care what they're doing with their lives.

I idolize my fiance for working so hard. He works 15 hour shifts quite frequently, and he manages a bunch of innapreciative morons, and I have to give credit where credit is due.
I'm quite taken by people who are smart and appreciative...
 
I dunno, quite often we just fall for appearances, if not all the time, a basic human flaw unfortunately.
It's not really up to what they do and how they do what they do, it's why they do it. There's always a reason to back up the action, and quite frankly, it makes all the difference in the world.

Or rather, it's like Shenorai and Nephany suggested, it's about virtue.
Physicality should take a back seat but everyone falls for it, believe it or not. ;)
 
I remember last year when I worked in the Food and Beverage department for Cirque du Soleil when it was in Sydney. I worked with this really pretty chick. She was Indian and my god she was pretty. Kind of had the Bollywood looks. Anyway, I got to know her and she was really nice. We got pretty close and we'd hang out during work breaks. It was kind of like we were going out but we werent if you know what I mean and she invited me to her 21st. Unfortunately after the 3 month contract finished we went our separate ways... We live 2 hours away. Havent spoken to her in several months... I would like to get in touch with her again though.
 
Then why don't you go out and get her Clyde? :P

Actually, I've done the same recently. :worried:
It's hard keeping in touch when you don't do anything in common like going to school or when you have the same job. In fact, I really should start taking my own advice. :P
 
I fell for my ex the second I set eyes on him. He looked like an actor I had had a crush on years and I was gob smacked when I seen him.
Id been texting him for ages as his friends was dating my friend. He ended his relationship to be with me and I was over the moon.
 
Love at first time, I must admit, is just....a weird feeling, and I am SO guilty of it. :P

... it's a tough loss whenever something like that happens Sapphire. :worried:
 
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