Depression

Yaaay Haya! Yeah, I found myself checking up on my enemy after I finally split ties with her, it's only natural. The thing about human beings is that we're naturally conceited and curious, so we want to see how people live their lives without us. That way, we get the satisfaction of knowing that they're doing better or worse without you around. I totally know how that feels.

Just know that he's hurting, and he's probably partying/clubbing to try and get over you. That's his method, but at least yours is less showy, eh? :updown:
 
Haha. I am seeming so. He's out clubbing, partying, smoking, and drinking. >_<;; Wow...Funny how I do NONE of that stuff.

I just find myself sometimes wondering what the feck he is thinking. >_<;; It's so botersome to not know if he's doing good or bad without me. haha.

I am cool now though. 2 days without making contact and I've been keeping myself busy with jobs, dancing, and whatnot.
 
That's good, just stop talking to him. If you were so perfect for him then he would have stay with you. He obliviously wants to go out and be a man whore. Don't be around someone who's drinking and smoking. You're too good for someone who's intoxicating their body with that crap. Although he still has feeling for you, it will only hurt you in the end if you continue to talk with him. Don't let him on, just cut off any connection with him. You're young, there are so many men out there. You should not stress yourself over him, it's only doing damage to you.

I felt the same way too when I broke up with my boyfriend. It was hard, but it was for my own good... Later on he became a heroin addict! :neomon:
 
=O. No wai. Woooow. =/.

Yah, He did Weed too. It was quite annoying how he'd call me high or I'd call him and he'd be somewhat high, he gets so rude. >_<;;

Going on day 3 tomorrow. It's slowly getting better. =).
 
Later on he became a heroin addict!
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Jimmy Page was a heroin addict, and straight as i am, i wouldnt say no.:neomon:

but srsly, the pain will fade and in time go away. How we cope with pain is a reflection of who we are.
Me i like to get drunk.
Keats liked to indulge in poetry untill he transcended pain. Am i saying you should indulge in your own pain? no, but do what you feel you must, whatever seems natural to you
 
Takeru said:
How do you deal with it? Explain yourself, and read/answer this.

I am quite sure that I finally had my first REAL relationship and a month later it was over. =/. I mean, of course it was not that long at all...but, within that I had my first kiss only thing I didn't loose was my virginity. Luckily. Yesss, i've heard it all. "You're still young, you've got your whole life ahead of you"

Well, this is my first actual breakup and it feels like SHIT. I've not slept right in weeks, ate right, and been severly depressed on the inside. I sleep later with each day.

How do you move on? Especially when this person STILL txts you to see if you're alright, says "I love you" still, and makes sure you're safe and whatnot. Argh. It frustrates me, especially at how I was told "you're so perfect but, I just cannot hurt you any longer" How do you let something 'perfect' just go? AHHHH!

Thanks for reading this..
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As far as the texts go, they probably feel guilty about breaking up. They don't want to hurt you, but they don't want to be in a relationship any longer. That was just a fancy way of saying "it isn't you, it's me." I got the same treatment, my friend.

Actually, that entire thing sounds eerily similar to my situation this past summer. I don't really date much...but I did happen to meet someone who I liked enough to get somewhat involved with.

That only lasted a month. It was my first and only relationship. Definitely depressed me quite a bit. Unfortunately, I still get a little down n' the dumps on occasion...half a year after the break-up even.

How did I cope with it? The first few months were brutal. Did myself a lot of wondering and asked myself a lot of questions I couldn't possibly answer. I absorbed myself in schoolwork, my part-time job, Gears of War (life saver...this game is an anti-depressant), and Dragonball Z. ANYTHING to keep me from feeling depressed.

So yeah, that's what I did...so that's the advice I'll give you. Find something to keep yourself occupied...anything at all. Don't become detached from those around you, because then you won't just feel alone--you actually WILL be alone. lolololol

Goooood luck. *highfive*
 
That's actually alot of help because I've been busy with my job and meeting new people and stuff. ^__^;; It's been keeping my mind off him.

He DID txt me the other day with a picture that said "I <3 U" =/...it was one of those chain txt messages. And then he called me yesterday and was talking about suicide. Bah.

So, I think it's good when you can talk to someone and not feel anything for them.
 
Depression? I usually handle it by bottling it up inside until I can't hold it anymore, usually letting it burst out of me when I'm critically pissed. If I'm depressed, I won't be depressed for long, because a lot of my depression makes me angry and I eventually just get over it. :neomon:
 
Most people just get really sarcastic when they're depressed. It's so annoying, especially since they suck at your own vitality when they do that. :updown:
 
L said:
Depression? I usually handle it by bottling it up inside until I can't hold it anymore, usually letting it burst out of me when I'm critically pissed.
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I do that and it normally ends up in chaos >_<
 
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