I Think I'm Starting To Fall In Love

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I'm goin through exactly the same chrisis, except me and thne girl i fancy dont talk a lot and the fact that there has been rumours going around explainging how i feel about herdont exactly help. I know she's heard them because preadolescent shites have got excited and told her

I dont know where stand, but i because you and her are good friends, that helps. I know its hard to tell her...incredibly, but...its gotta be done
 
I'm scrapping the whole idea. Involvement with friends, more grief than its worth.

So ladies of FFF, how you doin'? ;)
 
Nothings gone wrong, just unexpected (though did get a tad drunk and started coming about what may have been a tad strong to a more sober mind, but shes cool with it haha). She's vaugely seeing another friend of ours, which is fine, but I don't think its worth bringing it up now this recent development has unfolded, would cause unecassary complications within the social life etc...
 
Awww, its sweet that youre letting her see this friend.
Im sorry it didnt work out, but you never know!
 
He's a good decent guy, better him than most to be honest.


Still it won't last, I don't give it long :P....
 
Moonchild said:
I've recently started having thoughts and feelings of the 'romantic' kind for a good friend of mine. Now wouldn't be a problem, but I've gotten involved with a friend before and it ended up going to the shitter very early, caused a lot of pain and I don't really wanna go there again....but at the same time I do >_<

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That's a very sensitive situation to be in. It depends on your friend's personality. I have been in that situation before, but as things started getting more and more intricate, I realized that I was making a humongous mistake. I never even got to second base with this person and after I shut myself off to him, I still felt uncomfortable around him for quite a while.
If this is someone who's friendship you truly value, I wouldn't change it. =\
It's easy to develop feelings for a close friend, but it's also easy to completely alter your friendship by taking that step.
 
Isn't it freaking awful when you fall in love with people who are either uninterested or never around long enough to really connect with...? That's pretty much the story of my life. xD

Hell... I had a crush on a girl for about 5-6 years once (I'm a shy panda, don't patronize me. >.<) and never got up the courage to tell her, probably mostly because all of my friends developed crushes on her as well shortly after they found out I had a crush on her.

The last year, I wrote her a few poems, slipping them into her bookbag every few days. I always had intended to ask her out, but froze up everytime she was around. One day, she asked me to walk with her alone outside of the school buildings. Being the retard I am, I accepted and walked with her, the perfect opportunity to ask her out that I didn't take.

Next day, I resolved to ask her out once and for all. I sat next to her and she asked if she could ask me a question. I said yes, and she said "Would it be alright if I started dating someone online in another country?" I reluctantly said yes, thinking that was what she wanted.

Now, I'm a manic depressant, she has her online relationship going on it's third year, and she hates me because I'm always so down. Love is a b****.
 
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LupineVoid said:
Now, I'm a manic depressant, she has her online relationship going on it's third year, and she hates me because I'm always so down. Love is a b****.
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Yeah I know how that feels. What the hell is it that girls get funny when a bloke is moody? Obviously somethings wrong woman! :wacky:

Can't see how she can pull off an online relationship and feel satisfied with it. Long distance for me is bad enough, nevermind a whole diffrent country. If your still intrested in her, you may still have a chance possibly.

Hahaha we had dinner together last night (she get 50% off due to workin there) and she kept talking about how she missed the new guy. I wasn't exactly comfortable at that point but ITS STILL GOOD! >_<
 
Moonchild said:
Yeah I know how that feels. What the hell is it that girls get funny when a bloke is moody? Obviously somethings wrong woman! :wacky:

Can't see how she can pull off an online relationship and feel satisfied with it. Long distance for me is bad enough, nevermind a whole diffrent country. If your still intrested in her, you may still have a chance possibly.

Hahaha we had dinner together last night (she get 50% off due to workin there) and she kept talking about how she missed the new guy. I wasn't exactly comfortable at that point but ITS STILL GOOD! >_<
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Yeah most of the time it's women, or money.

I'm in a long distance problem right now, we broke up but she still likes me and vice versa, she said we need to talk in person, so I'm going to goto Cardiff at some point next week.


This shit is bananas
 
Finnegan III said:
Yeah most of the time it's women, or money.

I'm in a long distance problem right now, we broke up but she still likes me and vice versa, she said we need to talk in person, so I'm going to goto Cardiff at some point next week.


This shit is bananas
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We'll look at it this way, at least you'll be in Cardiff! If shizzle doesn't work out, you have hot Welsh chicks to drown your sorrows with till the sun comes up. Win win.

Sortin out with said girl however would be better, good luck man.
 
Okies... So... I've liked this girl for awhile now, and she knows it, and she seems to like me as well. The only hurdle is she's lesbian (or bi) and is in a relationship with another girl currently. For the time being, I'm helping her with some problems she's having with her ex-boyfriend.
 
LupineVoid said:
Okies... So... I've liked this girl for awhile now, and she knows it, and she seems to like me as well. The only hurdle is she's lesbian (or bi) and is in a relationship with another girl currently. For the time being, I'm helping her with some problems she's having with her ex-boyfriend.
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Then the girl is confused, and I don't think you want to end up being the hankerchief in the situation. My advice is just to put it in the back of your head, make some art or play some games. Read some books. Get out there, explore the city and meet new people.

I know this situation all too well, and you don't want to lament later on.


As for me, I can't find anyone that'll tame my heart other than the elite illustrator in the school, wo happens to love Transformers and games.. Like I do. I reject girls and boys, and dream of one day finding my better half in the gardens of some far, far away Persephone... Sigh.

Back to reality!
 
LupineVoid said:
Okies... So... I've liked this girl for awhile now, and she knows it, and she seems to like me as well. The only hurdle is she's lesbian (or bi) and is in a relationship with another girl currently. For the time being, I'm helping her with some problems she's having with her ex-boyfriend.
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Help her with her problems if, and only if, you are doing it because you are her friend and nothing more. If you realise its making you feel like shit for any reason because you like her, walk away. Maybe after her stint with the current lass has ended you'll have a chance but best for now is to, as the Stonercola says, put it at the back of your mind as much as possibe.

stonercola said:
<3!! You talk as I do in person. (Pretty much, in a nutshell.)

I didn't enjoy the new movie as much, I was mostly the hardcore Beast Wars fan watching it every morning before school and having to leave before the climax, so I never found out resolutions for plots.

That, and ultimately... Reboot.
Plus some unknown computer animation clips inbetween shows.
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Reboot was ace, I remember that fondly.
 
Who doesn`t? I wish they still made cartoons like that.
Now we have anime with pointless plots. (no offense meant whatsoever)
 
stonercola said:
Who doesn`t? I wish they still made cartoons like that.
Now we have anime with pointless plots. (no offense meant whatsoever)
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Indeed, I can't stand most Anime just because of that. The plots really don't make sense. Then again nor does a gigantic purple (was it purple? its been so long) cube falling from the sky at random intervals that whisks you off to a virtual world where anything could happen but It still worked for me haha.
 
Ah I missed the very last episode of Reboot so i never found out if Enzo & whatshername made it home.....

On topic *ahem* I didn't read the full 4 pages so were the feelings for this girl you thought you were falling for mutual....????
 
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