What do you look for in the opposite sex?

erm lets c...well as long as he is not repulsive im happy as far as looks...personality wise...well a good listener but also willing 2 share stuff...i dnt feel secure in a relationship if we cnt tlk about stuff...erm funny i always ace...got a serious side as well tho...basically stuff i would look 4 in a friend...
 
I really don't mind. Personality is everything to me, anything else really doesn't matter. I think I found her, the one for me, i'm just not sure yet.
 
I used to have a nearly perfect girlfriend but we broke up because she hated me because i spent my whole day in front of a screen (ps2 or computer).....
 
Let's see, what do I look for in the opposite sex? For me, it's mainly personality and attitude. Looks are always a plus, but looks aren't everything.
 
Hmm...

Well, I'd go for a pretty looking girl, obviously. She'd have to be a cheerful person, and exciting. Generally someone playful, happy, and caring at the same time. I mean, I wouldn't go out with some fat, ugly girl, even if she has the greatest personality ever. Ridiculously overweight people are a major turn off for me. =\
 
i can't go out with overweighted people(i mean as a date)
i would look so tiny if front of them and i'm already tiny.

all the others don't bother me,only that.
 
lol. It's not just that. I'd find it kinda disgusting. I just don't see how people could let themselves get into that state.
 
Mm there's a variety of things that I look for in a guy. The first thing I notice is eyes. So if he has nice eyes, then I'm falling. I do not care for colour, it's more about what they express. For example, if they're just empty eyes, with no emotion, then I don't find him quite so attractive.
 Hair, I hate anything that is gelled excessively. I mean, I can't run my hands through concrete. Surfer kind of hair, tousled and messy, hell that is damn sexy. I love that kind of style <3 Blonde is a preferred colour, or brown, but it's not that important to me.
Clothes wise, I hate baggy pants that hang below the arse xD I mean come on, underwear is called underwear for a reason. Just a casual style like jeans and a t-shirt, or half open shirts = yummy. And someone who doesn't mind making an effort when required is nice too - someone who's not afraid to put on a suit or something should the occasion arrise.

Personality wise - someone who is laid back, yet knows when to be serious is a big turn on. And a good sense of humour. I'd hate to feel like I'm walking on egg shells all the time. Someone who is adventurous, who's not afraid to try new things is also a big yes for me, I like that in a guy. And thoughtfulness, not someone who is obsessed with football all the time [I don't mind sitting down and watching a match, but there is a limit xP] or anything like that - conversations, deep ones at that, are nice.

On a final note, smokers = Don't stand a chance. The biggest turn off ever! Sorry if that offends anyone.

 Oh, and someone who just accepts me for who I am, who is willing to take me as I stand. Thanks x].
 
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Sephire said:
Clothes wise, I hate baggy pants that hang below the arse xD I mean come on, underwear is called underwear for a reason.[/quote]

Hey, that's surprisingly comfy, for reasons I won't go into detail about. :P Apart from that, the description you gave sounds a lot like me. xD

But yeah, I've kinda fallen for this girl I met at this halloween party a while back. She's got an amazing personality, and she's really pretty, too. A rare find. She's the sort of person who won't take shit off anyone, and she's not afraid to speak her mind about people. XD

http://i54.photobucket.com/albums/g89/TheWelshPaddy/Halloween Party/PaddyAndCeri.jpg

There she is, on the right. ^_^
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The Welsh Paddy said:
Hey, that's surprisingly comfy, for reasons I won't go into detail about. :P Apart from that, the description you gave sounds a lot like me. xD
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Eeerm, do I really want to ask what is so comfy with your butt cheeks hanging over the top the waistband of your jeans? :P Yes, actually, I do. So yeah, what's so good about it? xD

And heh, that's kind of cool we have similar expectations. I thought I was quite picky when it comes to choosing a boyfriend o_O.

Congratulations on finding the girl, she does look very pretty. Cool costumes you both have to, I want it to be halloween again. [I pray they are halloween costumes xD].

I forgot to mention another thing I look for in a male, which is height. Call me strange but I feel very uncomfortable if I'm taller than my boyfriend [which happened once I think]. They have to be taller, I prefer it that way.
 
well it will mostly count on her personality not fully on looks and i would really hate a girl with no sense of humor (at least there aren't much of these types of girls with no sense of humor) i dont like people who are serious all the time but i think i just found one today...yay ^_^
 
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