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Oblivion_XIII

Oblivion_XIII

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I'm in a big hell hole right now.
My mom is being a bitch for no reason, so won't stop telling me and my dad to go fuck ourselves, she screams at me for little tiny things, and she said that all my school problems (bullying, fights, ect.) are all my fault, and they're not.

Next, all my friends are being assholes or just plain old leaving me, for no reason. I have a few friends, but they aren't real good friends, I haven't know them for long except for 3, and 2/3 are being jackasses half the time.

School, I get bullied because I'm smaller than everyone and I'm smart. I've been in fights, and I've had kids stalking me home to find out where I live so they can jump me. And I'm called "gay" because I can't get a girlfriend, and I get harassed on a daily basis about it, and trust me, I'm not a fan of homosexuality, It doesn't seem right for me, maybe for other people, but not me. And I'm "good friends" with the deans and the principal at my school, but they're at the point where they cannot do much anymore, they've tried hard.

I'm loosing my motivation, becoming emotionally dead, my life is a hell hole and I'm only 14, and from what I know, It's gonna be worse.

any help or advice, this is the only place i can go now
 
that must be hell for you,maybe its the economy,if you come to canada and live their,your parents will get good jobs their and will be on good terms,and most people their are friendly.
 
I've wanted to move away from the US for a while now, Canada was my first choice
 
dont go against any parents,i heard that a lot of kids in america have a hard life with their parents,you should all come to canada,your life will change,the government is way better.
 
but my parents dont care about what i think about that, and I havent been against my parents since my mom has been weird, I still listen to my dad a little though
 
in canada,education is no problem,the government could give u money if you dont have a job.obama said that the canadians are proud of their own economy,im sure your parents wont listen cuz they grew up in america and have more experience their then anywhere else. America scares me to tell the truth
 
I want to move to canada so bad, I love the beauty of some of the forests, and i wanna see a wolf up close even if it tries to kill me
 
Oblivion_XIII said:
I'm in a big hell hole right now.
My mom is being a bitch for no reason, so won't stop telling me and my dad to go fuck ourselves, she screams at me for little tiny things, and she said that all my school problems (bullying, fights, ect.) are all my fault, and they're not.

Next, all my friends are being assholes or just plain old leaving me, for no reason. I have a few friends, but they aren't real good friends, I haven't know them for long except for 3, and 2/3 are being jackasses half the time.

School, I get bullied because I'm smaller than everyone and I'm smart. I've been in fights, and I've had kids stalking me home to find out where I live so they can jump me. And I'm called "gay" because I can't get a girlfriend, and I get harassed on a daily basis about it, and trust me, I'm not a fan of homosexuality, It doesn't seem right for me, maybe for other people, but not me. And I'm "good friends" with the deans and the principal at my school, but they're at the point where they cannot do much anymore, they've tried hard.

I'm loosing my motivation, becoming emotionally dead, my life is a hell hole and I'm only 14, and from what I know, It's gonna be worse.

any help or advice, this is the only place i can go now
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I'm really sorry to hear about this. I've never been in your situation however, I know that it must be hard for you since your only just fourteen. I'd say just hang in there and keep your head up high. If it's only your mom being the bitch-- at least you have your dad by your side instead of it being both parent's. As for your friend situation-- It really does suck not having really close friends that you can trust and whatnot but maybe things will turn around. Its shameless that people would bully other kids however, you just have to brush them off. Act like you don't care and maybe they'll leave you alone. I had a thing happen to me when I was younger when someone was being rude and took something of mine and I kept trying to get it back and my dad told me that next time to act like you dont care (cause they keep doing it for attention) and i did, and they left me alone. It might not be the case for you but its something to think about.

Just be strong. =]
 
the north of canada,you will find a lot of lakes and people living in quiet lives,somewhat like a paradise.A lot of fishing happens their in spring and summer,where you find these lakes are in north of quebec.
 
Just be strong. =]
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thanks, and btw, my dad is really my step-dad, and i dont know my real dad. But at least i have someone that i can survive living with, and i have people here too!
 
Bison, thanks for the info, but im not gonna be able to move to canada unless i move when im 18, or something drastic happens
 
The friends situation will gradually get better. Especially in college. You'll find a group of uber nerds like us =p
 
Oblivion_XIII said:
thanks, and btw, my dad is really my step-dad, and i dont know my real dad. But at least i have someone that i can survive living with, and i have people here too!
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Oh your so welcome! I'm just glad I could be of help some way or another :hmmm: and yes! If you have a solid relationship with him-- he can be that 'friend' that you can rant to xD My dad's my bestie :3

And of course! You do have us here =] We can be buddies :3
 
true,college in canada,theres a lot nerds,everyone from the world comes to these colleges,you will find a hell a lot of asians their, all from different countries of asia,well,we dont see a lot of japanese around lol
 
collage parties, thats the main reason i want to go to collage, that, and playing video games, watching tv, ect all night in a dorm with your buddies, and education
our Hispanic pop is bigger than our White pop
 
lol its impossible almost,to not make friends with asians in college,their everywhere,but if you befriend them,they will invite you to parties of their families or friends,you could meet an asian girl lol if shes nice

on the other note,in college you have a lot of freedom,its a place where u take your time in life,if your educated and come here and live like 15 years here,go back to america and tell your parents "mom and da,you hsould have come along,this is what happenes when u never listen to your child".
 
lol, i want to go to NY, Boston, or some other big city for collage, not Canada or Chicago, because i live to close to chicago
 
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