Can you see your negative qualities , can you face them?

=/ If there's one thing I hate, it's that. I guess it's because sometimes when someone's controlling me, or trying to at least, it's really hard for me to break from it and gain control of my own action...if that makes sense?

Well, there's different kinds of controlling. None are good but mine is the fact I'm worried a lot about practically everything. I try to control things so I can stop worrying but all it does is piss off the girls I like so it really doesn't help anything.
 
Haha, I came to terms with my negative qualities a long time ago. I can't really change who I am, so I've accepted them and taken them in my stride.

Bad Qualities
Very competitive
Sarcastic
Condescending
Little patience
Apathetic
Problems with authority
Stubborn

aaand I don't take other people's emotions into account a lot of the time. At first I was in denial about my 'darker' side, but now that I know all of the bad things about me, I feel a lot better. I think everyone else has come to accept me for who I am, too.
 
Haha, I came to terms with my negative qualities a long time ago. I can't really change who I am, so I've accepted them and taken them in my stride.

Bad Qualities
Very competitive
Sarcastic
Condescending
Little patience
Apathetic
Problems with authority
Stubborn

aaand I don't take other people's emotions into account a lot of the time. At first I was in denial about my 'darker' side, but now that I know all of the bad things about me, I feel a lot better. I think everyone else has come to accept me for who I am, too.


I thought about that authority one myself, but I figured most people our age have a problem with authority.

I don't see it as a bad thing personally
 
Whoa, negative qualities, where to start. :wacky:

Well I'm lazy,
I procrastinate too much,
I take my bad moods out on my friends,
I get fed up of people if I spend too much time with them, but not enough time and I get really lonely.
I have a habit/obession with spending all my money whenever I go out..
Too lazy to get a job, and I'd probably be shit at it if I did get one (and spend all of the money on food).
I get nervous in large groups.
I lack self-esteem - put myself down too much :-)monster:)
I tell people when i do well at something, and apparently i come across as big-headed. D: (which sort of contradicts the last point..)
I daydream too much, and tune out when people are talking to me really easily. And I get really nippy at people if they talk to me when i'm in my own little world... which is most of the time. -_-
I expect people to cheer me up if i'm down, regardless of their own problems...


Oh the list goes on, but I better stop now before I become really depressed. :wacky:

 
I thought about that authority one myself, but I figured most people our age have a problem with authority.

I don't see it as a bad thing personally

Eh, my goody-two-shoes friends have never had problems with authorities. Bootlickers. :monster:

But yeah, problems with authority have ended up in in-school suspension, detention, and being kicked out of band camp. So, I think it's a bad thing. xD
 
Eh, my goody-two-shoes friends have never had problems with authorities. Bootlickers. :monster:

But yeah, problems with authority have ended up in in-school suspension, detention, and being kicked out of band camp. So, I think it's a bad thing. xD
like finnegan said, most people our age have problemswith authority, im constantly arguing with teachers and just not doing what any of them tell me to.

Antagonistic
Sarcastic
Cynical
I can be very amoral
Smoker
Incredibly lazy
Unmotivated

i could write a lot more, but i dont want to get depressed
 
-Arguementive
-Easily Distracted
-Smoke too much
-Whenever people laugh and look at me always think its about me
-Don't put much effort into anything
 
What a useless thread, for I am completely perfect with no flaws to speak of! :{D

...Okay, now that the laughter has died down....

-Cold
-Obsessive
-Very shy with strangers
-Argumentative
-Lazy
-Too pessimistic sometimes
-Dramatic
-Arrogant

And that's just the tip of iceberg. :p
 
Oh yeah, I forgot to mention that I'm a manipulator, too. I'm terribly good at it, even with only a semester of Psychology under my belt. :elmo:

Ah, well. It helps for the Big Brother competition at my school; I'm completely controlling that game. :updown: I guess being a manipulator wouldn't be bad in that situation, but for all other environments it's bad to take advantage of people, I suppose.
 
Oh yeah, forgot to mention easily distracted... that's a very big one. -_- I could be talking to a teacher or something and then Ooooh shiny! and I'm away. ¬¬

I can be really sarcastic too, mostly with stupid people or my friends, which really annoys them. =/

And obsessive compulsive is another huge one which I forgot. -_-
 
-Drink too much
-Lazy
-Unmotivated
-Sarcastic
-Anti-social
-bad mouthed
-Too shy at crucial times
-Bottle things up
-Doesn't show real feelings
-Overly bitter
-Vengeful
-Easily distracted
-Odd humor

I could go on. Lets just say Twat and be done. But hey for every bad quality there is always a good one afterall:neomon:
 
Hahaha I can't believe I forgot foulmouthed :wacky:
I swear far too much

Oh and while Im back here trampling all over my self esteem I might aswel add bad mannered to that list. I burp and fart whenever the fancy takes me :wacky:

I also have way to many bad habits, cracking my knuckles picking my nose

I like to tell people when Im going to the loo and about my bowel movements...

...lets just say im about as unlady like as you can get :neomon:
 
Haha, I always say "I have to urinate," right in the middle of class. And sometimes I let bad words fly when adults are around... catches me every time. xD

I swear pretty moderately, though. I hate people who swear just to swear; if you're going to swear, be proper about it. :updown:
 
Im too common, swearing comes out so naturally I don't realise Im doing it half te time. I add fuck to like every sentance with out realising Im doing it

What can I say, Im common...Oh darn, that's yet another bad point >_<

*me goes to kill self*
 
Haha. But sometimes some of my friends will be like, "I don't know where the fuck the remote is." I mean really, do they have to swear in THAT instance? It doesn't even fit in the situation! Now if your teacher failed you because you forgot to put your name on your paper or sommat, then that's an entirely different situation. :P

Overall, I think swear words are stupid. I mean c'mon, who decided that they were swear words? If we said stuff like "bowel movement" and "intercourse" we wouldn't get yelled at, but why do we when we use a synonym? It's tomfoolery if you ask me.
 
My major negative quality...I'm really extremely stubborn..
I'm really persistant and I insist with everything - i don't accept a no as an answer!
Many times people won't take me seriously cause I'm almost never serious... I'm always telling jokes, being sarcastic... I guess it has a downside.

Originally posted by Reality.Fantasy
Overall, I think swear words are stupid. I mean c'mon, who decided that they were swear words? If we said stuff like "bowel movement" and "intercourse" we wouldn't get yelled at, but why do we when we use a synonym? It's tomfoolery if you ask me.
I couldn't agree more! I think swear has a correct and a wrong timing- For example, if you fell from a cliff and broke your arms and legs, that'd be more than the correct timing for you to scream "FUUUUUUUCK!! SHIIIT!!AHHH THE PAIN!!!" with all of your power!! But to swear in the middle of common phrases...it just doesn't seem right.
And I also agree about the stupidity of swear words being swear words... it's just a different way of naming something... If you call your house "home", nobody says anything, but, if instead of "act of reproducion" you say "fuck" near your parents, you're sure to get yelled..
You're right, it's tomfoolery!!!
 
I too am a huge manipulator. It's very useful, but very wicked.

It's always a trait many people don't think about, but I'm very aware of it personally, but I dont' know if that is good or bad. :p
 
-Bitchy. Really bitchy.
-Too friendly, it leads to me getting hurt a lot.
-Incredibly childish :monster:
-Overly mean sometimes.
-Clumsy D:
-Argumentative
-Lazy
-Bitter
-Hold grudges for too long
-Jealous
-Very controlling. Sometimes.

Meh. I can't think of anymore, I don't like thinking about my bad points, since trying to change really doesn't work for me.
 
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