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ugh, so there is this girl i really like, and i do have her number, and i know as fact she likes me bac. she doesn't have my number

situation is we used to live in the same town but i moved southeast and she move northwest so now we are an hour apart. i really wanna call her but i don't know what im going to say, she doesn't know i like her.

and i can't even find the balls to call her

so ill ask everyone, help me get the balls to call her, and give me advice on what to say

please and thank u
 
Injest a moderate quantity of alcohol. Does wonders for bravery!
Mod edit: Can you please put more effort into your posts in the future. Thanks =)
 
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Hm...well, just pick the phone and dial her number.

When she speaks, think of it as a dream and when you hear her voice, start talking. Act like your day dreaming [but don't say anything perverted] and just talk to her normally. Its also good to say something about yourself and than ask about her. Listen and than ask her out :P

All I can really say is just call her and tell her you like her. All the girls I know want that, I would even want that. :>
 
Just send her a text if its a mobile

We can't help you pluck up the coutrage no matter WHAT we say. Although if you like her, and she likesyou, whats the problem? SHes probably wondering why the chuff you havent called yet
 
she's NOT wondering why i haven't called yet cuz she doesn't know i have her number

and the reason i cant call is like i said i have no balls XP and i have the ultimate shyness

and im highly influenced by what ppl say, so u could say things that would make me suck it up and call her >.>

AlessaGillespie said:
Injest a moderate quantity of alcohol. Does wonders for bravery!
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thats illegal -__- im 17!!!
 
Don't even think about it. Just call her. Tell her that you've missed her and wanting to see how she is doing. If the two of you live an hour apart then I assume you haven't seen eachother in a while.

DO NOT jump into an "I like you" conversation... not unless she starts it. That'll make you nervous and stutter, which will more than likely result in you making a fool of yourself.

Seriously though, if you don't call her soon, she's going to find some guy that lives closer to her. You don't want that, trust me. ^_~

If you're still having trouble working up the balls to give her a call... pound down a Red Bull or a Monster or something of the sorts. You'll be feeling so gittery that you'll want to talk on the phone and forget all about how much of a puss you're being.
 
ok i got the balls to call her, synlea calling me a puss got me to do it lol

it will be long distance but we r dating now, thnx everyone
 
MagitekElite said:
Hm...well, just pick the phone and dial her number.

When she speaks, think of it as a dream and when you hear her voice, start talking. Act like your day dreaming [but don't say anything perverted] and just talk to her normally. Its also good to say something about yourself and than ask about her. Listen and than ask her out :P

All I can really say is just call her and tell her you like her. All the girls I know want that, I would even want that. :>
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Do not overdo it though!
I a dream of mine I was too cynical...:P
Mate, why don't you just call her and ask her out for a drink or a coffee?
It's not as hard as it seems, I promise.
You don't have to let her know how you feel about her... if she's worth it, she'll probably understand it.
If she doesn't though, don't be hasty.
Ask her out a few more times...
As for the one hour separating you...
My x-gf was 8 hours drive away... Didn't matter at all...
 
Nocturne said:
Do not overdo it though!
I a dream of mine I was too cynical...:P
Mate, why don't you just call her and ask her out for a drink or a coffee?
It's not as hard as it seems, I promise.
You don't have to let her know how you feel about her... if she's worth it, she'll probably understand it.
If she doesn't though, don't be hasty.
Ask her out a few more times...
As for the one hour separating you...
My x-gf was 8 hours drive away... Didn't matter at all...
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I have dated farther away before, the question wasn't how would i deal with it, it was how would SHE feel about it! lol but we datin now so its all goooood
 
I wouldn't doubt yourself already. Hopefully though you are physically dating and not just talking by phone, otherwise that is not dating quite yet. Also keep in mind take it slow, don't declare yourself boyfriend and girlfriend off the bat.. treat it as platonic. Dating should be fun, not a mental case =).

I've dated some fun girls, but I could never see them being a girlfriend.. by a long shot, too wild and probably a lot of issues. Take care!
 
The thing is though, I don't really believe girls and guys can be friends...
Even if you don't really go for it, it will eventually come to it even as an issue of discussion "what would it be like if we were together"
 
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