Christmas Loner

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Hello, I feel rotten after this. I had a christmas party at school today, We basicly played on our laptops and ate candy canes. :wacky: But I didn't get any presents from anyone. I was the only presentless loner in the class. No one gave me anything at all. I gave everyone the gift of me not being a horassing retard for a whole day. But I didn't get a thing. I got a couple of "SHUT UPPP!!!"s and some "OMG HES GAY!!!"s and such. I am basicly a loser at school lol. I can't help it. Maybe you guys can give me some advice about this.

My Previous Actions:
"OH NO YOU DI'ANT GIRLFRIEND!"
"Like TOTALLYYY lets go to the mall on friday!!! AH!"
"PIEIEIEIEIEPIEIEIEIE!"
" EYE EYE EYE! IM YER LEETTLE BUTTERFLY! GREEN BLACK AND BLOO LEEVIN COLERS IN DA SKEEY!!"

Yea....:dry:
 
...-Moved to Pagoda-

My advice to you is not to let it get to you. That's really basically all. Trust me, I've been through this back in the days, and it used to bother me, but I learned that ignoring these whole "being part of the group" really made me feel a lot better. Yep, I was like the biggest loner in my elementary years. =)

And so what if people didn't give you Christmas presents? They're probably just little things anyway, like a card and some candy. No biggie. (Not unless they're from real friends...those are the ones that would usually count as sentimental.)
 
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I'm not forgein to this. I sometimes have to put up with soem idiot who thinks he is cool coz he has to take steroids for his health. Grrr, he pisses me off so much, but I don't let it get to me, neither should you. If you go about it right, one day you'll be dancing on their grave
 
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I got bullied early at school, by the end i was pretty popular but if there is one thing i learned from the whole thing i learned is if your gonna be picked on just ignore(And if you can embrace it) them. It helps so much better, it doesn't happen quickly but if they notice you don't react to what they say they won't bother. But life after school is so much differant. You'll find that when your about maturer you will be much happier. These are the people who will either have to change or nobody will like cause they're assholes.
Plus we all like ya here!
 
I have known that feeling.. somewhat.

Mitsuki's right though, don't let them bother you, and you'll find out who your real friends are soon enough, and after that who gives a damn about fitting in with the others?
 
You guys gave me perfect advice, and this is the truth, I always come to FFF when I am feeling down. You guys seem to cheer me up. I know another forum that is crap and the rules are retarded and strict so this place is like my happy day off. And I have no friends on my buddy list for some odd reason, but it seems everyone likes me anyway. So this is were most of my nicer friends are.
 
Yet again the "I need to be part of some group" syndrome. Listen kid, most teens can be cruel and stupid, mostly stupid, not saying that ALL are stupid. The number one rule to overcome the enormous amount of stupidity emanated from them is to IGNORE them. Look from this view: they've recently entered a stage of were they'll learn how to be an adult, so they might be confused and might act a little....irresponsible and a bit rebellious.

Being left out is something that happens to everyone. The worst fear of humans is to be alone or left out, so that explains why you get down. Anyhow, in time it will change and you'll meet people worthy of your friendship.
 
Emm...They mostly hate me because I am wierd. (I go around singing Britney spears in class! It's only a joke! I am not singing it because I like her!)
They say I am gay because I go "OH NO YOU DI'ANNT!" THESE ARE ONLY JOKES TO BE FUNNY OKAAYY? I don't do them because I like doing it, It's to be funny, and yes, I do go a little overboard sometimes.
 
Iv always been weird, but I was never bullied for it, if anyone ever said anything to me I'd tell them to sod off & carry on doing what I wanted anyway, and like Dazz says ^^ if they say something that hurts, well, try to act like it doesn't
In the end, people just accepted me for who I was and I pretty much got on with everyone fine
It's a shame they hate you, but I'd say that was their own narrowmindedness if you enjoy being how you are don't change just to fit in with a bunch of muppets.....
I hope that wasn't as usless as it sounded when I re-read it =/
 
Well, I'm going to add a bit to the whole "D'AWWW JUST IGNORE THEM" advice chain. Firstly, yes, try to ignore them.

However! Don't try to be overly obnoxious. Yes, be yourself and all that great stuff, but it's a classroom, and sometimes people need to tone it down with the loud singing/crazy behavior. Anyway, ever tried extending friendship to any of these people? I sort of doubt that not ONE person in your class has any redeeming qualities. You don't sound too shy, so you should try to be friendly or something to someone nice. People are generally pretty open to friendliness.
 
Friendly Advice: If you spend your time making jokes to catch their attention, singing and making a clown out of yourself, they'll never take you seriously. I know, it happened (well is still happening) to a friend of mine. He is the Omen for most teachers. :P

There's a thin line which divides funny and acceptable from excessively unneeded, moronic and obnoxious.

It's good to be yourself, but like there are times of joy there are also times of being a little serious. If they hate you, then just pretend you've never heard it. In time they will realize that no matter what they say, they won't affect you. It's hard at first, but you'll learn in time.
 
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