Can you see your negative qualities , can you face them?

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Korytco

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Everyone has their 2 sides their good and evil. It is a lot easier to accept, realize your good qualities than it is to do so for your bad. Or is it not ? People differ.

If I ask you to post all / most of your self known negative qualities could, would you do it?

Mine

Argumentative, socially wounded, slightly egotistical , cold and dark sided. Bad with the girls, as in shy. Sloppy, lazy and paranoid.

People less often look for or can easily accept the things that make them bad or less fortunate. They just dont give a shit and complain. Like I do. OR simply can not see those qualities anymore due to ego or some such thing.
 
I definitely have an easier time realizing my positive qualities. I dislike outlining my negative ones, but it's not like I'm not aware of them.

A tad anti-social.
Horribly profane.
Poor temper when it comes to competition.
Lazy.
Little sense of priority.
Procrastinate far too often.
I can lie a little too easily when I choose to.
Questionable sense of humor; you won't laugh at some of the stuff I do.

Not too bad, methinks. Oh, and I hate kittens. Some people consider that evil.
 
Oh posting my bad points is easy :neomon:

I drink too much
Lazy
Selfish
Smoker
Argumentative
Moody
Unmotivated
Bottle things up
low self esteem
My priorites are all backwards aswel

That'l do for now before I start sounding REALLY emo:wacky:
 
Frsiky said:
That'l do for now before I start sounding REALLY emo:wacky:
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Haha I stopped myself, too. :D

Add unmotivated to my list. That's a good one right there.
 
Ack. Yes I am aware of them.

-Too self-conscious
-Bad-tempered, even when it comes to little things.
-Lazy (especially during the weekends)
-Moody
-Takes a lot of things a little too seriously
-Lately, I've been kinda unmotivated
-I tend to make a big deal out of the smallest things.
-When someone's talking to me, my mind sometimes wander on its own, and I have a hard time concentrating on what the person's saying.


There's more, but I can't really think right now.
 
Oh poor concentration, yeah Im there
Bad memory/forgetful
How annoying that I hjsut forgot what I was about to put next. Forgetfulness is probably the one I hate th most -_-

Im too sensitive lol, thats annoying aswel, Il cry at ANYTHING
 
Oh, yeah. I never thought about concentration. My mind always wavers when I'm supposed to be paying attention to someone.

I don't try to be rude. I probably have a mild case of ADD or something.
 
Im too easily distracted aswel, my ex would be talking to me and my mind would start wandering or something wqould cathch my eye. Id subconsiously just be agreeing with him then he'd be like are you even listening?

It's not MY fault he bores me:wacky:

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Adds impatient & paranoid to the list
 
-Lack of patience in all things
-Short temper when people don't agree with me/listen to me.
-Lazy
-No inhabition for the "important" things like school, work, the future....
-Paranoid in almost evevery way
-Controlling
 
Lazy as fuck
Smoker
Offensive
Viciously argumentative
Jump to conclusions
Short Tempered
Planning = No
Can't concentrate for prolonged periods of time
Daydreamy


That last one is particularly true, I often wander around on my own off in my own world, not really talking to people much, and if someone stops me to talk I'm normally wanting to leave and carry on in my own world for a bit, until I get bored. So I suppose Anti-social should come as well.
 
Oh here we go, Im off now, stupid thread, if this was about my good points I doubt Id even be posting

I never let anyone (men in particular) get close to me, this often leads to the breakdown of a relationship for me. The closer they get to me, teh more I push them away

I hold grudges and that conrtributes to the relationship break down aswel. Put a foot wrong and it's game over haha
 
Frisky said:
Im too easily distracted aswel, my ex would be talking to me and my mind would start wandering or something wqould cathch my eye. Id subconsiously just be agreeing with him then he'd be like are you even listening?
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Heh, I'm actually the same with my husband. And what's annoying is that he knows I'm not listening, and will ask "Are you listening?" to me anyway. And when I say, "Yep", he'll ask, "So what did I just say?" I'd make up some shit or desperately try to remember the last thing he said. This usually happens when I'm on the phone with him and posting here on FFF at the same time. xD

Nikkolas said:
Controlling
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=/ If there's one thing I hate, it's that. I guess it's because sometimes when someone's controlling me, or trying to at least, it's really hard for me to break from it and gain control of my own action...if that makes sense?
 
Oh relationships, I fail at that whole commitment shit, I'm normally distracted by some other girl (as is the case now)

Either it's me being awkward and stuff, or I keep choosing the wrong person.

I'll go with the first one, or maybe both.
 
I keep finding more qualities that apply to me as I read more posts.

Let's just say I'm fucked up and call it a day.
 
For me my biggest failings are laziness both in and out of work and to not push myself to improve. I tend to go for the easy option rather than go for something that would be harder but more rewarding in the long run for me.
 
Mitsuki said:
=/ If there's one thing I hate, it's that. I guess it's because sometimes when someone's controlling me, or trying to at least, it's really hard for me to break from it and gain control of my own action...if that makes sense?
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Me too, the dad of my little girl was so unbelievably controlling. I totally understand what you mean. That, jelousy and possessivness are he worst traits a person could have and he had all three with a stinking vengance. I think thats why i find it hard to commit myself now actually, Im very distant and if anyone tries to tell me what to do I fly off the handle a little and Im more likely to do the complete opposite, just because I can

VoN said:
I keep finding more qualities that apply to me as I read more posts.

Let's just say I'm fucked up and call it a day.
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same here :wacky:
 
I would like to say that I can admit to some of my negative qualities, if I am aware of it. At least I would think so because I'm not perfectionist enough to believe I must be perfect, and therefore, have no negative qualities. Although I would say it's easier for me to accept my negative qualities because they're very similar to those of people with Asperger's.

I am insensitive, blunt to a fault, lazy, careless, unorganized, critical, absent-minded. Maybe more, but I don't remember them at the time being.
 
Oh again, as I've stated numerous times, the dual nature of the human being is quite unpredictable. So no one can be completely evil or good, basing ourselves that the concept of good and evil depends on the majority's point of view.

Now with this list:
-Tend to turn every thread into a philosophical debate.
-Was obsessed with perfection
-I have partially no interest things that most people of my age tend to like. For example: what's so important about the damn Senior Prom?
-I tend to behave mechanically as if I carefully planned my every move, answer and sometimes reactions to situations (it's hard to control reactions)
-I am obsessed with life and death
-I hate my birthday because it feels like the sands of time are against me.
-I fail with most conversations because people tend to get confuse with the words I use (Spanish, I haven't reached that level of knowledge in English....yet :wacky:)
-I am not easily impressionable....
-I am stopping this list now because I can't be arsed to write more :gmonster:
 
Actually, your English is quite good. It's certainly better than particular native speakers I've seen here.

Probably because you're using proper grammar and spelling.
 
Angelus-Mortis said:
Actually, your English is quite good. It's certainly better than particular native speakers I've seen here.

Probably because you're using proper grammar and spelling.
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Oh, I am flattered. Thanks Angelus. Well yes, I've seen people with awful grammar and sometimes I wonder if it is that HARD to spell right.

Now adding two more to the list:
-I tend to dedicate too much time to reading...but wait....that's not negative....:confused:
-I am the one who leaves homework for the day before the due date.
 
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