Do you want/Have children?

Do you want/Have children

  • Yes, i want children

    Votes: 19 46.3%

  • No i don't

    Votes: 11 26.8%

  • Proud parent

    Votes: 3 7.3%

  • Not sure

    Votes: 8 19.5%
  • Total voters
    41
Okami said:
kids = evil.

for once you instantly see it's benefits,

* no people carrier
* smaller house
* no education fees
* no birthdays
* no christmas
* better holidays
* you ACTUALLY have a career
* no embarrassing moments. period.

you can seriously save money.
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But I like to be people carrier, have a bigger house, have education fees, birthdays, christmas, crap holidays, not having a career and having embarrasing moments^_^ I don't care about the money, as long as I and my loved ones enjoy living;) After all, we were kids right :D
 
Shiva said:
But I like to be people carrier, have a bigger house, have education fees, birthdays, christmas, crap holidays, not having a career and having embarrasing moments^_^ I don't care about the money, as long as I and my loved ones enjoy living;) After all, we were kids right :D
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to your parents yes, but this is about us though :)

i might take back the house part, use the "kids" rooms as a studio...
 
Okami said:
to your parents yes, but this is about us though :)

i might take back the house part, use the "kids" rooms as a studio...
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It depends on the parents doesn't it? You know the way you raise your kids. You can tell them that if they won't listen to you a big green monster will come to eat him, and he will believe you.
 
My answer to this is short.

No.

I hate small children, and children in general. they're loud, noisy, messy, obnoxious expensive, they get in my way when i walk down the corridor, they yell at you when you push them away, they swarm like ants.

>_<

I just dislike children. immensly.
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I couldn't have said it better AG. God I hate babies. Annoying little brats. They are like torturing tools.
 
I voted no.

Honestly, I'm not at that age where I can really decide yet. My parents especially mother, has been pushing me not to marry. However I just think she can be a really jealous woman for her not-as-happy-and-great-as-it-could-be, marriage.

No marriage for me means no children. I don't plan on being a single parent. However when I find the need to have an "heir"... I will do so only if I whole heartedly agree to spread on my genes. I personally think our family gene pool is bad. It's like a cycle of rage in our family. But that may be more psychological than anything gene related. But family is family... A generation's burden carries on.
 
No.

It's a whiny, crying, fleshy crapping machine who's only function is to slowly drive you insane and forces you to spend thousands of dollars for nearly nothing in return. I think i'll pass on creating one, thank you. If I want a loving look from someone, I would go to my wife for that, not something that drives me crazy every other hour.

Heh, IF I can find someone to truely love enough to marry, that is. At this rate, It is highly doubtful...
 
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Funny how ungrateful and selfish people can be... A lot of people seem to forget that they too once were little children, and that someone had to make a lot of sacrifices for them.

I love kids, true sometimes they are annoying and what not, but still if my parents and a lot of others put up with it so will I. It's a big and beautiful world, why not let them enjoy it too. :)
 
I'm not really sure if I want to have kids. Honestly I can't stand kids. Babies are cute but I can't handle the crying and the messiness of them and taking care of them all the time. I can't even take care of a goldfish.
 
I don't want kids. Even when I turn 30, 40, or even 50 I still can't see myself owning any. I don't have too much free time on my hands, what with the bowling and video games and my job, and I would like to keep my free time all for me.
 
There are good kids and bad kids. Sometimes you encounter kids that make you want to take a kitchen knife and cut out your ovaries, and sometimes you encounter kids that are so sweet and adorable that you want to adopt them. I'd like to think that any kids I'd have would be the latter but...well, one can never tell.

Anyway, I don't think I want kids. Maybe I'm saying this because I'm only 20, but I think I'm way too selfish to have children. I would be a terrible mother and all that would come out of it is neglect and deep psychological scarring on both ends.

Anyway, if I ever DID decide to have kids, I'd hope for a daughter. And only one. I don't think I could deal with more than one kid x_x Hmm, and I'd hope to be as amazing as my mom is :)
 
dimmufan said:
Even when I turn 30, 40, or even 50 I still can't see myself owning any.
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That line alone tells me you don't need children. Owning any? They're not a pair of shoes. >_<

I'm still undecided as to whether or not I want children. My sister has two and two of my best friends each have one. While I love them all and enjoy playing with them, babysitting and buying them things, I also like giving them back to their parents when they start acting out.

It takes a lot of devotion to raise a child and one really needs to be prepared to dedicate their life to someone else. At this point, I know I'm not ready for that. Maybe someday though.
 
I have 1 child. Never ever saw myself as a parent growing up. I seriously disliked irritating screaming children. I can safely say I won't ever have anymore, I'm happy enough with the one little mini me causiing chaos lol. i just don't think I'm maternal enough to have a whole brood of them & also being a single parent kinda puts a dampner on the whole family idea!
 
I don't think I really want kids myself.

Most girls I know actually love the idea of having a family. They already know what they'd call their boy or girl, and have plans for how many they'll have and how far apart. I've thought of none of this. I just want to be happy in life, and I don't want to have my life changed by a kid. I want to write, and this is only possible in peace. Kids, especially the young ones, disturb ones lifestyle too much for my liking. Yes, 5/6 year old kids are adorable, but that short time flashes past in the blink of an eye. Next thing you know, they're teenagers. They argue back, beg for cash and get drunk to avoid doing homework. That's what many teenagers I know do at least. I don't drink, but I can't deny the rest.
 
One of my dreams someday is to have children and be a wife... but I don't want to think of that for another 4 years.... And 4 years seems to be coming fast. It's a little frightening. =S
 
I definitely want children, two or three. But only when I'm a little more prepared for them. I know I'll never be completely prepared for kids, but at least as prepared as possible.
 
I'd love too have children eventually. I'm an only child too so the pressure's on me to continue the family name 0.o
Don't get me wrong, I don't love crying little stupid kids either, but they're not that way all the time...Hopefully!
 
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